Does the Older Man/Younger Woman Relationship Actually Work?

[NotaPAWG]

I’m 30 still smashing 18 year olds

title says relationship.. not smashing situation-ships

 

[richaveli83]

Every other culture wants women in their prime. Only in America did nikkas get tricked by women into accepting old ass washed up women. I wish I would be a 30+ year old or older financially well off bruh who wants children and settle for a older woman. This is literally the last line of standard left we can have for women in America and you nikkas ready to give that up.

Breh I was called ageist by some of my coworkers because I said I would rather settle down with a woman in her late twenties to about 32. I'm 35 and not interested any woman older than me and nobody younger than 26/27. They were like I'm missing out on a bunch of good career women around my age. Most(not all) of those women in those categories got a lot of baggage(we all do but they're more likely), have children by other men, past prime child bearing age, etc.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

That’s the point.

Only dating for feelings is down right silly if you’re trying to build something as opposed to holding hands and kicking cans. Women in their early twenties are in their physical primes and men in their late 30’s are in their primes for what they’re supposed to bring to the table e.g. resources and knowledge to give.

Off the top of my head, I know of 4 men who are/where with much younger women.

1. WM who lived the playboy life and didn't marry until his late 40s to a woman in her late 20s. They had 2 kids. After a certain point she decided to become a lesbian and left him for a woman. Now he has brain cancer and a empty house. She got a huge amount of bread out of the divorce.

2. BM decided to get a young thang for the DR. He moved her here and they had a baby. About 3 years in she decides to report him for domestic violence which helps speed up the citizenship paperwork. So she left, got her citizenship and child support.

4. WM decided to marry a much younger women, helped her build up her career and then after she was set and fly she decided she didn't want to be married. She took the house, all the fly gear and excellent career and went on her way and he was suck with the taxes from a business he started for her.

3. The 4th went and got this 18 y/o Asian chick from Sweden. I think they have been together a few years but he literally never let's her leave the house. They live in NC with a ton of land. She literally is not allowed to go anywhere without him.


I don't consider any of those situations successful. But that is just me. The most successful marriages I have seen are within 7 years of each other.

In thid society we live in I don't think building a woman who is one step from being a child is a good idea for men. If it were me she would already have something going for herself. I'd want a woman who'd done a bit of living.

That is just my opinion though

 

[colicolicoli]

Sorry, I'm gonna just have to say it. I just can't see a young woman being satisfied sexually by men 10+ older.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

Smashing is one thing. Trying to wife up these immature broads is something else

Yeah u right can’t even grab a drink w/o a fake lol. but I’d try a younger chick over a older one. these older chicks ain’t right. Physically emotionally and spiritually. Ran thru mad baggage just stuck in they ways n we all know u can’t teach a old dog new tricks so

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I would think she would be more whipped because dude would have a lot of options while she's still can't even go drink.

I can't see why a dude would want a girl that young, but I feel that he would be the one in control.

I don't see a guy at that age really getting used and her not being attracted to him.

Ok....

How bout 30 and 38?

Attachments isn't the same as love though. I had a dog I was very attached to but still gave him away when I had to.

The problem with men is you think by getting someone young you can shelter her and keep her away from other men. That is not the case at all. People grow up. Just because you get her at 20 doesn't mean she's gonna be the same person at 25.

30, 38 might be a bit more passable but it's still 2 different generations.

 

[African Peasant]

Cat's are getting psychologically bullied into giving up prime women when they can grab them.

If you're in you 30's and you want to settle down and you refuse to look at women in their 20's because they told you it's "creepy", well you're mentally weak .

Ima be 38 in July. I’ve briefly dated some chicks in their 20s over the past few years. Only thing they can offer is sex. I need more than that from a woman. If somebody my age is getting mentally and emotionally stimulated by someone that much younger they got some deep seeded issues. But then again a lot of men only want women for one thing so it is what it is

Chicks in their 20's have the most important thing you need if you're trying to wife em: youth and fertility.

If you're in your 30's and you can't get emotionally "stimulated" by a woman in her 20's, well.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Yeah u right can’t even grab a drink w/o a fake lol. but I’d try a younger chick over a older one. these older chicks ain’t right. Physically emotionally and spiritually. Ran thru mad baggage just stuck in they ways n we all know u can’t teach a old dog new tricks so

I feel you. I’m dating a woman who is one year older than me. Luckily our baggage is similar so it works


But I’ve been out with a ton of women closer to my age who I had to literally block becuz they were beyond damaged and it was obvious

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Sorry, I'm gonna just have to say it. I just can't see a young woman being satisfied sexually by men 10+ older.

They never wanna talk about how their bodies change. Big difference between a 20 y/o man and a 40 y/o man sexually.

 

[chowism]

Breh I was called ageist by some of my coworkers because I said I would rather settle down with a woman in her late twenties to about 32. I'm 35 and not interested any woman older than me and nobody younger than 26/27. They were like I'm missing out on a bunch of good career women around my age. Most(not all) of those women in those categories got a lot of baggage(we all do but they're more likely), have children by other men, past prime child bearing age, etc.

Women hate hearing that men want a younger woman. They always fight that shyt. They will proudly declare they don't want a broke, little dikk, ugly, etc...man but soon as you say no older women they be

 

[RTF]

I’m 28, my main one is 20, in university.

She’s the youngest woman I could date and I don’t think it’s going to be anything serious.

At certain points her behaviour will remind me that she’s a really young woman. Like for real. Especially when she’s around her friends.

I think 23/24 is the youngest woman I could take serious. 20-22 just too far away from where I am in life.

 

[chowism]

Never got this one either, why would a 40 year old man with his stuff together date someone his own age with more baggage.

They're listening to these older women shame them into accepting them.

 

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Knowing what I know about women, if I were a guy I'd probably avoid women 8+ years younger.

This is a lowkey shaming post. I don’t usually call stuff like this out, but a spade’s a spade.

 

[African Peasant]

They're listening to these older women shame them into accepting them.

It's psychological warfare.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Cat's are getting psychologically bullied into giving up prime women when they can grab them.

If you're in you 30's and you want to settle down and you refuse to look at women in their 20's because they told you it's "creepy", well you're mentally weak .



Chicks in their 20's have the most important thing you need if you're trying to wife em: youth and fertility.

If you're in your 30's and you can't get emotionally "stimulated" by a woman in her 20's, well.

I see what your saying but I’m a divorced parent. I don’t want more kids. A woman’s fertility means nothing to me. And most women in their 20s with no kids are gonna want kids eventually. If I’m in a relationship I wanna be a partner. Not a father figure. And being that I’m older that’s eventually what it’s gonna be becuz I have way more life experience. It speaks volumes if a man with twice the life experience of their partner can be mentally and emotionally stimulated by them