Done focusing on getting a girlfriend

[Couth]

so what happens when you lose your job and become unemployed and stress leads to severe weight loss

I don't lie nikkaz here can vouch for me
last chick i messed with was a model making over 6 figures, who could have had anyone but chose me

and i aint no tyson beckford azz nukka

You take a self made millionaire, strip him of his wealth, put him in a new country. He'll be up again in no time. Everything in life is temporary. You lose shyt all the time. But if you have that drive to go out and get it in the first place you'll be back on top in no time.

A nikka who lets losing a job effect him that much is a lame in the first place and most likely will get dumped. Just like i would dump a female if she let some little ass event totally destroy her. Cuz that would mean she changed as a person and was not the same girl that i got with.

I'm not saying your lying about the females you fukk with. I'm saying your lying about why they fukk with you. You may not be tyson beckford, but if you're pulling females like that there was something about you that said "i'm above average". You're not some 300 pound hobo pulling girls cuz you're a "good person". Doesn't work like that.

 

[Couth]

many popular people no one likes them
is that so? my brother in law got laid off from work and could not find a job for a year and a half, had a waife and two kids, he's a CPA making 125k a year now, i guess he was lazy, dumb, unmotivated

Appearance just gives off a perception, you can be fat but it could be due to a medical condition or genetics

everything you write is all perception and stereotypes

Do you know what the definition of popular is? When i say popular i'm not talking about "high school clique popular" I'm talking about popular. As in you get along well with other people. If you're a popular person that means the majority of people you meet are vibing with you and they like what you bring to the conversation. Fact. Easiest way to become popular is to simply be nice to everyone. Thats what popularity is.

Someone who is continually broke/not making moves in life is lazy, dumb, or undisciplined. That is a fact. Your brother got laid off. Being laid off =/= being broke. Cuz if he was smart and disciplined he already had some money stashed away for that exact situation. And like you said hes making 125k a year now. Why? Because he had the motivation to get out and go get it. If you're broke all the time its obvious to females that you don't have that motivation.

And if you do have said motivation and your broke for that moment? You wouldn't even be looking at females. Cuz your number one priority would be getting your money straight. And females know this thats why they look at most broke dudes as lames.

doesn't matter why your fat. If you're very fat your unhealthy. Who wants to be with an unhealthy person? If you have bad genes you have bad genes. Who wants to be with someone who has bad genes?

The way people perceive you is reality.

 

[ThugLife]

5'3-5'4. I'm Chinese though.

You never stood a chance

 

[Kabnis]

Would you suggest I bulk or just stay slim (not rail skinny, but not skinny fat either)? I'm afraid if I bulk and shyt piles up at work, I'll just get fat instead of lifting heavy enough to translate all those excess calories into muscle. As long as I'm slim with some muscle and with broad shoulders, I'm good right?

 

[Kabnis]

You never stood a chance

I know bro...I know...

 

[MikelArteta]

Would you suggest I bulk or just stay slim (not rail skinny, but not skinny fat either)? I'm afraid if I bulk and shyt piles up at work, I'll just get fat instead of lifting heavy enough to translate all those excess calories into muscle. As long as I'm slim with some muscle and with broad shoulders, I'm good right?

be yourself do things because you want to do it, not for anyone else then you will never be disappointed.

 

[MikelArteta]

Do you know what the definition of popular is? When i say popular i'm not talking about "high school clique popular" I'm talking about popular. As in you get along well with other people. If you're a popular person that means the majority of people you meet are vibing with you and they like what you bring to the conversation. Fact. Easiest way to become popular is to simply be nice to everyone. Thats what popularity is.

Someone who is continually broke/not making moves in life is lazy, dumb, or undisciplined. That is a fact. Your brother got laid off. Being laid off =/= being broke. Cuz if he was smart and disciplined he already had some money stashed away for that exact situation. And like you said hes making 125k a year now. Why? Because he had the motivation to get out and go get it. If you're broke all the time its obvious to females that you don't have that motivation.

And if you do have said motivation and your broke for that moment? You wouldn't even be looking at females. Cuz your number one priority would be getting your money straight. And females know this thats why they look at most broke dudes as lames.

doesn't matter why your fat. If you're very fat your unhealthy. Who wants to be with an unhealthy person? If you have bad genes you have bad genes. Who wants to be with someone who has bad genes?

The way people perceive you is reality.

keep thinking that breh

so whats your status, how many dimes are hitting down?

 

[360dagod]

You never stood a chance

 

[Couth]

keep thinking that breh

so whats your status, how many dimes are hitting down?

I will. Since you have no rebuttal.

My status? High enough. I don't try to make connections with people so i'm not mr. popularity. But i'm well respected.

How many dimes am i hitting? I don't believe in dimes. Main girl is a solid 7 without makeup. And i know mulitple 7+'s that i could call to hit right now. I've never had a problem attracting women.

And at the moment my focus is not on status or females. These things simply don't matter to me. I do me. I want to reach what my idea of self actualization is before i turn 30. Everything else is inconsequential.

 

[AMcV'88]

(except that goofball never gave up hope)

why you desperately seeking something ?..you can't force it..you need to let things happen at their own pace.
just make sure you enjoy life and theres you'll no doubt meet someone eventually.

oh and you probably got a terrible haircut..sort your hair out

no tears being shed over here....u asian guys always wine and feel sorry for urselves .......yall the game on lock....yall got $ , getting bytches aint hard esp if u got wealth

David Choe should be an inspiration to all small chubby feeling like the world is against them Asians.

 

[AMcV'88]

speaking of status and money reminds me...

i was 17 fukkin a 21 year old trust fund brat who had a boyfriend that on paper was everything i'm not...and when i first met her i was just a friend of her friends weedman.
she enjoyed herself way more with me....him knowing that pleased me greatly.

he probably went around jet setting and fukkin other dimes but that was a nice little win for me back then when i was always getting intro trouble trying to get to the lifestyle they lived..it was a nice little taster.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

Your short and asian...u have to develop that mouthpeice and feast.

Ive never had those problems. Im 6'2, black, and light skin

 

[MercuryHayes]

Chinese girls are picky in the US and abroad. The ones in the US typically want white guys, the ones in China want height A LOT (especially with the gender imbalance from the one-child policies- more men to choose from). White anime manga girls typically go for white anime manga guys; the ones who don't are in such limited supply it's a battle competing with the other Asians for them.

Amazing insight.

You need to be the Chinese perspective correspondent for the coli

 

[Turk]

BroGod OP this is not the website for advice. Just look at the some of the responses

 

[LezJepzin]

The spewed in this thread is disgusting. I'm like OP but I'm 6ft1, black , attractive, in great shape (I ran two marathons last year) , good job, genes, money, blah blah blah.

Some of us have it easy, some of us don't. It is what it is. I respect @Emperor_ReinScarf 's feedback because I've dated Ford Models , making their own money, etc. to know there's more that women look for and that's not from the bougie checklist.