" Don't text guys back right away"

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It seems as if guys only like the chase. Once you show interest back they run off. That has been the case for me and many of my friends. This probably the reasoning behind this.

:dahell:

the reasoning is some hs type ish to see if a guy really likes you

women have already tried pulling this ish on me, and you know what happened?

i just never messaged again. There are way to much women out there that don't play that ish for me to fall into manipulation hs tactics
 

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I have heard this many times mainly from other girls. When a guy texts you, don't text him back right away. He will want you more if you give him a while before you text back.

Guys, is this true? If you really like a girl would this even matter?

if you're a girl and u like the guy u would be a fool to follow this idiotic idea. as a man with options, any woman that takes too long to answer my text will get deleted with the quickness.
 
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if you're a girl and u like the guy u would be a fool to follow this idiotic idea. as a man with options, any woman that doesn't takes too long to answer my text will get deleted with the quickness.

even if you don't have options, if you respect yourself and have dignity.

Everyone knows espcially in thsi generation that people have their phone on them 24/7 updating facebook, instagram, whatsapping, snap chatting, vineing browsing, texting etc.
 

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Most men aren't gonna notice you pausing between texts. So thats dumb.

But you're right about dudes only liking the chase. if you want a dude to stick around you keep him chasing you. Don't be so quick to give into him. In fact don't give in ever lol. Just tease and make sure he always contacts you first. If you got game you can even make him fall "in love". Not gonna work on all dudes but if you know how to play it i'm sure you can knock a few.

But in reality thats not a real relationship. Its you playing a part. If you wanna have an actual relationship you gotta be yourself. If you just want a dumb nikka to do shyt for you then try the above.
 

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smh..accept reality...a. they fukkin a nikka b. talkin to their fam/friends c. fukkin a nikka right after talkin to their fam d. fukin they friend

:lolbron:hurt doesnt it
 

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Most men aren't gonna notice you pausing between texts. So thats dumb.

But you're right about dudes only liking the chase. if you want a dude to stick around you keep him chasing you. Don't be so quick to give into him. In fact don't give in ever lol. Just tease and make sure he always contacts you first. If you got game you can even make him fall "in love". Not gonna work on all dudes but if you know how to play it i'm sure you can knock a few.

But in reality thats not a real relationship. Its you playing a part. If you wanna have an actual relationship you gotta be yourself. If you just want a dumb nikka to do shyt for you then try the above.

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Most men know, just dudes that give women "leeway" or dudes that are talking to ten other chicks so they don't care about the games you play fall
 

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depends on how often it is.

if he messages you to start a convo...its perfectly understandable if you take a while to reply because he doesnt know what youre up to. You might be at work, sleeping, whatever. But if you reply...he replies promptly and you still insist on taking a long time to reply then it just hinders the progression of the conversation to the point where most dudes who arent thirsty wont bother.
 

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It seems as if guys only like the chase. Once you show interest back they run off. That has been the case for me and many of my friends. This probably the reasoning behind this.

All guys, and people for that matter, are different. If you want to pursue a relationship of substance, you need to deal with grown men who you can be genuine and real with. Pursuing boys with childish manipulative games that are designed to elicit a personal desired result, rather than build honestly with someone, will produce disappointing outcomes for you.
 
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