Does the amount of time a woman takes to let a dude smash really matter?

[Drew Wonder]

seems like a lot of people believe this. Most women choose not to let a dude she actually likes smash too quickly for fear of being put in the "jumpoff zone." and most dudes refuse to wife a girl up if she let's him hit it too fast while simultaneously complaining that she's not letting him hit it

I understand not wanting to rush into things too fast if you see the potential for a relationship, but I personally feel like the waiting game doesn't have nearly as much of an impact as people seem to think. some men are so thirsty they'll wait 90 days to hit, then bounce as soon as they finally do. other men might actually be feeling a girl enough to pursue something even if she let's him hit it on the 2nd or 3rd date.

I personally feel like if you like someone enough, you'll want to pursue something regardless of how quickly the sex comes. and if you don't like someone but are attracted to them physically, that feeling doesn't magically change if the girl decides to wait a long time to let you hit

 

[sanityovar8ted]

depends on how serious she wants to be taken

 

[Sierra Mist]

It doesn't matter because whether they have sex in a few days or 4 years later men will still bytch about it. Damn we need to do away with the whole "I let him fukk me" shyt. You don't "allow" someone to give you pleasure. You both have sex because you want to. Sex is a mutual decision that mutually benefits both. Sex feels better to women anyway but I digress.

Two people like each other. They sleep with each other. Simple.

 

[Soundbwoy]

I can wait out of respect for her for a reasonable period but not because fukking Steve Harvey told her that's a way to get a man

 

[DarlingNikki]

I always wondered about this. If I like you enough to have sex with you it doesn't take me long to figure that out, I can be open about it, but if I do apparently that means you're a whore. But men complain that they're wasting time and money and not getting sex. It's weird.

 

[Turbulent]

yes and no.

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

my frend o...just come hea so i can just deliver a dutty slap to yo mout until saliva teet and blood just ejects from dat entiya area of ya face...eh??

why es it u ask suck question/...eh??

neega..let dees bytches be bytches...uwar hea attemptin to give dem freedoms of a man..neega grow a pair of nuts o

 

[Drew Wonder]

I always wondered about this. If I like you enough to have sex with you it doesn't take me long to figure that out, I can be open about it, but if I do apparently that means you're a whore. But men complain that they're wasting time and money and not getting sex. It's weird.

I'll openly admit that men are more to blame for this particular situation than women.

It would be much easier for men to get pusss if most of us didn't have the attitude that the amount of time a woman held her pussy hostage determined how worthy she was of a relationship

 

[Turbulent]

I always wondered about this. If I like you enough to have sex with you it doesn't take me long to figure that out, I can be open about it, but if I do apparently that means you're a whore. But men complain that they're wasting time and money and not getting sex. It's weird.

but why do you care if it makes you a "whore"?

 

[DarlingNikki]

I'll openly admit that men are more to blame for this particular situation than women.

It would be much easier for men to get pusss if most of us didn't have the attitude that the amount of time a woman held her pussy hostage determined how worthy she was of a relationship

The guy I lost my virginity to tried to have sex with me the first time we spent the night together, he later told me he was happy he didn't because he didn't know where our relationship would've went. That's weird to me because he tried it, not me.

How can you blame me for something you wanna do..

but why do you care if it makes you a "whore"?

I would rather not have sex with a guy who assumed I was a slut..

 

[Drew Wonder]

the average relationship nowadays is based on a desperate woman holding her pussy hostage and a desperate dude finally promising a relationship in exchange for her letting the puss go. needless to say, these types of relationship don't last very long

 

[Turbulent]

it really depends what your goal is.

as far as if a guy will wife a chick or not, the amount of time really doesn't matter that much. A guy will wife a chick if he likes her. "Likability" is the most important factor when it comes to making a chick your girl. If i sleep with you on the first date and i like you like that, i'll probably want you to be my girl. If i don't like you that much, no matter how much time you make dude wait, he'll still put you in the jumpoff category or just throw you in the bushes.

however, say for example, i meet this girl and i don't like her to the point of making her my girl but i am sexually attracted to her. If she likes me like that, then it would be in her best interest to find a way to make me like her like that before sleeping with me. but the problem is that most girls make the dude wait but don't use that time to make the guy like them. they just use it to try to get more attention/gifts/dates (but it's mostly for the attention). then once they sleep with the guy, the guy resents them even more for everything he had to go through.


most girls play the game backwards and that's why they end up losing. They make a dude wait until she falls for him and then sleep with him hoping he feels the same way and after that they feel like they're owed something. If they want a relationship with the guy, then they should make him wait until he falls for her. not the other way around.

 

[Soundbwoy]

it really depends what your goal is.

as far as if a guy will wife a chick or not, the amount of time really doesn't matter that much. A guy will wife a chick if he likes her. "Likability" is the most important factor when it comes to making a chick your girl. If i sleep with you on the first date and i like you like that, i'll probably want you to be my girl. If i don't like you that much, no matter how much time you make dude wait, he'll still put you in the jumpoff category or just throw you in the bushes.

however, say for example, i meet this girl and i don't like her to the point of making her my girl but i am sexually attracted to her. If she likes me like that, then it would be in her best interest to find a way to make me like her like that before sleeping with me. but the problem is that most girls make the dude wait but don't use that time to make the guy like them. they just use it to try to get more attention/gifts/dates (but it's mostly for the attention). then once they sleep with the guy, the guy resents them even more for everything he had to go through.


most girls play the game backwards and that's why they end up losing. They make a dude wait until she falls for him and then sleep with him hoping he feels the same way and after that they feel like they're owed something. If they want a relationship with the guy, then they should make him wait until he falls for her. not the other way around.

Let's keep this hidden truth in this forum tho

 

[Turbulent]

The guy I lost my virginity to tried to have sex with me the first time we spent the night together, he later told me he was happy he didn't because he didn't know where our relationship would've went. That's weird to me because he tried it, not me.

How can you blame me for something you wanna do..



I would rather not have sex with a guy who assumed I was a slut..

it's something you have very little control over. people will think what they think. some will tell you, others won't. slut = promiscuous woman according to wikipedia. if you don't want people to think you're a slut, don't be promiscuous.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

the problem is you never really know someone too well immediately, no matter how much you think you do. i believe that's why some people have reservations about getting with people they managed to fukk quickly. the luster dies down after that instance and there's nothing else to back it. then, when you start having to deal with some potential bullshyt or some things you don't like, you don't care about sustaining the relationship. i know when i've fukked a woman too easily, i'm not too bent on maintaining that much of a connection, even if i did have a good time doing it. there's just a disconnect because i didn't really even know them that well. there's just more to a relationship than sexual chemistry or desire. i think if you go too fast, it fukks up the flow of the relationship...