Does the amount of time a woman takes to let a dude smash really matter?

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it really depends what your goal is.

as far as if a guy will wife a chick or not, the amount of time really doesn't matter that much. A guy will wife a chick if he likes her. "Likability" is the most important factor when it comes to making a chick your girl. If i sleep with you on the first date and i like you like that, i'll probably want you to be my girl. If i don't like you that much, no matter how much time you make dude wait, he'll still put you in the jumpoff category or just throw you in the bushes.

however, say for example, i meet this girl and i don't like her to the point of making her my girl but i am sexually attracted to her. If she likes me like that, then it would be in her best interest to find a way to make me like her like that before sleeping with me. but the problem is that most girls make the dude wait but don't use that time to make the guy like them. they just use it to try to get more attention/gifts/dates (but it's mostly for the attention). then once they sleep with the guy, the guy resents them even more for everything he had to go through.


most girls play the game backwards and that's why they end up losing. They make a dude wait until she falls for him and then sleep with him hoping he feels the same way and after that they feel like they're owed something. If they want a relationship with the guy, then they should make him wait until he falls for her. not the other way around.

:ehh: well said
 

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it's something you have very little control over. people will think what they think. some will tell you, others won't. slut = promiscuous woman according to wikipedia. if you don't want people to think you're a slut, don't be promiscuous.

It's not about being promiscuous, I'm far from that. It's about people thinking I'm promiscuous because I'm direct about what I want. That's not very ladylike.
 

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This shut is a result of men calling women sluts and hoes as a shaming tactic so they will feel bad having sex with someone other than them
 

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Let's keep this hidden truth in this forum tho :shaq:
lol, sometimes i do feel like the guys of the coli are giving up too much free game to the women on here. and they don't even appreciate it. they call us bitter, gay, etc. they should make threads to honor us and post nudes. maybe one day it'll dawn on them how much game we put them on...
 

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Lets be real about something

If you're an adult and you don't think women think and like sex as much as men then you're fooling yourself
 

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it really depends what your goal is.

as far as if a guy will wife a chick or not, the amount of time really doesn't matter that much. A guy will wife a chick if he likes her. "Likability" is the most important factor when it comes to making a chick your girl. If i sleep with you on the first date and i like you like that, i'll probably want you to be my girl. If i don't like you that much, no matter how much time you make dude wait, he'll still put you in the jumpoff category or just throw you in the bushes.

however, say for example, i meet this girl and i don't like her to the point of making her my girl but i am sexually attracted to her. If she likes me like that, then it would be in her best interest to find a way to make me like her like that before sleeping with me. but the problem is that most girls make the dude wait but don't use that time to make the guy like them. they just use it to try to get more attention/gifts/dates (but it's mostly for the attention). then once they sleep with the guy, the guy resents them even more for everything he had to go through.


most girls play the game backwards and that's why they end up losing. They make a dude wait until she falls for him and then sleep with him hoping he feels the same way and after that they feel like they're owed something. If they want a relationship with the guy, then they should make him wait until he falls for her. not the other way around.

This sounds good, but if you not feeling the girl like that from the jump its not much she can do to get you to like her

The problem that you're missing is that we have to lie to girls to make them think we like them in order to have sex with a lot of times

And girls can't tell if a nikka saying shyt just to smash and dash or if he is really feeling her
 

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Lets be real about something

If you're an adult and you don't think women think and like sex as much as men then you're fooling yourself
it's not about if they like it or not. it's about them trying to use it as leverage or barter tool despite the fact they like it a much as us.
 
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seems like a lot of people believe this. Most women choose not to let a dude she actually likes smash too quickly for fear of being put in the "jumpoff zone." and most dudes refuse to wife a girl up if she let's him hit it too fast while simultaneously complaining that she's not letting him hit it :childplease:

I understand not wanting to rush into things too fast if you see the potential for a relationship, but I personally feel like the waiting game doesn't have nearly as much of an impact as people seem to think. some men are so thirsty they'll wait 90 days to hit, then bounce as soon as they finally do. other men might actually be feeling a girl enough to pursue something even if she let's him hit it on the 2nd or 3rd date.

I personally feel like if you like someone enough, you'll want to pursue something regardless of how quickly the sex comes. and if you don't like someone but are attracted to them physically, that feeling doesn't magically change if the girl decides to wait a long time to let you hit

Due to social programming by media, radio, friends and family...women like to fukk too and things would be all good if us men didn't constantly berate them for likin' dikk....
 

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This shut is a result of men calling women sluts and hoes as a shaming tactic so they will feel bad having sex with someone other than them

But women call each other sluts
And men who actually fukk smuts call a smut a smut

Don't mind me doe. I just want the forum denizens to not mistake your :cape:'n for actual logic. Save us a few mindless debates
 

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This sounds good, but if you not feeling the girl like that from the jump its not much she can do to get you to like her

The problem that you're missing is that we have to lie to girls to make them think we like them in order to have sex with a lot of times

And girls can't tell if a nikka saying shyt just to smash and dash or if he is really feeling her
not saying i don't like her at all, just saying i don't like her enough yet to make her my girl. then yes it's possible for her to get me to like her more (or she could just move on if she doesn't think i'm worth it)

as far as the lying, i agree with you, it's harder for women because a lot of men will lie to get p*ssy. so yes, it's a gamble. but it's a gamble only if they use it (their p*ssy) as a bargaining tool to get a relationship. A chick who is likable will have no problem getting a guy to want her as his girl. Plus i think most girls can tell if dude is genuine or not if they stop focusing on themselves and try to get in tune with what dude is feeling (in other words if they stop being self-centered)
 

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But women call each other sluts
And men who actually fukk smuts call a smut a smut

Don't mind me doe. I just want the forum denizens to not mistake your :cape:'n for actual logic. Save us a few mindless debates

Bruh, why do women call other women sluts? It's not there is any definition on what those words mean.

I'm not sure what you think you proved?
 

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This shut is a result of men calling women sluts and hoes as a shaming tactic so they will feel bad having sex with someone other than them

Bruh, why do women call other women sluts? It's not there is any definition on what those words mean.

I'm not sure what you think you proved?

At the least I proved what you did: absolutely nothing

But continue your posting of wild barely relevant strawmen, you're not gettin no burn anyway
 
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I say get the p*ssy/dikk issue out of the way asap.
if you dig a nikka enough give him that p*ssy.
if he digs you and your skills he'll stick around.
the worst thing in the world for women is that eddie haskell
ass nikka that will wait and then after he gets dem
draws you are deep in feelings and he's on some:mjpls:

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The bottom line is that it takes you a while to get know someone. If she's letting you hit before she knows you well, she's doing the same to everyone else.
 
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Lets be real about something

If you're an adult and you don't think women think and like sex as much as men then you're fooling yourself

I don't think anybody here ever said that women don't like sex. People like sex it doesn't mean that because you found somebody sexually appealing you should say aight let us fukk. What I say is before a woman let a nikka in them draws they need to evaluate if the nikka is worth it. And nikkas need to stop being thirsty bc not every chic is worth being dikked down. How hard is that to understand genius. There is more to sex than just the physical but then again you are an idiot.

The bottom line is that it takes you a while to get know someone. If she's letting you hit before she knows you well, she's doing the same to everyone else.

I don't know why these nikkas find that concept hard to understand.
 
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