Does the amount of time a woman takes to let a dude smash really matter?

[Ohnoits]

I'm pretty sure I schooled you on that topic before! But health science, shows that promiscuoty increases the chances of STD's those are fact. Mental health science shows people who are desensitized to the act of sex have mental health problems especially women. Now you can tap dance ya way around facts all you want. Then you can go back to resort to ya just ain't getting laid tactics that you've been using. The truth is if a woman doesn't value her physical or mental health than that ain't the woman any man should want. And the reverse applies to a man.

This has to be true.

I mean really--whores always have fukking issues. And then they wonder why no one will commit? It's not just because they've fukked everyone, it's because there's always something wrong with them mentally and what they expect out of relationships. And they stay on the "Why won't __ marry me?" even when they clean themselves up, but they have severe emotional issues and ratchetness resulting from that.

There's a reason why most sexual abuse victims that are females end up slutting it up later on in life.

I remember when hos would call into Love Line back in the day and the first thing they'd say in response would be "How old were you and how many times were you touched/raped ?" And the women ALWAYS had something like that in their pasts.

 

[winb83]

the problem is you never really know someone too well immediately, no matter how much you think you do. i believe that's why some people have reservations about getting with people they managed to fukk quickly. the luster dies down after that instance and there's nothing else to back it. then, when you start having to deal with some potential bullshyt or some things you don't like, you don't care about sustaining the relationship. i know when i've fukked a woman too easily, i'm not too bent on maintain that much of a connection, even if i did have a good time doing it. there's just a disconnect because i didn't really even know them that well. there's just more to a relationship than sexual chemistry or desire. i think if you go too fast, it fukks up the flow of the relationship...

What's the connection with knowing someone well and having sex? Why should it matter how well you know (or think you know) them. If the attraction is there and y'all check to see if they're disease free what's the difference?

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

What's the connection with knowing someone well and having sex? Why should it matter how well you know (or think you know) them. If the attraction is there and y'all check to see if they're disease free what's the difference?

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[James Carter]

most girls play the game backwards and that's why they end up losing. They make a dude wait until she falls for him and then sleep with him hoping he feels the same way and after that they feel like they're owed something. If they want a relationship with the guy, then they should make him wait until he falls for her. not the other way around.

like youve been told, refrain from dropping this kind of knowledge in the open like this

made me log in to dap and tell you this.

lol, sometimes i do feel like the guys of the coli are giving up too much free game to the women on here. and they don't even appreciate it. they call us bitter, gay, etc. they should make threads to honor us and post nudes. maybe one day it'll dawn on them how much game we put them on...

 

[winb83]

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when you first meet a person all you know is what they choose to show you. in the time frame that people generally end up having sex for the first time in you really don't know the person you're having it with.

our whole mating ritual is totally irresponsible and is all based of hypothetical risk control. because the two parties involved can't just sit down and voice their desires and agree to be safe about them. you get to "know" them to see if they're safe to fukk or whatever but in reality that person could have herpes and past all your social safe test.

the way things are i meet a girl we go on a few dates or chill and i put the moves on her and sex seemingly spontaneously happens depending on the mood.

if we both voiced what we want we could set terms and actually manage risk. we could both say we'll fukk but first we're both gonna go to a clinic together and get tested. i could say i don't want anything serious and she could agree with that or not.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

when you first meet a person all you know is what they choose to show you. in the time frame that people generally end up having sex for the first time in you really don't know the person you're having it with.

our whole mating ritual is totally irresponsible and is all based of hypothetical risk control. because the two parties involved can't just sit down and voice their desires and agree to be safe about them. you get to "know" them to see if they're safe to fukk or whatever but in reality that person could have herpes and past all your social safe test.

the way things are i meet a girl we go on a few dates or chill and i put the moves on her and sex seemingly spontaneously happens depending on the mood.

if we both voiced what we want we could set terms and actually manage risk. we could both say we'll fukk but first we're both gonna go to a clinic together and get tested. i could say i don't want anything serious and she could agree with that or not.

If you don't know who you're sleeping with, you shouldn't be sleeping with them. Period. You can try and justify a lack of self-control all you want, but the rates of STD's and unwanted pregnancies speak volumes that are undeniable.

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[winb83]

If you don't know who you're sleeping with, you shouldn't be sleeping with them. Period. You can try and justify a lack of self-control all you want, but the rates of STD's and unwanted pregnancies speak volumes that are undeniable.

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knowing someone involves observing their behavior in a variety of different situations. you can be acquainted with a person for several years and have them still control what they expose you to and what you don't get to see and not really know them.

unless its on your wedding night after a very long courtship you're honestly not gonna really know the person you have sex with the first time. you've likely been exposed to them in highly controlled situations.

i'm not talking about a lack of self control i'm talking about two people who both want the same thing from each other acknowledging it and talking about it and being safe about it.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

when you first meet a person all you know is what they choose to show you. in the time frame that people generally end up having sex for the first time in you really don't know the person you're having it with.

our whole mating ritual is totally irresponsible and is all based of hypothetical risk control. because the two parties involved can't just sit down and voice their desires and agree to be safe about them. you get to "know" them to see if they're safe to fukk or whatever but in reality that person could have herpes and past all your social safe test.

the way things are i meet a girl we go on a few dates or chill and i put the moves on her and sex seemingly spontaneously happens depending on the mood.

if we both voiced what we want we could set terms and actually manage risk. we could both say we'll fukk but first we're both gonna go to a clinic together and get tested. i could say i don't want anything serious and she could agree with that or not.

Yall still think sex something to play with huh...Sticking your swipe up in a chick you really don't know is asking for some fukkery down the road

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

knowing someone involves observing their behavior in a variety of different situations. you can be acquainted with a person for several years and have them still control what they expose you to and what you don't get to see and not really know them.

Which makes it even more imperative that you take the effort to know who you're dealing with BEFORE you sleep with them.

unless its on your wedding night after a very long courtship you're honestly not gonna really know the person you have sex with the first time. you've likely been exposed to them in highly controlled situations.

With the technology available, there is NO excuse for not being able to communicate fully with whomever you're interested in prior to having sex with them to properly establish if you should, in fact, sleep with them.

i'm not talking about a lack of self control i'm talking about two people who both want the same thing from each other acknowledging it and talking about it and being safe about it.

The more time you spend understanding/knowing who you're involved with prior to sleeping with them, the 'safer' you are.​

 

[Tom Foolery]

Naw, you gotta go back to the basics. Making a man wait is to "protect" the females interest. See, p*ssy is a bargaining tool and sex is negotiated. The more a woman gets a guy to invest/commit into sex, the better her position.

Plus, factor in things like weirdos, losers, players, etc. It makes sense why a woman makes you wait.

 

[Turbulent]

like youve been told, refrain from dropping this kind of knowledge in the open like this

made me log in to dap and tell you this.

..and when we die hard, they'll build a monument to honor us with, humungous effect in the world we could have conquered it...

 

[Art Barr]

How do you know? How would you know how sex feels to a woman?

he is a bottom for his tranny lover.
Then, is stoopid enough to self equate getting penetrated in his ass.
Is the same as a woman experiencing vaginal intercourse.

dude is a bottom tranny dikk collecting faq,..
Complete with a faq funboi west hollywood dressing tranny boyfriend.

he even self admittedly impersonates females in this community, too.
If you want proof,...
I can post it for you.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

If a woman is not intimate and sexual with me on the first day.
Only thing I am considering is deleting her phone number and not talking to her anymore.

Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

What's a hoe?

a ho is an affectionate pet name for a female with a price list.
Anything other than that is just baseless name calling.
As most ho's are never offended.
being called the slang for their job title in the flesh peddler industry.


Art Barr

 

[rapdonttweet]

1. If someone is fukking anyone they don't "know", they clearly don't want a relationship. What is the fukk is "know"? You mean walk in a dark room and have sex with someone in there you don't "know"? You mean meet someone at the club and never really say a word to them and don't "know" them and you have sex that night? Of course you wouldn't have a relationship and it would be about the sex. The thing is, no one is discussing that because we all already know the answer and some of you are trying to hard to be Captain Obviouses. If I went into a dark room/club/etc. looking for sex, that's what I'mma get.

2. However, if me and a woman talk for a while and we decide to go on our first date, and we have an open and honest discussion about sex and where we see things going, and both of our ideals match up, and no one is being fake or holding anything back, then what's the problem with having sex?

You don't know anything about them on the first date. What's that, a couple hours? How is that enough time to get to know someone? If you met a dude on a bus stop and spent an hour talking to him while waiting, would you trust him enough to let him borrow your car? With sex and relationships its the same thing. One date will tell a girl if a guy is okay enough to keep seeing. But the actual process of getting to know someone takes place over a bunch of dates and hanging out. A girl who skips this process is having sex with you because she wants sex, not because she wants sex with you. Its pretty obvious what it means to know someone. I don't know a chick I hang out with once. If I've been doing it for a few weeks then yeah, I know her.