Does the amount of time a woman takes to let a dude smash really matter?

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We've all been in that situation where a girl is on you from the start and instead of appreciating that she likes us and WANTS us we question it like :whoa: "If she doin this for me.. then she must be doin this with everyone.."

That's because its true. Just think about it. Girl barely knows you. Even if you were the most special dude on the planet, she wouldn't know it yet at that point. She's letting you hit, and its not because you're special. Every woman I've dated who's like that has turned out to be an attention seeker.
 

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It really depends on how both parties were raised and how they feel about having sex at whatever stage they are in their association.

If you're looking for a relationship, then having sex too soon may produce superficial feelings for that person. If it's good you may like them more than you really should or if its bad you may not have much rap for them when it said and done but they could actually be a good person for you.
 

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if you're female and you dont wanna have sex, im cool with that. but do it because you dont feel comfortable and you wanna maintain your dignity and self-worth. dont deny sex because you think its gonna lead to a relationship with me.
 

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I really depends on how both parties were raised and how they feel about having sex at whatever stage they are in their association.

If you're looking for a relationship, then having sex too soon may produce superficial feelings for that person. If it's good you may like them more than you really should or if its bad you may not have much rap for them when it said and done but they could actually be a good person for you.

U don't think not havin sex produces more superficial/fake feelings?a man will put up with shyt he normally wouldn't like an annoying personality etc until he get the puzzy,will lie and say shyt he don't mean til he get the puzzy....and those lies and tellin the woman what she wann hear gon make her like dude more than she would if she really knew who he wuz,which she ain't gon find out til after he get the sex.


Women need to just plead the fifth when nikkas ask "what do u look for in a man:lolbron:"....That's a nice way of saying "what do I gotta pretend to be to get that puzzy:mjpls:?"....it sucks for the real women who really have certain principles and things they look for in a man,but let's be honest,aloooota women out here workin on bullshyt belief systems and claimin morals and principles they don't really believe to ALSO make theyself look better in a way doin the same shyt we doin....so whether a man lyin or not really won't fukin matter shell like em anyway bcuz even tho he's been lying to match her lies....in reality they are perfect for each other


Her-"I need a man who puts god first(bytch ain't been to church and years and don't follow shyt in the bible)

Him-"amen,I go to Temple of Christ often as I can:mjpls:(is truly demonic,named his mama church)


Her-I need a nice guy who's gon treat me right:usure:(only dates thugs,and not nice thugs,ones who treat her horrible)

Him-"My mama raised me to treat a woman right:mjpls:"(mama wuz a thug b4 she got saved,he still thuggin,still treats his women like shyt)

Her-"I need a man who can take care of me as well as I take care of him"(none of her dudes ever has jobs bcuz she will take care of all of them and they know it)

Him-"You ain't a man if u can't do that"(nikka been workin for 2 weeks,will quit once he finds woman to mooch off of,considers pretending to look for work hard work:whew:)

Her-"I got too much pride to let a bum drag me down"(has low self esteem)

Him-:whew:(is a bum)


Now in sum situations this woman will end up fukin this man,and he might end up fukin and leavin her thinkin "Damn glad I hit but I can't live up to this chicks high expectations,might as well leave now before she realize I ain't shyt".....meanwhile they are truly the perfect couple for each other....ladies don't let your fake azz thoughts and fake azz beliefs run the man of your dreams off...and fellas don't selll yourself short whether u lyin or keepin it 100 its a good chance she still might be the perfect woman for u....I mostly keep it 100 after realizin alotta women out her full of shyt,so let me just be honest and show you your full of shyt and then we can move on from there.
 

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I see nothing wrong with a woman having sex on the first date or whenever she wants. :yeshrug:

The only kind of dudes who really care are the dudes don't see anything in worthy in themselves that would cause a woman to want to fukk them.

Sex is an action based on primal attraction. Somehow society has made it into this pillar of moral character for women, when it shouldn't be that way.

SN: I hate the rhetoric of "a woman's body is her temple". That's some simp shyt. What makes a woman's body any more valuable than your on body as a man? Why are you placing the sanctity of hoes you don't know over your own self? Stop putting p*ssy on pedestals.
 

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This is that shyt that'll have ya minds playing ticks on you.

9/10 I have a one track mind. So my objective is to get the ass. In this process, Ima make this chick feel so comfortable, impressed and gassed that if she's not giving up the ass QUICKLY, I would think something is wrong with her.

Now with that being said, this is the time when I ususally sit back and analyze the situation like, "Did she really let me bang in 2 weeks?"

With that being said you gotta use other objectives to measure a woman, not how much time it takes for you to smash. Ya'll nigggas lucky ya'll ain't Playa Made
 

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It depends upon the woman's intentions.

If she doesn't want to because she doesn't want to yet then fine, but doing it to be manipulative is another story.

It's a case by case basis.
 
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I see nothing wrong with a woman having sex on the first date or whenever she wants. :yeshrug:

The only kind of dudes who really care are the dudes don't see anything in worthy in themselves that would cause a woman to want to fukk them.

Sex is an action based on primal attraction. Somehow society has made it into this pillar of moral character for women, when it shouldn't be that way.

SN: I hate the rhetoric of "a woman's body is her temple". That's some simp shyt. What makes a woman's body any more valuable than your on body as a man? Why are you placing the sanctity of hoes you don't know over your own self? Stop putting p*ssy on pedestals.



I'm pretty sure I schooled you on that topic before! But health science, shows that promiscuoty increases the chances of STD's those are fact. Mental health science shows people who are desensitized to the act of sex have mental health problems especially women. Now you can tap dance ya way around facts all you want. Then you can go back to resort to ya just ain't getting laid tactics that you've been using. The truth is if a woman doesn't value her physical or mental health than that ain't the woman any man should want. And the reverse applies to a man.
 

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And the reverse applies to a man.

Yet I never see you in any thread talking about men and their actions. ONLY women. :rudy: Stop being such a fakkit and complaining about women just because you ain't gettin' none. That's what it all comes down to. :laff: Cause ain't NO man on here campaigning for all dudes to stop having sex.

And it's only connected to "mental health" because society still can't grasp the fact that women like sex just as much as men do, and therefore shame women into being afraid of what they want. As time goes on, that will change too.

And stop quoting me to argue about dumb shyt we've already argued about. shyt. The fukk is wrong with you :rudy:
 
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Yet I never see you in any thread talking about men and their actions. ONLY women. :rudy: Stop being such a fakkit and complaining about women just because you ain't gettin' none. That's what it all comes down to. :laff: Cause ain't NO man on here campaigning for all dudes to stop having sex.

And it's only connected to "mental health" because society still can't grasp the fact that women like sex just as much as men do, and therefore shame women into being afraid of what they want. As time goes on, that will change too.

And stop quoting me to argue about dumb shyt we've already argued about. shyt. The fukk is wrong with you :rudy:


Tap dance lil nikka tap dance all you want. I posted facts and you posting rethorics :smugfavre:

You argue with people that can't stop you on ya tracks and make efforts to avoid me, I on the other hand ain't afraid to call BS when I see it. I actually got a pair. :youngsabo:


Only way this nikka can get laid is if a woman is a whore :dead:
 

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Tap dance lil nikka tap dance all you want. I posted facts and you posting rethorics :smugfavre:

You argue with people that can't stop you on ya tracks and make efforts to avoid me, I on the other hand ain't afraid to call BS when I see it. I actually got a pair. :youngsabo:


Only way this nikka can get laid is if a woman is a whore :dead:
You didn't post any facts that I didn't refute though. :yeshrug:

Humans have a natural urge for sex. It's an innate action/desire. Shame someone and call them a whore for refusing and deny what's naturally in them for all of their upbringing and see how good their mental health is.

Society and modern culture are the only things that stop people from acting on such. But like I said, that is changing. Shaming has worked for the egos of low-tier dudes, but that's coming to an end, and now you nikkas don't know what to do but cry on messageboard.

Trust me breh. I've turned down more quality women than you've ever had the opportunity to even speak to. You on the other hand can't even muster up enough manly testosterone to grow facial hair.

FOH lil nikka, you walk around in life looking like an awkward dyke. :umad:
 
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