Don't put his name on the birth certificate

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Baby momma, baby daddy situations seem like hell on Earth. I don't understand why people put themselves through it. Good relationships that break up is one thing but having a child with someone I casually deal with is something I can never wrap my head around. Best of luck of anyone in this situation. I feel for you.

 

[Umoja]

Could have cut the video short by saying don't sleep with bums.

 

[BobbyWojak]

Sounds more like he don't want to be with her
Than being a low life
Talking bout he supposed to be cooking for her

I'm just going off what she said which is abuse, not taking care of your pregnant wife, etc. I'm not saying you should be a slave to your wife, but you definitely gotta help her more than you would regularly if she was pregnant, I mean c'mon. Something wrong with you if you don't try to make it work with a woman having your child, 'I don't want to be with her' I don't understand that, both of you are culpable, as a man how tf do you have a child with someone you don't want to be with.

A lot. One was disassociating from the father. That will definitely impact the child. Because a dude is a shyty boyfriend, fyck buddy, etc doesn't mean he'll he a terrible father. That's a bad correlation which isn't true. Last, women have multiple methods of birth control. If they get pregnant from a dude that they know isn't about shyt from the beginning, she bears responsibility. This video like other things like to ignore that. This was another feminist babble of men are shyt and do it by yourself.

This is my personal opinion, you can't be a good father and not be in the house, you can do your best, but it's not ideal at all. Also, you said she bears responsibility, breh they both do If you have unprotected sex and have an unwanted child that shyt is on both of you, you can't continue living your life as if you have a kid on the side, that child needs your full attention and effort.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Listen to a talking thumb brehettes

 

[Easy-E]

Ayo women get academic and deep about skirting accountablity

Here's my video; Don't fukk fukk bois...especially without a condom.

 

[Umoja]

What did she say that was wrong, if the father is a low life, I don't see the problem

The problem is how they reach that conclusion.

How many times have you heard a woman dog her ex only to find out that she was partially, sometimes mostly, to blame.

 

[Jazzy B.]

You can feel the literal hate and contempt she has for Black Men just off her voice inflections


Already know her Tik Tok page is filled with "nikkas aint shyt" rhetoric

 

[Solomon Caine]

Honestly I’m not usually wit this type of crap. But I didn’t hear anything wrong. What kinda man abandons his seed? A spineless one, that’s who. But wouldn’t the woman be missing out on child support in this case. The whole system is fuked up.

 

[BobbyWojak]

The problem is how they reach that conclusion.

How many times have you heard a woman dog her ex only to find out that she was partially, sometimes mostly, to blame.

To me, it's not partially sometimes. Barring extreme circumstance like an abusive mother or violent father, it's always on both if a parenting situation doesn't work out, they need to swallow their egos, be more mature and realize the gravity of what they did.

You made a whole person

 

[moorfeus]

There is no advice you can give to a woman in this type of situation. She's fukked.
No self-control, out here having random sex with people that don't even like her, let alone want to raise a child with her.
This woman made a viral video spewing broke-down nikka babble. And she's too old to be giving this sort of "advice" like its some type of wisdom for the ladies.

Sad thing is the people are so far gone, this is the type of "wisdom" they get from their mommas and even grandmommas. Third generation hoes and skeezas.

 

[HTXBreh]

Does this chick have a husband or child?

 

[BobbyWojak]

There is no advice you can give to a woman in this type of situation. She's fukked.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Could have cut the video short by saying don't sleep with bums.

Yeah she pissed about it… you can tell she was talking specifically about her experiences at times

 

[O.T.I.S.]

There is no advice you can give to a woman in this type of situation. She's fukked.
No self-control, out here having random sex with people that don't even like her, let alone want to raise a child with her.
This woman made a viral video spewing broke-down nikka babble. And she's too old to be giving this sort of "advice" like its some type of wisdom for the ladies.

Sad thing is the people are so far gone, this is the type of "wisdom" they get from their mommas and even grandmommas. Third generation hoes and skeezas.

I’m saying

This shouldn’t even be advice because the average intelligent person isn’t going through this.

This sounds very specific to a situation she has personal investment in.. experiences in.

Like I said, I thought most of the bm blame in situations about this kinda thing is about the father being there. She talking about nikkas trying to trap females with seeds. I’ve seen it happen but not to this extent, not often, and they weren’t even black. It was a latino dude that “trapped” an ex

 

[boriquaking]

Fine by me