Does the amount of time a woman takes to let a dude smash really matter?

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A woman that has sex without any regard or thought to how it will effect them in future.

this is the answer of a name calling non sexually secure little ass boi.


fukk outta, here with the bullshyt, b!
Grow up and get you some p*ssy.
So, you become secure sexually and in your sexuality.
You sound like the resident confused transexual, named ****.


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You don't know anything about them on the first date. What's that, a couple hours? How is that enough time to get to know someone? If you met a dude on a bus stop and spent an hour talking to him while waiting, would you trust him enough to let him borrow your car? With sex and relationships its the same thing. One date will tell a girl if a guy is okay enough to keep seeing. But the actual process of getting to know someone takes place over a bunch of dates and hanging out. A girl who skips this process is having sex with you because she wants sex, not because she wants sex with you. Its pretty obvious what it means to know someone. I don't know a chick I hang out with once. If I've been doing it for a few weeks then yeah, I know her.


nikka,...
They invented condoms,....
fukk outta here with that extra righteous bullshyt.
We were put on earth to fukk.
Only reason it is condemned is from past lack of BC and protection.
Plus, the roman catholic church that made up all these rules.
Wanted to condemn you for having children out of wedlock.
So they could get said child as an orphan and have their pedophilia based way with said orphan, whether male or female.
Or have their child be unmonitored from impoverished conditions to have their way with them.

go learn some real history about sex and stfu, till you do.
 

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:wtf: How do you know? How would you know how sex feels to a woman?

I used to have a vagina before and I used to be a slut. jk *riri

There are a few things. First off women have multiple contractions during sex as wel as multiple orgasms. Women feel teh sensation of the vagina tightening and stretching. All men essentially feel is the sensation of the sugar walls. Plus women scream more during sex. It's very obvious. Every stroke is sensational for a woman. The best part of sex for a man is as soon as he sticks his dikk in and as soon as he is reaching his climax.
 

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the problem is you never really know someone too well immediately, no matter how much you think you do. i believe that's why some people have reservations about getting with people they managed to fukk quickly. the luster dies down after that instance and there's nothing else to back it. then, when you start having to deal with some potential bullshyt or some things you don't like, you don't care about sustaining the relationship. i know when i've fukked a woman too easily, i'm not too bent on maintaining that much of a connection, even if i did have a good time doing it. there's just a disconnect because i didn't really even know them that well. there's just more to a relationship than sexual chemistry or desire. i think if you go too fast, it fukks up the flow of the relationship...

Basically..

lol@"if i like her enough..ima wife her anyway"

in 3-5 days?? :usure:

Its natural to be drawn to a woman who shares same interests as you that u also find attractive..but it doesnt mean anything on a deeper level.Its not love,fate or none of that soulmate bullshyt u see in the movies.
A day later u may find out some shyt bout her thats so :scusthov: and throw her in the bushes..

All that "i just met u and feel like i have known you for years" shyt is for the birds..it takes time,honesty and patience to really know someone.
 

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Which makes it even more imperative that you take the effort to know who you're dealing with BEFORE you sleep with them.



With the technology available, there is NO excuse for not being able to communicate fully with whomever you're interested in prior to having sex with them to properly establish if you should, in fact, sleep with them.



The more time you spend understanding/knowing who you're involved with prior to sleeping with them, the 'safer' you are.​
dates are controlled environments. you don't get to know a person in them. you see what they choose to expose to you.

you don't know a person until you've been exposed to them in a variety of situations. that could take years. on top of that people behave differently around different people.

humans like to think they know some shyt they actually don't. there was a point everyone believed the world was flat and they knew this until they found out the world was round.

if you interact with a person you're not acquainted with several times and hope they're being honest with you about who they are over the span of a year after that year do you then know them well enough to sleep with them?
 

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Basically..

lol@"if i like her enough..ima wife her anyway"

in 3-5 days?? :usure:

Its natural to be drawn to a woman who shares same interests as you that u also find attractive..but it doesnt mean anything on a deeper level.Its not love,fate or none of that soulmate bullshyt u see in the movies.
A day later u may find out some shyt bout her thats so :scusthov: and throw her in the bushes..

All that "i just met u and feel like i have known you for years" shyt is for the birds..it takes time,honesty and patience to really know someone.

:leon:
 

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winb83 said:
dates are controlled environments. you don't get to know a person in them. you see what they choose to expose to you.

you don't know a person until you've been exposed to them in a variety of situations. that could take years. on top of that people behave differently around different people.

humans like to think they know some shyt they actually don't. there was a point everyone believed the world was flat and they knew this until they found out the world was round.

if you interact with a person you're not acquainted with several times and hope they're being honest with you about who they are over the span of a year after that year do you then know them well enough to sleep with them?

You're stating that it's almost impossible to know who you're sleeping with to any degree of certainty regardless of how long you've been in contact with one another which is NOT what I'm saying. I'm stating that you CAN know to an acceptable degree who you're sleeping with BEFORE you sleep with them. Your degree of acceptance is just =/= mine. I can't sleep with someone I wouldn't trust with my life since my well-being is worth more than a nut. Sooner or later, you'll get tired of dodging bullets......or you'll just get hit. I guess that's a risk you're willing to take.

Not I.

Last relationship I was in I knew her past, she knew mine. Talked to her for about 6 months before I allowed myself to trust her.​
 

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You're talking out of both sides of your mouth now. On the one side, you're saying that it's perfectly fine to sleep with someone without getting deeply involved into their past history or mental make-up. On the other, you're stating that it's categorically impossible to know who you're sleeping with to any degree of certainty regardless of how long you've been in contact with one another. I'm stating that you CAN know to an acceptable degree who you're sleeping with BEFORE you sleep with them. Your degree of acceptance is just =/= mine. I can't sleep with someone I wouldn't trust with my life since my well-being is worth more than a nut. Sooner or later, you'll get tired of dodging bullets......or you'll just get hit. I guess that's a risk you're willing to take.

Not I.​
No I'm saying that knowing a person is irrelevant to having sex with them because you aren't really gonna know them anyway.

A woman in ct raised a boy to man. You think she knew he would take one of her guns and kill her then kill 20 some odd people at her place of employment? She's been in his life since day 1 and he was more than capable of that since he did it but how would she know that?
 
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No I'm saying that knowing a person is irrelevant to having sex with them because you aren't really gonna know them anyway.

A woman in ct raised a boy to man. You think she knew he would take one of her guns and kill her then kill 20 some odd people at her place of employment? She's been in his life since day 1 and he was more than capable of that since he did it but how would she know that?

Bad example. His mother knew he had problems. And he was extremely introverted to the point he never talked to people. There were signs. Obviously not that he would shoot up a school but people knew he had issues.

You're trying to say I can't even trust one of my friends over a random person on the street? I'm assuming either you don't talk to people or you don't ever make the effort to get to know anyone. Its easy to pick up on crazy once you start looking for the signs.
 
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