Does society coddle/pacify women too much these days?

[Umoja]

To answer this question properly requires more words than I'm willing to spend.

It ultimately depends on whether or not they fit into an agenda that is bring pushed e.g. creating a safe space, female representation in certain fields, dynamics in romantic relationships.

The moment it clashes with another agenda, they get thrown under the bus or told to shut the fukk up.

It is also worth monitoring how things play out when women are competing with other women. Take Hillary Clinton's approach towards Bill's accusers as an example. When they don't benefit from the agenda being pushed in a particular instance, they will cut through the bullshyt. It is why some women struggle with women managers who don't give a fukk about their tears because in that instance they don't benefit from a safe space, they're burdened by someone shying away from work and reducing the morale of their team.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

I'm convinced 88% of Coli nikkas have never spoken to a woman above the age of 20 in the past 9 years.

The frequency of some of these topics.

 

[Chrishaune]

Fukk these bytches, plain and simple.

That's the spirit. No good whores get ignored.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

How am I eliminating myself from the gene pull when I already said I’m in a happy relationship with a woman whom is about to have my child soon and I I’ve had several great binds with women over the years…. I’m not saying I’m losing sleep over this topic BUT it needs to be addressed and continue to be because I’m the next few years as feminism grows, social media grows etc, it WILL get worse and eventually more and more men will feel the wrath…

Not you personally but in general. Women think men are coddled. Men think women are coddled so there is no consensus there. Why waste the energy? People don’t listen. Until men and women learn mutual respect it’s a useless conversation and those who continue fighting over this stuff will go the way of the dinosaurs.

 

[Cynic]

Who cares ? Just travel or date foreign women. Problem solved.

Women in industrialized developed nations have zero incentive or desire to change

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Stand on busniess this aint a thing

 

[Pull Up the Roots]

You just seem like a child. It’s hard to take you seriously .

You're projecting.

Because most men are simple minded and western society is satanic. Men were created for man to be help mates, but now men act as if they are to make a woman happy aka romance. Now women are the men. It’s so disorderly and causes massive confusion. Now u have men becoming women and women are complaining, even though this is what they advocate for. Complete lawlessness and confusion.

 

[HarlemHottie]

women think men are coddled

Wait. Black women think black men are coddled? By whom?

 

[Easy-E]

And NO this isn’t a woman hate thread…. I was raised by a single mother for more than half of my childhood, I’m in a happy relationship with a great woman and have had healthy bonds with several women throughout the course of my life… so don’t go there


It just seems like in 2022, women are given so many chances at whatever, rarely face accountability, you can’t judge them or correct them about anything, they wanna work, be treated equal to men only when it benefits them, but then want special treatment whenever favors, money or hard work is the topic….

Maybe I don’t understand cuz I don’t have daughters…. But at 34 years of age, enough is enough.


There’s broads out here making well over six figures but still want a man to pay for nearly everything… a woman can put her hands on a man and it seems to be socially acceptable…. A woman can call a man broke, ugly, SHORT etc…. But the second you say a woman is overweight, shows her ass on IG too much, wears too much makeup/fake hair or gets unnecessary surgeries
ALL HELL BRAKES LOOSE….

If I ever have a daughter, ima gonna raise her to demand her respect as a woman, don’t get me wrong…I’m gonna give her unconditional love and protection……

BUT she’s gonna know what accountability is, she gonna rely on some type of logic and not just emotions 100% of the time and she’s gonna know that the world doesn’t owe you anything just cuz you got a vagina

If these women aren't your mother/sisters/aunties/cousins/daughter, leave em be



If they aren't effecting your ability to live life, leave em be

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

35

But when I was 18 to 24, the competition was FIERCE for young dudes in the club. There were a lot of broke college brehs competing against the 30+ brehs with money during the crunk/trap/Drake eras of clubbing trying to bag women. That was when shyt was getting outta hand and the black male bashing for being "broke" was the norm, especially when wages were low from the mid 00s to mid 2010s. The rise of social media made the problem worse x 1000, but I was told to always reinvent myself and not be a coward or be a woman-hating incel.

Gen Z saw what Gen Y had to go through, and they are like "fukk that shyt, cause the juice is not worth the squeeze anymore" while the divested themselves from mainstream society as a whole altogether. These late 90s and early 00s babies already turned society upside down with withholding their money and use it on drugs and Drill music instead. Now, the simp based economy is beginning to collapse and even Drake (yeah, that DRAKE) ain't setting the trends like that anymore. Dont be shocked that Drake himself will retire in a couple of years due to the changing trends of the times.

This will only get worse for the females that take money from dudes, cause its about to dry up.

bro I’m turning 35 this year and I can relate to what you’re saying on many levels. I remember those early 2000’s nights going to the clubs and lounges feeling like all the 30 and over dudes and drug dealers were getting all the hoes


and yeah shyt has been washed up and remixes so much over the years. I’m glad I’m in a committed relationship with a solid womam and no longer feel the need to go out 2-4 times a week like I did when I was a young boy.

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

Wait. Black women think black men are coddled? By whom?

right!!

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

If these women aren't your mother/sisters/aunties/cousins/daughter, leave em be



If they aren't effecting your ability to live life, leave em be

sometimes it’s co workers, friends of the family or friends of your girl, a woman you meet at a bar, someone you meet in passing having small talk etc

 

[010101]

99.9% of men are failing in life

modern women are a reflection of said failure

*

 

[Easy-E]

sometimes it’s co workers, friends of the family or friends of your girl, a woman you meet at a bar, someone you meet in passing having small talk etc

Shiiiitttt, you didn't raise those people and it's already hard enough to raise your own kids.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Wait. Black women think black men are coddled? By whom?

Yep. Can’t say anything about a black guy even if he’s wrong unless you are a feminist, a bytch, a hater, a black man basher. There are plenty of black men and black women who refuse to touch accountability when it comes to black men.
There’s an entire narrative there that black girls are raised and black men are coddled as mama’s boys living off their black moms while the daughters are shytted on.

So yeah a lotta black women feel black men are coddled by blk male culture just like black men feel black women are coddled by black female culture.

Both sides are right from what I see. Many blk men love preaching accountability to women but absolutely refuse to see their own flaws. Same with blk women. “He ain’t shyt” will be on the tip of a lotta black women’s tongues but won’t confront themselves. I use to call it the cult of the black man/black woman. So instead of them fighting over it, it’s time to let the chips fall where they may. There comes a time when we have to realize that not everyone can be saved. Sensible black people need to build together and the others will fall by the wayside.