Do’s and don’ts when you bump into your ex?

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

i try to remain friends with dudes so i never really had a "random bump into" situation with an actual ex boyfriend.
i did see a dude i messed with out n about and i just ignored him/act like i don't see him (it was at a concert so i was actually trying to listen to something)... he then proceeded to walk back and forth in front of me 3 times

tldr: definitely don't do that ^

 

[WaveWhisperer]

Remember you had her in the chickenwing before

 

[Giselle]

Won’t go into the details but we had an argument over something she did. She then decided to air something I confided in her to someone else which caused all kinds of drama. She refused to apologize so I broke up with her.

My mutuals told me she’s taking the breakup hard so I told them to tell her I still love her but there’s no point continuing a relationship once trust and respect is gone.

From what you said, you did not hurt her, that is on her and hopefully she will become a better person and partner for her next relationship after dealing with the consequences. You did right by leaving. Don’t go back either, this is her lesson.

I would say don’t speak to her if it’s still fresh, that might lead to wanting to go back. If she speaks to you just keep it at hi and bye. Also, stop sending messages through people

 

[Giselle]

i try to remain friends with dudes so i never really had a "random bump into" situation with an actual ex boyfriend.
i did see a dude i messed with out n about and i just ignored him/act like i don't see him (it was at a concert so i was actually trying to listen to something)... he then proceeded to walk back and forth in front of me 3 times

tldr: definitely don't do that ^

I don’t remain friends just polite if I see them like I would an old friend if we ended on good terms

 

[Kuma the Bear]

Any update on this? How was she moving at the event?

 

[maxamusa]

TheColi Teen Edition....
nikka she's your ex, do you not have any emotional intelligence or awareness?
Act like you know her...you know her better than we do.

 

[Vandelay]

1. Leave.

 

[Roid Jones]

When you see her act normal, smile and give her a hug, you will remember her she smells and how she feels in your arms, oh you getting back with her.

 

[ABlackMan]

First time I’ve been in a relationship with someone in the same social circle. Haven’t seen each other in almost a month but we’ll be at a mutual event tomorrow.

Advice on how to behave? I dumped her and have no desire in getting back with her, but I still have love for her and feel a level of guilt for hurting her even though she betrayed me (no cheating).

Same circle so how you gonna feel when ya homie hittting?

That’s some shyt I don’t do, never been fond of it. I seen it go left so many times

 

[Him]

Best to probably not go but she probably know you gonna be there too so she’ll feel like she won if you don’t appear.



Don’t do that, show up with the new chick and ignore your ex. Don’t even acknowledge her existence like these other fools telling you to do. You moved on.


Bout 5 years ago my ex broke up with me and I finally got over her and low and behold we ended up going to the same Christmas party. I ignored her ass that whole night because I was with my new girl and about a month later she tried to hit me back up. I was enjoying my life and she finally blocked me on Snapchat

 

[shopthatwrecks]

First time I’ve been in a relationship with someone in the same social circle. Haven’t seen each other in almost a month but we’ll be at a mutual event tomorrow.

Advice on how to behave? I dumped her and have no desire in getting back with her, but I still have love for her and feel a level of guilt for hurting her even though she betrayed me (no cheating).

speak n keep it moving

 

[Dont@Me]

Feel her out and see if she still wants to fukk on the side. This will strengthen your relationship with your new chick and let everyone involved know that you are the prize.

No lies told, but

 

[Jean Jacket]

Real shook...scared to death? Act fruity yo

 

[Ciggavelli]

Don't fukk her. I learned that lesson a few times. Just say hi, make small chit-chat and keep it moving. If you fukked her over and it was a bad breakup, then you might just want to steer clear.

 

[Dont@Me]

Won’t go into the details but we had an argument over something she did. She then decided to air something I confided in her to someone else which caused all kinds of drama. She refused to apologize so I broke up with her.

My mutuals told me she’s taking the breakup hard so I told them to tell her I still love her but there’s no point continuing a relationship once trust and respect is gone.

That's all I need to read. Dump that ho