breh looking funny in the light though, she just flexin her hold over him, you hate to see it
Don't be used for Dates ....protect yourselves Kings ...leave this in 2019
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It looks like he let himself be used. No one is forcing Brehs to continue on with friendships like this with woman. She didn’t force him to spend money on her—he’s a grown man. People can only take advantage and use you if you let them. At any point in time Brehs can let the friendship go. I also know men and women who’ve been able to successfully maintain platonic friendships with no issue. Seems like y’all have faux outrage because she took pictures that feature her and her male friend out having fun and showed it on social media, when many people take snapshots of their lives and post it all the time. Who cares.
I think the really sad part and the part that hits us in our subconscious is the fact that the nikka clearly isn't having fun. I feel like we all internally know what a nikka having fun looks like, it's all in the body language (and this breh's body language is mad remedial).
This right here is his homegirl, by all means he should be having a blast or at least posing less awkwardly. HER facials expression's the only one that shows "friendship" vibes, HIS facial expressions don't match it. It's clear as day in the pictures.
A lot of men ain't able to put it into words, but once we see it our subconscious just screams: "Hell nah, there's something wrong here!".
Should he grow a back bone? Hell yeah, but on the same note, what they have ain't no legitimate friendship because someone is letting themselves be used.
Platonic Friendships between men and women do exist, but this one ain't it.
Nah the specific example restraining from smashing a colleague while in a relationship is not stupidity lol
Smokin Rider
I been official
Nah that was cruel, she know he likes her and she put the rejection on as for the world, he sucks cause he allowed it to get that far too
Making a habit of catching happy hour after work with them is. It is an easy way of getting jammed up.
Dismiss signs of growing intimacy because they're your colleagues. Reduce your inhibitions with liquor.
Cruel for who? He’s a grown man who chose to be there. When she asked, he had the option of saying NO. Y'all quoting me acting like I’m saying yes this a beautiful way for friends to hang out and male friends should do this blah blah blah is hella weird because I didn’t. Both of them made a choice to show up for this weird shyt. If he doesn’t want to do it then he shouldn’t have. Stop coping pleas for a grown man who made a choice to look like a gump. If my son told me he’s doing this I’d tell him he’ll look like a fool so don’t. If he still shows up, that's on him
Smokin Rider
I been official
Cruel for who? He’s a grown man who chose to be there. When she asked, he had the option of saying NO. Y'all quoting me acting like I’m saying yes this a beautiful way for friends to hang out and male friends should do this blah blah blah is hella weird because I didn’t. Both of them made a choice to show up for this weird shyt. If he doesn’t want to do it then he shouldn’t have. Stop coping pleas for a grown man who made a choice to look like a gump. If my son told me he’s doing this I’d tell him he’ll look like a fool so don’t. If he still shows up, that's on him
All that to just say you agree with me
All that to just say you agree with me
More so confused as to why you even quoted me in the first place like I'm in here rooting for black love between these goofies.
It's so cruel...
Smokin Rider
I been official
More so confused as to why you even quoted me in the first place like I'm in here rooting for black love between these goofies.
It's so cruel...
Bird babble
feelosofer
#ninergang
I'm not going to put so much energy into the decisions of grown adults. If he wants to spend his time and money taking a lady friend out for her birthday that's his choice.
Ain't no crackheadNo one in this scenario is married. Just two singles being goofy. I said this ain't it in my first post. Are you a crackhead or something? I don't have any crack to give you breh so what are you looking for?
earthwalka
All Star
Oh yea definitely. I agree with that
$cam-U-Well_Jack$on
Superstar
Lose trying to play the long game brehs. Even if you win, it’s a loss because you had to play the long game.
Would you be cool with your girl going out with one of her guy friends, one on one?
Not even being a contrarian, i’m legit asking bredren.
