Dr Umar consoles Senegalese UK Lawyer desperately looking for a Black Husband

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Ahhh so much I can say about this video and topic in general, but I won't. :hubie:

BTW assuming this shyt is even genuine, I'd tell a woman who lived in the states in Idaho she has a much better chance finding black love in DC. Where she is as cac as it gets.

fukking Newcastle. :mjlol:
 

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As someone who lives in the UK and someone who does not swirl, I feel as though I can respond to this honestly.

I don't think people like Umar do a good enough job of challenging these women and probing their history when it comes to this matter. It is always a case of "successful brothers, you need to step up" without considering the possibility that they were not interested when successful brothers approached them.

I will never forget getting called a scrub by a sister, only for her to get all sheepish when she found out we were on the same course.

The reality is when you put a lot of black people in a white environment, some feel as though associating with other black people will make their blackness stand out.

The results aren't always as extreme as being called a scrub. Sometimes, it is a matter of the person being more distant with you. Closing down conversations etc.

They find "consciousness" in their 30s and want to settle down with a successful brother, only they have more competition. They end up dealing with a brother who is being aggressively pursued and has access to younger women.

The focus should be placed on questioning the decisions made in her younger years, being realistic about her situation, and advising younger women to recognise potential so that they can secure their partner before the competition is high.

A lot of them simply don’t know when to cash out.
 

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According to the 2011 census,[219] the metropolitan borough of Newcastle upon Tyne was predominately white, representing 85.3% of the population (including non-British white). Asians made up 9.8% of the population (2.3% Pakistani, 1.7% 'Bangladeshi', 1.8% 'Indian', 2.2% 'Chinese', 1.8% 'Asian other'). Black people make up a small proportion of the population (1.7% 'Black African', 0.1% 'Black Caribbean' and 0.1% 'Black other'), as do mixed race groups at 1.6% (0.6% 'Asian and White', 0.3% 'White and Caribbean', 0.3% 'White and African', 0.4% 'White and Other'). The last significantly sized ethnic community in Newcastle is 'Arab' at 0.9%. The remainder of the population, 0.5%, represent other ethnicities.

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I mean, Shola Ameobi might be single? Shorty might wanna holler at him?
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
brothers over there giving non-Black women preferential treatment?


color me shocked

:francis:

We all know when nikkas get their choice, they dont always choose a dark skin woman unless she insanely thick
See this is that dumb shyt I’m talking about
I understand women saying this felonious shyt
But when men say this shyt
It’s nothing but virtue signaling
It’s women spouting that problack shyt
But be dating/married to all types of men
And nikkas be quiet like a church mouse
But if a man has a partner any shade lighter than a brown paper bag
Comments like these(especially Matt fakkit ass)
Is why that nikka from VSB felt so confident in that article he/she wrote
This shyt is truly funny to me
nikkas have actual real life data on who black men pick for marriage but cherry pick celebrities, athletes, etc
You nikkas no better than the duck head bytches that permeate this website and social media
You nikkas bought into that bullshyt propaganda from the 80s-90s
One sided arguments on colorism and the reason why black women hold onto that proverbial victim card
You are the nikkas that are more detrimental to the community
They use these talking points to prey on females
Dr.Umar ain’t no better
Wolves in sheep’s clothing bytch made ass nikkas
 

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See this is that dumb shyt I’m talking about
I understand women saying this felonious shyt
But when men say this shyt
It’s nothing but virtue signaling
It’s women spouting that problack shyt
But be dating/married to all types of men
And nikkas be quiet like a church mouse
But if a man has a partner any shade lighter than a brown paper bag
Comments like these(especially Matt fakkit ass)
Is why that nikka from VSB felt so confident in that article he/she wrote
This shyt is truly funny to me
nikkas have actual real life data on who black men pick for marriage but cherry pick celebrities, athletes, etc
You nikkas no better than the duck head bytches that permeate this website and social media
You nikkas bought into that bullshyt propaganda from the 80s-90s
One sided arguments on colorism and the reason why black women hold onto that proverbial victim card
You are the nikkas that are more detrimental to the community
They use these talking points to prey on females
Dr.Unar ain’t no better
Wolves in sheep’s clothing bytch made ass nikkas

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Interracial marriage: Who is ‘marrying out’?


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See this is that dumb shyt I’m talking about
I understand women saying this felonious shyt
But when men say this shyt
It’s nothing but virtue signaling
It’s women spouting that problack shyt
But be dating/married to all types of men
And nikkas be quiet like a church mouse
But if a man has a partner any shade lighter than a brown paper bag
Comments like these(especially Matt fakkit ass)
Is why that nikka from VSB felt so confident in that article he/she wrote
This shyt is truly funny to me
nikkas have actual real life data on who black men pick for marriage but cherry pick celebrities, athletes, etc
You nikkas no better than the duck head bytches that permeate this website and social media
You nikkas bought into that bullshyt propaganda from the 80s-90s
One sided arguments on colorism and the reason why black women hold onto that proverbial victim card
You are the nikkas that are more detrimental to the community
They use these talking points to prey on females
Dr.Umar ain’t no better
Wolves in sheep’s clothing bytch made ass nikkas
Don Demarcooooooooo
 
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