Breh went Game of Thrones on 'em when he dropped his name & pedigree. 
Don't be the THAT guy, brehs.
- Thread starter mamba
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This is why you let your intentions be known from the jump, though.
Not necessarily this guy in particular as I don't know what his method was, but if you know you're interested in being intimate, don't tip toe around it.
Guys are so petrified of offending a chick that they become asexual in her presence.
You send asexual, best friend vibes, you'll get a friend instead of an intimate lover.
The guy dude was complaining about likley exuded carnal lust from the moment he met the female and didn't apologize for it.
Creating sexual tension and demonstrating sexual intent is essential if you actually want to get sexual.
There are grown men who have trouble grasping this.
Not necessarily this guy in particular as I don't know what his method was, but if you know you're interested in being intimate, don't tip toe around it.
Guys are so petrified of offending a chick that they become asexual in her presence.
You send asexual, best friend vibes, you'll get a friend instead of an intimate lover.
The guy dude was complaining about likley exuded carnal lust from the moment he met the female and didn't apologize for it.
Creating sexual tension and demonstrating sexual intent is essential if you actually want to get sexual.
There are grown men who have trouble grasping this.
Ive fukked or had sexual relations with almost all my female friends. Except my friend's girlfriends or wives. All i did was talk with them and hangout. Then again i didnt pursue sex with them it just happened. I kind of flirt alot too though.
I need more girl friends. I think I might just need friends in general but that's another thing in general. There are women I was cool with until things got sexual and things were still cool. I genuinely enjoyed their company but sometimes I didn't want the whole thing that came with the sexual side.
Which is why you have to be selective or don't have them at all outside of dating. Somebody always going to like somebody, it's human nature.
Hopeofmypeople
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Why do people treat one another so horribly nowadays? Why can't we just be people and converse with one another? Why must there always be some ulterior motive? And why are people always looking for a way to one-up somebody else. I talk with females all the time. Sometimes it leads to sex. Sometimes it doesn't.
Dam I can't stand this poster, all your posts are filled with bullshyt.....gtfo you fukk boi.
It's possible to be friends with women, it takes a lot of practice for most men though (me included). In order for such a relationship to work one must:
1. Know that calling the other party's BS out is essential. Fail to do that and you'll literally see the respect dropping. Women test friendships somewhat differently (I wouldn't say more or less) from men.
2. Be ready to bounce when she wants to do things you don't wanna go (like going shopping).
3. Knowing how to be slick with these girl-friends, 'cause they WILL be slick with your ass. Female friends will ask you for "help" way more than your male friends (probably because of the supportive role society forces them to play). It's like they always got something to ask for...which is why it's important that as the guy-friend you be sure to ask for their "help" with what you want as well. More than you'd ask your male-friends.
4. Be spontaneous and able to enjoy whatever activity you'll both be engaging, and if you're not enjoying it say so and leave.
5. Know to keep the gossip to a minimum, get information you need. But stop them whenever they feel like sharing info that you're 100% sure you're not gonna need. Which is actually easy to do because women switch topics way faster than men, so you can just steer the conversation when your girl-friend is ranting/venting/telling her lil'story.
Of course, all of the above should be done with respect, consideration and just about any virtues/values that a normal friendship requires.
1. Know that calling the other party's BS out is essential. Fail to do that and you'll literally see the respect dropping. Women test friendships somewhat differently (I wouldn't say more or less) from men.
2. Be ready to bounce when she wants to do things you don't wanna go (like going shopping).
3. Knowing how to be slick with these girl-friends, 'cause they WILL be slick with your ass. Female friends will ask you for "help" way more than your male friends (probably because of the supportive role society forces them to play). It's like they always got something to ask for...which is why it's important that as the guy-friend you be sure to ask for their "help" with what you want as well. More than you'd ask your male-friends.
4. Be spontaneous and able to enjoy whatever activity you'll both be engaging, and if you're not enjoying it say so and leave.
5. Know to keep the gossip to a minimum, get information you need. But stop them whenever they feel like sharing info that you're 100% sure you're not gonna need. Which is actually easy to do because women switch topics way faster than men, so you can just steer the conversation when your girl-friend is ranting/venting/telling her lil'story.
Of course, all of the above should be done with respect, consideration and just about any virtues/values that a normal friendship requires.
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Elle Driver
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the bossman
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see posters gotta start being banned when it's a thread already & they don't link it when they responding to you
Link?
Lol but you just proven you can't be friends with a woman you're attracted to.
How? We're friends right now and I have no interest in pursuing her sexually.
Elle Driver
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Would you turn down the p*ssy though?
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