Don't know if I could live with myself if I have ugly kids

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some new scanning tech can detect kids with brain or development issues

True. The tests are out there, and if it turns out your chick is preg with a down syndrome baby or a baby that could have autism or something, would you want her to abort the child?:sadbron:
 

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True. The tests are out there, and if it turns out your chick is preg with a down syndrome baby or a baby that could have autism or something, would you want her to abort the child?:sadbron:

I don't know :wow:


I seen parents with kids with down syndrome, they basically have to baby their kid from birth to death, that no way to live and that kid don't even know they alive :to:


just sad
 

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I don't know :wow:


I seen parents with kids with down syndrome, they basically have to baby their kid from birth to death, that no way to live and that kid don't even know they alive :to:


just sad

The child will most def need around the clock care for their whole life, but they can and often do learn skills that could help them in everyday functioning. Of course they know they are alive! They will just always be behind developmentally.

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This makes me sad:to:

But what if she wants to keep it?:ufdup:

Imma show her pictures of 90 year old women taking care of their 60 year old retarded son because he has nowhere to go :ld:

Its not natural or fair to anyone in that scenario and if she forces me into that hardship, Id get real grimey real quick. Id pay my share but, after 18 years, deuces :rudy:
 

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Imma show her pictures of 90 year old women taking care of their 60 year old retarded son because he has nowhere to go :ld:

Its not natural or fair to anyone in that scenario and if she forces me into that hardship, Id get real grimey real quick. Id pay my share but, after 18 years, deuces :rudy:


I know I personally couldn't abort a special needs child... I dont have it in me:to:

But I do understand your viewpoint and stance on the situation.

Makes sense.
 

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I know I personally couldn't abort a special needs child... I dont have it in me:to:

But I do understand your viewpoint and stance on the situation.

Makes sense.

I have a cousin who's special needs, and my boy's little brother is too. Both are confined to wheel chairs and pretty much need help with everything. When they're kids, it doesn't bother you as much.....especially if you have other children in the house. You dont notice it as much. But when all your kids grow up and start leaving for college, getting married, making their way out into the world, and you're still stuck with that last kid who'll never be able to leave your side.........you realize its a lifelong commitment :whoa:

Its not natural :yeshrug:
 

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I have a cousin who's special needs, and my boy's little brother is too. Both are confined to wheel chairs and pretty much need help with everything. When they're kids, it doesn't bother you as much.....especially if you have other children in the house. You dont notice it as much. But when all your kids grow up and start leaving for college, getting married, making their way out into the world, and you're still stuck with that last kid who'll never be able to leave your side.........you realize its a lifelong commitment :whoa:

Its not natural :yeshrug:

True@ a lifelong commitment. They arn't able to experience life the way one is naturally supposed to. I feel bad for both parties in such said situations. Idk.. this type ish is tough.:wow:

Hopefully neither one of us ever has to hear news that our child in utero is going to turn out that way.
 

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True@ a lifelong commitment. They arn't able to experience life the way one is naturally supposed to. I feel bad for both parties in such said situations. Idk.. this type ish is tough.:wow:

Hopefully neither one of us ever has to hear news that our child in utero is going to turn out that way.

aborting a kid that you know gonna have problems will save everyone heartache
 
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My adult sister is disabled for life and a huge burden. Actually she regressed and is less capable now than she was in her teens. My mom is over 70 and can't even put her in supported living because she's scared the nurses would try to kill her. Sometimes I wonder if she would have chose to raise her if she had known it was going to be like this.
 
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I hope all my kids get my good hair looks and height:wow:

I see how hard it is for ugly ass people[its proven even babies hate ugly people] i want my kids to be able to skate through life getting they ass kissed cuz they gorgeous like they daddy :ohlawd:
 
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