Don't be used for Dates ....protect yourselves Kings ...leave this in 2019

[Koli_Kat]

That's not your friend if they have to pay you back for every good gesture. We don't count favors around here

And

Let your girl run your life, brehs. She might not like it but she should also know me enough to believe what i tell her. If she don't, then i might as well share her

Any more questions?

Nah you just confirmed my thoughts on why this is wrong.
Roles reversed most women wouldn't like it and most men that do this under the idea of no payback

 

[Leao2005]

any dude that is friends with an attractive girl is either a simp or a

this breh is just wrongfully waiting for the right to time to make a grand entrance smh
what he doesn't understand is that women like her at the most opportunistic beings on earth.
She knows he wants her but why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?

dude has to watch some other guys who either treat her like sh!t or do the bare minimun..... regularly rearrange her guts
and she calls him right after to vent and repeat the cycle

all that hurt will eventually lead him to find one of those 'red-pill' woman hating podcasts and go super extreme

So we just supposed to be friends with uglies lol

 

[Scaaar]

I think the idea that dates are for sex/and money used to facilitate that should be done away with, unfortunately, these are so ingrained, embedded into our socialization, it's rarely possible, even in very progressive/educated/affluent circle where I usually am.

I feel like I would have to date an Oxford academic to have a more intelligent conversation about dating, sex and money.

For so many, men and women, it all comes back to gender roles.

and, I have gone out with women on similar things, sometimes it's just about the event, reservations at a hot place, tickets to Hamilton, whatever, and you just want the company, and to do something cool for someone.

Not to mention, the idea that after these extensive, lengthy dinners, most people are going home and having wild sex is probably untrue, not the best time for good sex and, sometimes the "will we or won't we" sexual tension is great, and sometimes I just want to relax and take all that mostly off the table.

Sometimes mid date, even if I like the person a lot, I am just ready to go back home, by myself, and forget all the logistics and mental shuffling of what happens next.

Everything you said was true. There have definitely been some dates that the sex afterwards wasn't even worth it in my mind to pursue. The only flagrant thing really is her posting and bringing attention to the friend zone thing. Breh should take it as disrespectful and bushed her off the jump. But I think he's been programmed at this point and he's just being the good guy until he gets his turn. Which is crazy too

 

[CarltonJunior]

I just got back home from a friend date

I been fukked her on and off thru the years tho so it ain't like I'm down bad.

 

[T.H.E. Goat]

Single men befriending single women will be a loss for the men every time


Unless she’s someone I grew up/went to school with or a coworker I wouldn’t be friends with a single woman because situations like this will happen

 

[Point Blank]

 

[You Win Perfect]

There is no point in having homegirls if I can't fukk from time to time.

/thread.
Any chick I’m “cool” with we smashed. No other reason to have females around or to be hangin out with

 

[KBtheKey]

Nah you just confirmed my thoughts on why this is wrong.
Roles reversed most women wouldn't like it and most men that do this under the idea of no payback

Might as well put your goal posts in the middle of the field. We don't quantify broke nikkas opinions. Most people on this type of time gone do what they do and not give a fukk about what randoms on the internet think about it. Friend zone relationships are in the minority so idk why y'all always try to make it seem like nikkas just suckers for spending money on a broad that ain't theirs even if they ain't whining bout it.

I think y'all should start going outside more. For y'all health as well as the culture's. Pandemic mightve doomed y'all tho, with a life full of excuses on why not to go pull some hoes

 

[Scaaar]

Yeah the cynic in me tells me she posted the above to let the potential suitors and side dikk know that the door is still wide open.

That's exactly what it was. Or to make the breh that she's on a break from jealous

 

[Scaaar]

Even when you’re single, it’s the same. You have a stable of attractive women, Girl A the baddest but she work a lot so you have free time to kick it with Girl B more. Girl B the one you closest to because you spend the most time with her but she catching feelings too hard. You pull Girl C in and fall back from B. Girl A switch it up and gets more time to be with you and that’s your #1 pick of the roster so you rocking with her tough. C falls out the picture cause she wasn’t getting enough attention. Girl B, the homie is back but she only needed time to not catch feelings and get her mind right about you. You not trying to get no action from her cause you rocking with A but y’all still cool. You and A fall out, and you find a New A. B type mad but gets over it and decides y’all just shouldn’t hook up anymore. You fine with that because you were already smashing A, New A and C. But B was the one you were the better friends with so y’all stay friends and you keep doing your thing.

Girl B is now a fine bytch that you are friends with.

This is from my own personal experience. I actually am friends with Girl A still too.

This is exactly how it goes when you have a stable roster. You're never put in the position of breh in the OP. I've done it where I've juggled multiple women that filled a different voids. It just gets hectic when you're choosing on one and you end up picking the wrong one and lose out on all of them.

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

All that and breh couldn't even get a sample of the coochie hair for science.

Man these humans on some other shyt. Can't be me at all, no sir

 

[Loose]

Meh i got legit female friends, y'all need to get some p*ssy not everything posted on net is vindictive

 

[2stainz]

or worse....he gets a white girl

I hope he does

 

[Knuckles Red]

I don't see the issue. I love the idea of platonic relationships between men and women. It needs to be understood that a man and a woman can be friends and appreciate one another without it being about sex. More importantly, women need to know that they can be appreciated for more than what they can offer sexually. Friendship dates--what an awesome concept!!

 

[97Pac]

I mean dude is rocking Black Air Force Ones on a date. He probably don’t give a fukk about anything.

Thats all I rock. Black forces are super durable and never go out of style