Does That "Friends With Benefits" Shyt Ever Work?

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Well I know that now....

At the time I thought we were "friends with benefits"...

It started off as a mutual understanding and then it evolved to me realizing I was just a piece of ass, a piece of ass that caught feelings so I had to end it promptly.
 
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Well I know that now....

At the time I thought we were "friends with benefits"...

It started off as a mutual understanding and then it evolved to me realizing I was just a piece of ass, a piece of ass that caught feelings so I had to end it promptly.

nikkas is lucky :mjcry:
 
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The nikka used to wear NIKE flip flops, white socks, and basketball shorts whenever he came through...
As soon as the deed was done he asked for a bath cloth to wash up..
And I always got the sentimental kiss on the forehead when it was time for him to leave..

I should have known what the deal was.......

You almost got me.

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The nikka used to wear NIKE flip flops, white socks, and basketball shorts whenever he came through...
As soon as the deed was done he asked for a bath cloth to wash up..
And I always got the sentimental kiss on the forehead when it was time for him to leave..

I should have known what the deal was.......
Fellas, this is a fella. Please, please dont fall for this again.
 

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Well I know that now....

At the time I thought we were "friends with benefits"...

It started off as a mutual understanding and then it evolved to me realizing I was just a piece of ass, a piece of ass that caught feelings so I had to end it promptly.
Honest question, were y'all friends before this agreement? Like legit friends or is it that y'all just knew each other?
 

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Just because it worked for some of yall selfish asses doesn't mean it worked. If you came out cool but she came out a sobbing jealous insecure mess, the shyt ain't work. You just came out unharmed, but it ain't work.
 

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We knew each other for a few years prior. We definitely weren't besties but we knew each other and there was a mutual attraction.

That's real. I just ask because I think we use the word "friends" loosely when we're talking about friends with benefits...men and women..Most of the people aren't actual friends we're just cool acquaintances that have known each other for a while.
 

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It works but it has an expiration date. Eventually either one of the people want more or one of the people find someone else who is giving them something this "friend" isn't. Most women are not okay with being "an option" and even guys who say they don't care, do care. They end up getting insecure like I wonder who she fukkin cause she not answering my text etc.

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Facts , that one night all of your options aren't coming through and you call her and she don't answer you start feeling a little drakeish
 
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had it once and off for a year and a half...was great but didn't end well.

we were in contact every day but i only saw her once a week...usually Thursday but sometimes a Wednesday depended on her working hours.
we'd get takeout some drinks watch the tv shows we liked i dvr'd or watch a movie, smash and then the next day we go for lunch etc, spend the day together until the afternoon and then that was it til next time.

i was always seeing other people and i know she dated now and again but she eventually gave me an ultimatum, i panicked and said no.
2012, she left to go the Pitchfork music festival in Paris and i haven't seen her since.

can't lie, it felt like i lost a limb when all contact seized...we sent each other a few texts now and again but just boring cordial shyt..
the first one that kind of broke the ice was her sending me a text about the finale of Gossip Girl and who Gossip Girl was..a show i'd always watch with her.

:manny:
 
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