Does That "Friends With Benefits" Shyt Ever Work?

[L&HH]

had it once and off for a year and a half...was great but didn't end well.

we were in contact every day but i only saw her once a week...usually Thursday but sometimes a Wednesday depended on her working hours.
we'd get takeout some drinks watch the tv shows we liked i dvr'd or watch a movie, smash and then the next day we go for lunch etc, spend the day together until the afternoon and then that was it til next time.

i was always seeing other people and i know she dated now and again but she eventually gave me an ultimatum, i panicked and said no.
2012, she left to go the Pitchfork music festival in Paris and i haven't seen her since.

can't lie, it felt like i lost a limb when all contact seized...we sent each other a few texts now and again but just boring cordial shyt..
the first one that kind of broke the ice was her sending me a text about the finale of Gossip Girl and who Gossip Girl was..a show i'd always watch with her.

So it didn't work because she moved? I mean that's understandable

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Worked for me he was younger and not relationship material, I was single- a girl has needs

 

[Paradise]

The nikka used to wear NIKE flip flops, white socks, and basketball shorts whenever he came through...
As soon as the deed was done he asked for a bath cloth to wash up..
And I always got the sentimental kiss on the forehead when it was time for him to leave..

I should have known what the deal was.......

You got hit with the old "I gotta be leaving you soon"… Shyt!

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

had it once and off for a year and a half...was great but didn't end well.

we were in contact every day but i only saw her once a week...usually Thursday but sometimes a Wednesday depended on her working hours.
we'd get takeout some drinks watch the tv shows we liked i dvr'd or watch a movie, smash and then the next day we go for lunch etc, spend the day together until the afternoon and then that was it til next time.

Not much different between this and what an actual relationship is. Most relationships I've had don't see one another every day, you don't do that until it get serious