Don't be used for Dates ....protect yourselves Kings ...leave this in 2019

[Sterling Archer]

Exactly.

A friend date is like, “I buy a jug and we have a drink and a little meal,” this is full on Valentine’s settings.

Now the whole world knows he ain’t getting no cheeks before or after the date - men with rosters ain’t moving like this.

I agree to an extent. I like going out to nice places and I like good company. Me and a close friend would go out (used to date, was better off as just friends) often and to everyone else it would look like a date but I’d tell them we aren’t together despite how it looks. That was my homie. I would take her out for her birthday and she would take me out for mine too.

I wouldn’t get any flowers or take photos like this dude because it would seem romantic but just taking your friend out if y’all were close is not big deal. Really have to know what the energy was to say he fukking up and we can’t get that from just the photo.

she’s 100% clout chasing by posting that though. So as it stands, she’s the only one I’m knocking at the moment.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Brehs still simping in 2022 after all the red pill knowledge that has been kicked in the past couple years

 

[re'up]

I think the idea that dates are for sex/and money used to facilitate that should be done away with, unfortunately, these are so ingrained, embedded into our socialization, it's rarely possible, even in very progressive/educated/affluent circle where I usually am.

I feel like I would have to date an Oxford academic to have a more intelligent conversation about dating, sex and money.

For so many, men and women, it all comes back to gender roles.

and, I have gone out with women on similar things, sometimes it's just about the event, reservations at a hot place, tickets to Hamilton, whatever, and you just want the company, and to do something cool for someone.

Not to mention, the idea that after these extensive, lengthy dinners, most people are going home and having wild sex is probably untrue, not the best time for good sex and, sometimes the "will we or won't we" sexual tension is great, and sometimes I just want to relax and take all that mostly off the table.

Sometimes mid date, even if I like the person a lot, I am just ready to go back home, by myself, and forget all the logistics and mental shuffling of what happens next.

 

[Capitol]

Yall seem way more upset about this than bull

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

For the whole world to see

@CouldntBeMeTho

 

[Serious]

Nah but if it works for them cool

you mean we can't do this

 

[Sterling Archer]

I think the idea that dates are for sex/and money used to facilitate that should be done away with, unfortunately, these are so ingrained, embedded into our socialization, it's rarely possible, even in very progressive/educated/affluent circle where I usually am.

I feel like I would have to date an Oxford academic to have a more intelligent conversation about dating, sex and money.

For so many, men and women, it all comes back to gender roles.

and, I have gone out with women on similar things, sometimes it's just about the event, reservations at a hot place, tickets to the Hamilton, whatever, and you just want the company, and to do something cool for someone.

…or just with someone. There’s been plenty of times where I take a woman out with me just because I’d enjoy myself more with company. Not really caring about them directly or doing it for them, it was just something for myself and I accessorized them for my own enjoyment.

 

[re'up]

…or just with someone. There’s been plenty of times where I take a woman out with me just because I’d enjoy myself more with company. Not really caring about them directly or doing it for them, it was just something for myself and I accessorized them for my own enjoyment.

There's certainly that element too, though I like to think of it as mutually beneficial, and I believe it is.

 

[RadaMillz]

any dude that is friends with an attractive girl is either a simp or a

this breh is just wrongfully waiting for the right to time to make a grand entrance smh
what he doesn't understand is that women like her at the most opportunistic beings on earth.
She knows he wants her but why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?

dude has to watch some other guys who either treat her like sh!t or do the bare minimun..... regularly rearrange her guts
and she calls him right after to vent and repeat the cycle

all that hurt will eventually lead him to find one of those 'red-pill' woman hating podcasts and go super extreme

 

[[Something Cool]]

Ain't nothing wrong with having female friends, but your ass better have some work on deck or you're gonna do crazy and waste your money on bullshyt - no thanks.

 

[MikelArteta]

No such thing as a close heterosexual male friend for women

just guys who have smashed and guys who want to smash

but but scarf i have a close female friend and

yeah if she was rubbing on your leg that she was dikk deprived you wouldn’t be like but this will ruin our friendship

 

[Sterling Archer]

any dude that is friends with an attractive girl is either a simp or a

You sound like you don’t have options when it comes to attractive women. That’s something that I noticed about people who say that. They don’t attract fine women for whatever reason.

 

[NZA]

if this isnt friendzone strategy then he would also take his male friends on "dates". LOL.

this will end poorly

 

[Speaking Womanese]

I agree to an extent. I like going out to nice places and I like good company. Me and a close friend would go out (used to date, was better off as just friends) often and to everyone else it would look like a date but I’d tell them we aren’t together despite how it looks. That was my homie. I would take her out for her birthday and she would take me out for mine too.

I wouldn’t get any flowers or take photos like this dude because it would seem romantic but just taking your friend out if y’all were close is not big deal. Really have to know what the energy was to say he fukking up and we can’t get that from just the photo.

she’s 100% clout chasing by posting that though. So as it stands, she’s the only one I’m knocking at the moment.

The vibe between platonic friends (even ones who used to date) has a playful undercurrent because you’ve already built rapport and been through the fire with each other.

Even when you take pics you ain’t sat there like hostages like these two

This one was trying to catch someone’s attention with these pics and it weren’t the breh on the date.

He’s still in the, “I can change her mind,” phase.

 

[RadaMillz]

You sound like you don’t have options when it comes to attractive women. That’s something that I noticed about people who say that. They don’t attract fine women for whatever reason.

why would any man willingly be friends with fine women with no intention to smash or get in a relationship with?
I'm sorry breh but I am letting my intentions know from the get and if she's not is feeling me...that's fine, imma keep it pushing