Does society coddle/pacify women too much these days?

[Ahadi]

ACTUALLY, women thrived more in the pandemic because most women work jobs that can be fulfilled at home (remotely) where as though most men work jobs that require them to be on location…. Second, men commit suicide, suffer heart attacks and get various types of cancer at an alarming rate more than women now a days… AND black women are getting promoted in corporate America LEVELS more than black men are in the last 3-5 years so I’m not sure I can really agree with your entire statement .

Actually women were hit the hardest. Majority were laid off, quit to have babies or to be housewives. Just like my 5 ex-co workers, including my CEO.

20 million women (called it a she-cession)

The Shecession: How the Pandemic Is Impacting Women’s Careers

NPR Cookie Consent and Choices

Why the Pandemic Is Forcing Women Out of the Workforce

The Coronavirus Recession is a “She-cession” - IWPR

Promoted more than men where?

https://www.cnbc.com/2020/10/13/pandemic-fallout-men-got-3-times-more-promotions-than-women.html



& Less likely to ask for a promotion or raise

During the pandemic, women are less likely to ask for raises and promotions

The only thing that increased were diversity and inclusion positions and MAYBE SOME women were promoted into those roles, but it wasn’t in large drones.

 

[Ahadi]

That is why the Drill Generation with the #HOH attitude will win. You ain't see nothing yet.

This is the glory era for the thot and the feminist woman. It will come to an end, like old school gangsta rap or like crack.

I believe it. A turn is definitely going to take effect and this thot bubble is about to bust.

 

[Mike809]

This thread has been recycled hundreds of times , and yet it still does numbers

 

[Wild self]

bro I’m turning 35 this year and I can relate to what you’re saying on many levels. I remember those early 2000’s nights going to the clubs and lounges feeling like all the 30 and over dudes and drug dealers were getting all the hoes


and yeah shyt has been washed up and remixes so much over the years. I’m glad I’m in a committed relationship with a solid womam and no longer feel the need to go out 2-4 times a week like I did when I was a young boy.

I'd say that the competition was so intense back then, that you damn near had to crack The Da Vinci Code to get substainal play. I muscled through it, and was broke too in the Recession years.

If I wanted to be out there like that again, I can clean house with the extreme lack of competition in 2022 with the young dudes under 25 not even participating going in clubs anymore as well as delusional desperate older women begging for attention.

 

[Bossino]

Yeah man, I saw a nikka and a black woman having a disagreement at a bars couple weeks ago… I could tell that her and the man had just met that same day. The woman got COMPLETELY outta line with what she was telling this guy. She poked his chest a couple times and was swelling up on him…. Finally dude had had enough and he started to check her…. Maaannnnnn you shoulda seen how many random black men came from outta the wood work and started caring for the woman and telling dude to calm down and dead the shyt. First off, dude was trying his best to be patient with the chick for several minutes before he finally lost it and second, this chick was poking and touching him and saying some pretty disrespectful things…. And third, nikkas should have just minded their business and let them handle their own shyt… as long as he doesn’t punch/slap her, it’s whatever. But noooo, dudes (and the other women in the bar) automatically just put all blame on the guy and he was even asked to leave after that like WTF

He played himself by not leaving immediately if a bytch wants to act like a child I'll treat her just like her pops and abandon her on the spot. I don't seek women out for conflict, life gives me enough of that just existing as a black man

 

[Bossino]

How am I eliminating myself from the gene pull when I already said I’m in a happy relationship with a woman whom is about to have my child soon and I I’ve had several great binds with women over the years…. I’m not saying I’m losing sleep over this topic BUT it needs to be addressed and continue to be because I’m the next few years as feminism grows, social media grows etc, it WILL get worse and eventually more and more men will feel the wrath…

Idk what you mean by feel the wrath, eventually some destabilizing event will happen, natural disaster, power outage, WS losing their minds in Murica, etc. and men eill fend for themselves as they always have had to meanwhile women, well they can ask the single women of Ukraine how that's going. Men may feel shunned, but wrath is overkill. Women wanna have unrealistic standards, cool porn and escorts exists, sex tourism exists, if you don't require a family women are merely an accessory to life not a necessity

 

[Bossino]

Not sure but if you pay attention..there's a huge push social media wise to credit black women above black men in a variety of matters..voting, etc. Odd. I see nothing but like sell out type of black women in the under 35 bracket. So that narrative is buck wild. Kim Kardashian has seemed more pro black men than a variety of black women who have a voice to the masses. Sad.

I went to a BSU meeting at my college, last week. The topic was celebrating black women, and it was 1.5 hours of mostly bw circle jerking each other and shytting on men. I'll go for one more meeting, see if a different topic changes the energy/the turnout but if not I'm cool on it. It was honestly disgusting tbh

 

[Bossino]

35

But when I was 18 to 24, the competition was FIERCE for young dudes in the club. There were a lot of broke college brehs competing against the 30+ brehs with money during the crunk/trap/Drake eras of clubbing trying to bag women. That was when shyt was getting outta hand and the black male bashing for being "broke" was the norm, especially when wages were low from the mid 00s to mid 2010s. The rise of social media made the problem worse x 1000, but I was told to always reinvent myself and not be a coward or be a woman-hating incel.

Gen Z saw what Gen Y had to go through, and they are like "fukk that shyt, cause the juice is not worth the squeeze anymore" while the divested themselves from mainstream society as a whole altogether. These late 90s and early 00s babies already turned society upside down with withholding their money and use it on drugs and Drill music instead. Now, the simp based economy is beginning to collapse and even Drake (yeah, that DRAKE) ain't setting the trends like that anymore. Dont be shocked that Drake himself will retire in a couple of years due to the changing trends of the times.

This will only get worse for the females that take money from dudes, cause its about to dry up.

They still be able to get money but they'll have to make their holes available

 

[HarlemHottie]

Yep. Can’t say anything about a black guy even if he’s wrong unless you are a feminist, a bytch, a hater, a black man basher. There are plenty of black men and black women who refuse to touch accountability when it comes to black men.
There’s an entire narrative there that black girls are raised and black men are coddled as mama’s boys living off their black moms while the daughters are shytted on.

So yeah a lotta black women feel black men are coddled by blk male culture just like black men feel black women are coddled by black female culture

So who exactly is coddling bm? Their moms or each other? Bc you got two competing narratives there, one of which is outdated. You wont need to worry about the moms going forward. Younger bw have been adequately propagandized at this point to treat their sons like shyt.

To your first point, I tell them to step it up regular, irl and online, yet nobody has ever called me a bm basher. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. What do you call it, 'vinegar courting'? Yeah. A lil less vinegar, perhaps.

 

[Womb Raider]

Women can break a family and hold zero accountability for it.

 

[buzzkill]

somewhat facts

i even had this convo with my mother. I had to do chores around the house when i was in middle and highschool like cut the grass, help fix cars with my pops, rake leaves, move heavy shyt around etc etc. Not complaining because i understood i was living rent free and this is what men/boys are supposed to do... my sisters on the other hand grew up with no responsibilities barely even lifting a finger and none of them know how to boil water straight modern women to a tee.....Now my parents regret that they raised princesses.

 

[KidJSoul]

It's all perspective