Does the Older Man/Younger Woman Relationship Actually Work?

[CarmelBarbie]

I just don't get how men can be happy being tricks and having these women think they're disgusting.

well what do yall think is going on? Yall really think an attractive young mid twenties woman is just dating a man 10-15 years older because he still "got it". These men are fully aware that they're being used for their resources, just like the women are aware that they're being used as a sex trophy. It's an even exchange. I know on the coli a lot of people are delusional enough to believe that younger women favor older men, and genuinely want them--nah that is not the case by a long shot. They getting them bills paid, and benefiting off that relationship and nah, from the friends I've had in these situations, the sex was not good, tolerable, but not good. Like I said, I could never do it.... And we would all lowkey talk about now stupid their bfs were(they did too), but hell, they wanted a younger woman that looked good, they knew the deal.

 

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A lot of you guys need to remember these are biased-internet opinions with anecdotes we have zero way or knowing are true.

In real life you’ll see plenty of examples of this. Some that look so natural you may not even question it. There are 16 year olds dating girls in their 20s. You think the opposite doesn’t exist? I can tell you stories of teachers and grown engaged women being straight up bizarre regarding ageism with the opposite sex.

Stop. Listening. To. Women. And. Watch. What. They. Do.

Women do not even know themselves. They only know which emotions they feel in the moment.

 

[Balla]

I still don't believe 35 is old old.

If he's not flabby n sick why can't he fukk her for free?

What I meant was if a dude is gonna pay he might as well go to different women instead of taking care of one who's playing him and have a gf around his age.

Just giving a girl money to be with you is sad.

well what do yall think is going on? Yall really think an attractive young mid twenties woman is just dating a man 10-15 years older because he still "got it". These men are fully aware that they're being used for their resources, just like the women are aware that they're being used as a sex trophy. It's an even exchange. I know on the coli a lot of people are delusional enough to believe that younger women favor older men, and genuinely want them--nah that is not the case by a long shot. They getting them bills paid, and benefiting off that relationship and nah, from the friends I've had in these situations, the sex was not good, tolerable, but not good. Like I said, I could never do it.... And we would all lowkey talk about now stupid their bfs were(they did too), but hell, they wanted a younger woman that looked good, they knew the deal.

 

[Phitz]

It's always been like that and has worked in the past. I'm talking about women 20+ and older men, not a teenage girl. Look throughout history. A lot of women mature faster than men and tend to date/marry older men.

I know a couple who the woman was 26 when she got married to her husband who was 36 at the time. They've been married for about 8 years and got two children together. They both have good careers and doing well for themselves.

Women also age faster. Men these days who look dont really take care of themselves. B4 the 2000s most blk men were in good shape. Now alot start are aging fast due to diet alcohol and no discipline

 

[mag357]

Every other culture wants women in their prime. Only in America did nikkas get tricked by women into accepting old ass washed up women. I wish I would be a 30+ year old or older financially well off bruh who wants children and settle for a older woman. This is literally the last line of standard left we can have for women in America and you nikkas ready to give that up.

All facts

 

[-deleted-]

Rabbits are not telling lions how to kill them. Remember that.

 

[Balla]

So the true question is,

Who has it worse older men or women?

Because if older men are looked at as only resources, what do older women look like then?

A lot of you guys need to remember these are biased-internet opinions with anecdotes we have zero way or knowing are true.

In real life you’ll see plenty of examples of this. Some that look so natural you may not even question it. There are 16 year olds dating girls in their 20s. You think the opposite doesn’t exist? I can tell you stories of teachers and grown engaged women being straight up bizarre regarding ageism with the opposite sex.

Stop. Listening. To. Women. And. Watch. What. They. Do.

Women do not even know themselves. They only know which emotions they feel in the moment.

 

[mag357]

Sex is the easy part. It’s all the other shyt. When I would go out with younger chicks they’d complain about the music in my car. I ain’t trying to hear no NBA Youngboy

Complain about me not being on social media. Complain becuz i no longer can live off 5 hours of sleep anymore. Complain becuz I wasn’t trying to spend mad time on the phone talking about a bunch of nothing.

See this is what I was gonna address...
She can be young or old but she must know her lane....
You can have an older female and she'll complain about how u dress, where yall went to eat.. the fact that u didnt want to go out with her to her friends get together....
U get that type shyt with any woman

 

[CarmelBarbie]

A lot of you guys need to remember these are biased-internet opinions with anecdotes we have zero way or knowing are true.

In real life you’ll see plenty of examples of this. Some that look so natural you may not even question it. There are 16 year olds dating girls in their 20s. You think the opposite doesn’t exist? I can tell you stories of teachers and grown engaged women being straight up bizarre regarding ageism with the opposite sex.

Stop. Listening. To. Women. And. Watch. What. They. Do.

Women do not even know themselves. They only know which emotions they feel in the moment.

Shut up, don't make me hurt you.





As far as the bolded goes, guess which emotion I'm feeling at the moment.

 

[-deleted-]

So the true question is,

Who has it worse older men or women?

Because if older men are looked at as only resources, what do older women look like then?

That’s honestly neither of our concern. Both age groups have different intentions. The less you worry about this, the better.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

So the true question is,

Who has it worse older men or women?

Because if older men are looked at as only resources, what do older women look like then?

A bag of sacked potatoes. Frumpy, cat ladies.

 

[-deleted-]

Shut up, don't make me hurt you.





As far as the bolded goes, guess which emotion I'm feeling at the moment.

You know I’m right. This isn’t as black and white as the people in this thread are making it.

Emotional manipulation is Queen in this game.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

You know I’m right. This isn’t as black and white as the people in this thread are making it.

Emotional manipulation is Queen in this game.

Okay. You know I don't really care about all this shyt. I see you though breh.



But I'm not trying to talk about all that right now. How are you breh? Good morning so far?

 

[Balla]

That's why I like you, you know how to have fun.

A bag of sacked potatoes. Frumpy, cat ladies.

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

I still don't believe 35 is old old.

If he's not flabby n sick why can't he fukk her for free?

What I meant was if a dude is gonna pay he might as well go to different women instead of taking care of one who's playing him and have a gf around his age.

Just giving a girl money to be with you is sad.

35 is not old. How many of these young hoes would love to get wifed up by Future or Trey Songz??

And a bish is supposed to fall in love with how i manuever & manifest in this world so financial security being attractive isnt a negative to me. Especially since I have the means & lifestyle to invest in helping her chase her life goals.

Like the Nation of Islam said, something like your wife should be half your age plus 7. When I turn 30 I def would only settle down with nothing younger than 25-27 year old because she should have her purpose & sense of self figured out by then.