The problem is that these grifters prey on the valid issues and emotional distress and lack of support/community that people have and turn around and provide nothing real for them. So no there is no redeeming qualities for these grifters and they only serve to make things worse.I don't care if dude in the OP is Maga. From the videos posted on here he comes off as bitter and entitled.
With that said I don't get why men can't voice their dating frustration without people trying to dismiss or shame them into being quiet.
Women can complain about dating market all day as soon as men do it it's a problem.
"You a man you held to a higher standard you need to bottle up your emotions and just deal the hand life gave you."
fukk that. For my brehs struggling in the dating game feel free to let that shyt off your chest even if you end up agreeing with a CAC whos maga.
Better than bottling that shyt up and having 6 certs 6 figures 6 hoe coli nikkas trying to shame you. My dating life is above average. I could do a lot better if I just wanted to hit anything that gave me play but Im looking for a serious relationship.
Grifter is becoming a meaninglessly buzzword to me it's used a lot in word salad political rhetoric. Grifter to me is like the left version of woke. Just a buzzword at this point.The problem is that these grifters prey on the valid issues and emotional distress and lack of support/community that people have and turn around and provide nothing real for them. So no there is no redeeming qualities for these grifters and they only serve to make things worse.
The dating market us fukked up out here for a lot of people no doubt. But the problem a lot of folks have is that they give the online, make believe world so much credence and power. These people can spew all this BS and people buy it because they have no real life experience or knowledge to counteract it. You cant interact with real women in real life to any level of real depth AND take this, at best, pseudoscience or, at worst, straight fiction seriously.
Women in real life are not like "He is a 7 but so am I so I cant mess with him". Women operate off feelings more than anything not some strict ratings criteria. 5'6 broke nikkas with bellies get play everyday.
I do wholeheartedly agree that men need to let that shyt out and keep real about what they are feeling and whats going on with them. But ironically the redpill preaches this "masculine frame" "stoic" feelings are bad BS. Real life men need to help other real life men get through this shyt.
The internet is as real as you make it. If you dont know any better or have an anchor in real life it can definitely take over and harm your real life.Grifter is becoming a meaninglessly buzzword to me it's used a lot in word salad political rhetoric. Grifter to me is like the left version of woke. Just a buzzword at this point.
I think the red pill to maga pipeline is a real thing. Probably why Gen-z is leaning more to the right. You can't say the internet isn't real then complain when "grifters" take advantage and run social media campaigns for a demographic the left mainly ignores. We see the internet and tech influence on the "real" world everyday.
With that said I think men should have an outlet to vent their frustration. The politics I really don't care about if that's a demographic people on the left think is worth perusing you can set up spaces online and in person for men to vent but has a left leaning world view if not let the "grifters" have them.
Alot of them women secretly do. Brehs can come up on the threesome if you can convince the pretty friend to be down with it. That's why it's common knowledge to knock down the beautiful one in the friend group first. The ugly ones would be down with it just off the strength that the beautiful got smashed too. That's validation enough for themShe probably wanted to fukk her too![]()
whenever I see men criticize a women it turns into attacking that man. you can simply repost a women's thoughts and own actions and dudes lose there shyt.I don't care if dude in the OP is Maga. From the videos posted on here he comes off as bitter and entitled.
With that said I don't get why men can't voice their dating frustration without people trying to dismiss or shame them into being quiet.
Women can complain about dating market all day as soon as men do it it's a problem.
"You a man you held to a higher standard you need to bottle up your emotions and just deal the hand life gave you."
fukk that. For my brehs struggling in the dating game feel free to let that shyt off your chest even if you end up agreeing with a CAC whos maga.
Better than bottling that shyt up and having 6 certs 6 figures 6 hoe coli nikkas trying to shame you. My dating life is above average. I could do a lot better if I just wanted to hit anything that gave me play but Im looking for a serious relationship.
Dems should invest into promoting "anti-grift" content for young males. I forget how many hours the average Gen-z spends online but it's alot. Most get their news from online.The internet is as real as you make it. If you dont know any better or have an anchor in real life it can definitely take over and harm your real life.
The politics being involved is the problem. Helping people aint about politics. Facts and truth arent political. What does dating have to do with policy or who you vote for? Thats what makes it a grift (sorry) because it isnt about helping people or the truth...its about getting money and/or recruiting folks to your cult and relationship issues is the easiest way to get people hooked.
It is interesting to witness idk what it is to be honest.whenever I see men criticize a women it turns into attacking that man. you can simply repost a women's thoughts and own actions and dudes lose there shyt.
its an interesting phenomenon. we see it play out on the coli almost every day
Yeah that's the only thing that I find weird. Why are y'all complaining about a chick that doesn't want you? Just move around lol! They sound as entitled as the women they're trying to call out for being delusionalOk Let them think that. They will all die alone and miserable.
At some point y'all got to stop the complaining. Sit back, kick ya feet up and enjoy the show.
I don't think it weird that's just like how ya'll are in this thread venting about men who actions you find weird.Yeah that's the only thing that I find weird. Why are y'all complaining about a chick that doesn't want you? Just move around lol! They sound as entitled as the women they're trying to call out for being delusional![]()
Nothing wrong with venting your frustrations about dating. But if you constantly venting about the same topic or same caliber of women not choosing you. You might want to take a step back to reset your parameters or be a bit more introspective about why you're not getting the results you're seeking. It's called accountability. People apply it to other areas in their life without issue. But ego is involved quite a bit in dating so folks refuse to just accept where they stack up or what options are truly available to themI don't think it weird that's just like how ya'll are in this thread venting about men who actions you find weird.
It's ok when you do it wrong when others do it.
People male or female tend to vent their frustrations to one another. Just natural response in my world view but I'm open to changing my mind if you got something different.
Can you give a definitive number of how much one person should be venting? To me that seems widely variant person to person. What might be TOO much for you could just be the start for someone else.Nothing wrong with venting your frustrations about dating. But if you constantly venting about the same topic or same caliber of women not choosing you.
I'mma be honest with you boss I think these men are introspective IMO. They even get unsolicited help from people like you calling them weird. I don't know too many guys that hyping up their overweight, broke and/or short male friends. IF anything they're very self disparaging.You might want to take a step back to reset your parameters or be a bit more introspective about why you're not getting the results you're seeking.
I agree men should be accountable for their actions so should women. Can't complain about a fat nikka not being introspective about his dating options then give a pass to a BBW with a butterface thinking she Americas next top model.It's called accountability.
I disagree men will not only accept reality more they will settle for whatever the cat drags in a lot of times to be honest.People apply it to other areas in their life without issue. But ego is involved quite a bit in dating so folks refuse to just accept where they stack up or what options are truly available to them
I don't think it weird that's just like how ya'll are in this thread venting about men who actions you find weird.
It's ok when you do it wrong when others do it.
People male or female tend to vent their frustrations to one another. Just natural response in my world view but I'm open to changing my mind if you got something different.