Do's and Dont's of a Breakup

[calixprynce]

Good morning Ladies,

Me and my 1st and only gf , (who also took my virginity) , just broke up like on Friday. We broke up cause I lied one too many times and I failed to put that woman first. We've been together since April 2017. I've never experienced this and its hard not talking to her or being around her. I truly love this girl and planned to marry her.

How to approach this situation? Her bday is the 22nd, can I send her flowers? Can I send her a card?

A lot of ppl say Absence makes the heart grow fonder.....but is that true?? It also doesnt help that a lot of things she needed done , I did. Like cleaning...like making sure her school work is caught up...like making sure she eat... She invited me over to smoke yesterday and her house is a MESS. That was my job!


Help me brehettes

 

[Poitier]

Me and my 1st and only gf , (who also took my virginity) , just broke up like on Friday. We broke up cause I lied one too many times and I failed to put that woman first.

She will come back around. They always do.

Reach out occasionally but don't be on her ass.

Just work on yourself in the meantime and do better next time.

 

[calixprynce]

She will come back around. They always do.

Reach out occasionally but don't be on her ass.

Just work on yourself in the meantime and do better next time.

If this is indeed true, then i guess its cool

my problem is she liked how i chased and had persistence to be with her

so im feeling i should do the same to get her back, but maybe its the opposite

shyt just crazy, only girl ive ever loved, took my virginity , all that... its hard seeing her car at the crib and not being able to contact her

 

[Poitier]

If this is indeed true, then i guess its cool

my problem is she liked how i chased and had persistence to be with her

so im feeling i should do the same to get her back, but maybe its the opposite

shyt just crazy, only girl ive ever loved, took my virginity , all that... its hard seeing her car at the crib and not being able to contact her

Also don't go over her house to smoke or whatever.

If she can still have you around then she can still get her emotional fulfillment without coming back around to the relationship, easy way to a friendzone.

Pull back from face to face contact but reach out, let her know you are remorseful, and work on yourself while she cools down.

 

[calixprynce]

Also don't go over her house to smoke or whatever.

If she can still have you around then she can still get her emotional fulfillment without coming back around to the relationship, easy way to a friendzone.

Pull back from face to face contact but reach out, let her know you are remorseful, and work on yourself while she cools down.

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[bourgeoisie tall freak]

you gotta be super thirsty for her especially because its her birthday...send flowers, call her, call her mama, jewelry, ask her to have dinner..all that.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Also don't go over her house to smoke or whatever.

If she can still have you around then she can still get her emotional fulfillment without coming back around to the relationship, easy way to a friendzone.

Pull back from face to face contact but reach out, let her know you are remorseful, and work on yourself while she cools down.

This is gospel. I learned this the hard way brehs.

 

[calixprynce]

Update:

She found out i got a car and tripped out ! lol she was mad af, talking about " now we really done!" lol like we wasnt DONE when i didnt have a whip. I just decided that she NEEDS me but Im good on her. she hit me up tryna get me to still pay her credit card bill. hit me up asking for weed. All the while she being a hoe , fukkin like its going out of style

Im good. Glad I didnt get this HOE pregnant. And here I was thinking i was gonna marry this chick. glad those blinders are off.

 

[calixprynce]

you gotta be super thirsty for her especially because its her birthday...send flowers, call her, call her mama, jewelry, ask her to have dinner..all that.

nah I already did all that to get her. I did all that and more while she was fukking with another nikka. I was the stupid one, I'd be damned if she see another penny from me. Let her hold her own nuts.........or she can find a nikka to do what I did for her....lol i doubt it .... she boutta be sick when she see nikkas aint cashin out for her

 

[True Blue Moon]

Good morning Ladies,

Me and my 1st and only gf , (who also took my virginity) , just broke up like on Friday. We broke up cause I lied one too many times and I failed to put that woman first. We've been together since April 2017. I've never experienced this and its hard not talking to her or being around her. I truly love this girl and planned to marry her.

How to approach this situation? Her bday is the 22nd, can I send her flowers? Can I send her a card?

A lot of ppl say Absence makes the heart grow fonder.....but is that true?? It also doesnt help that a lot of things she needed done , I did. Like cleaning...like making sure her school work is caught up...like making sure she eat... She invited me over to smoke yesterday and her house is a MESS. That was my job!


Help me brehettes

Update:

She found out i got a car and tripped out ! lol she was mad af, talking about " now we really done!" lol like we wasnt DONE when i didnt have a whip. I just decided that she NEEDS me but Im good on her. she hit me up tryna get me to still pay her credit card bill. hit me up asking for weed. All the while she being a hoe , fukkin like its going out of style

Im good. Glad I didnt get this HOE pregnant. And here I was thinking i was gonna marry this chick. glad those blinders are off.

That escalated quickly

Knowing your girl is fukking another dude is the antidote to all that pain and one foot in one foot out we experience.

Why would she be mad you got a car

Why does she still feel comfortable asking you to smoke her out and pay her bills

For real for real breh, it appears that you overextended yourself in this relationship anyway being a caretaker instead of her man. Make sure you take a hard look at the entire relationship and take some lessons with you before you move on to the next one.

 

[calixprynce]

That escalated quickly

Knowing your girl is fukking another dude is the antidote to all that pain and one foot in one foot out we experience.

Why would she be mad you got a car

Why does she still feel comfortable asking you to smoke her out and pay her bills

For real for real breh, it appears that you overextended yourself in this relationship anyway being a caretaker instead of her man. Make sure you take a hard look at the entire relationship and take some lessons with you before you move on to the next one.

yeah she was just blowing my phone up like 10 mins . crying , not at work, basically boutta crash and burn . Said she dont know what she is doing (fukking random nikkas at her job, thinking she winning lol) . Said I dont care about her so mind my business lol. She gone be prego or HIV+ by the years end

She didnt want me with a car cuz I was cheating (texting only) on POF . Texting hoes that live 100+ miles away and she never let me prove i learned my lesson. Said i had to go skydiving or we done.... So why tf is she crying cuz she aint shyt no more? WHY AINT THOSE nikkaS PAYING HER shyt? Im glad I enabled her, now she can crash and learn her lesson. Dumb hoe! Still bringing me up saying i ruined everything....but YOU DIDNT WANNA BE WITH ME!

fukk with young mentally unstable Baylor chicks brehs. One of the nikkas she fukk with is a gay cac....fukk with a quadroon bedwench brehs

Im projected to save sooooooo much $$$ and Summer around the corner. Paid for my cousin plane ticket, we boutta stunt and live.

First time in my life that Im single, no responsibilities (girl, pets, siblings) , and working. Im boutta live life. Also wanna thank her for taking my virginity cuz hoes boutta get it now. Fucc Love im now from #Fucc A bytch.

 

[Yo Mama]

Good morning Ladies,

Me and my 1st and only gf , (who also took my virginity) , just broke up like on Friday. We broke up cause I lied one too many times and I failed to put that woman first. We've been together since April 2017. I've never experienced this and its hard not talking to her or being around her. I truly love this girl and planned to marry her.

How to approach this situation? Her bday is the 22nd, can I send her flowers? Can I send her a card?

A lot of ppl say Absence makes the heart grow fonder.....but is that true?? It also doesnt help that a lot of things she needed done , I did. Like cleaning...like making sure her school work is caught up...like making sure she eat... She invited me over to smoke yesterday and her house is a MESS. That was my job!


Help me brehettes

Well first of all you need someone to slap some sense into you.

Also give it time, you will be over this sooner that you think.

 

[iBrowse]

@calixprynce how old are you?

 

[CinnaSlim]

If you are broken up she's no longer your responsibility. Assuming yall are grown she needs to be responsible for her damn self.

Secondly, do not do any action expecting anything in return. Do it because it would make you happy. If you want to send her something for her birthday, go head but i wouldn't personally.

 

[CinnaSlim]

yeah she was just blowing my phone up like 10 mins . crying , not at work, basically boutta crash and burn . Said she dont know what she is doing (fukking random nikkas at her job, thinking she winning lol) . Said I dont care about her so mind my business lol. She gone be prego or HIV+ by the years end

She didnt want me with a car cuz I was cheating (texting only) on POF . Texting hoes that live 100+ miles away and she never let me prove i learned my lesson. Said i had to go skydiving or we done.... So why tf is she crying cuz she aint shyt no more? WHY AINT THOSE nikkaS PAYING HER shyt? Im glad I enabled her, now she can crash and learn her lesson. Dumb hoe! Still bringing me up saying i ruined everything....but YOU DIDNT WANNA BE WITH ME!

fukk with young mentally unstable Baylor chicks brehs. One of the nikkas she fukk with is a gay cac....fukk with a quadroon bedwench brehs

Im projected to save sooooooo much $$$ and Summer around the corner. Paid for my cousin plane ticket, we boutta stunt and live.

First time in my life that Im single, no responsibilities (girl, pets, siblings) , and working. Im boutta live life. Also wanna thank her for taking my virginity cuz hoes boutta get it now. Fucc Love im now from #Fucc A bytch.

Cmon now baby don't turn bitter. Thats one chick you were sprung over. Now that your vision has cleared cuz you are out of her foggy mess don't bring that shyt with you. Just shows you are still giving her your energy.

Just focus on you. Take it as a learning experience and do better.