Dudes who peak at 18. How do they cope?

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These type of threads come off as preaching to the choir of "losers" who still have a chip on their shoulder against the popular kids.

I knew someone would say that but for me I hung out with plenty of "popular" types so it wasn't even like that. I was never a loner. This is a legitimate question and as I said I'm happy I have it together now and I don't know how they cope knowing their best days are behind them :yeshrug:
 

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baby, that was the old me
Less approaches, less :krs:, less of that special attention by ladies everywhere I went that I thought was normal. Any coffee shop or target I went to the counter girl would be like :noah: and would be mad nice. It wasn't sexual it was just very nice friendly behavior.

I also got a lot of attention from random women. Like grown ass women in stores asking me to come talk to their daughters or telling me I'm handsome.
Girls looking at me and giggling.
Not having to try to get girls.
Not having to try to get girls attention.
Getting eye-fukked by random chicks.
Getting eye-fukked by chicks out with their men.
This was especially validating when it was a white couple and the dude was tall and studdish.
Random nikkas being mad nice.
All my jokes being funny.
Being able to say or do anything and get away with it.
Never having to call anybody first.
People always having some interest in me and what I'm doing.

There's a sort of intrinsic value being good looking gives you that's not discussed.


dudes were more nice to u? i thought it would be the opposite... jealous dudes try to cockblock me and dudes try to joke cause they are way bigger. How tall are you breh?

im good looking so i already got some things off your list.... but some of those i wish i could have.

i get eye fukked occasionally. Never calling anybody first?? :banderas:

Never had grown women approaching me and especially being direct (that's unbelievable) :damn:


i get the stares but never the giggles. :damn:
 

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Damn you described me to a tee :lupe:

Did aight with the ladies. Stuck in my school books, rocked Mikie's instead of Nike's. Late bloomers are the best breh
And let's not forget those girls who peaked too early who was fine as fukk in HS, but 3 kids later now blowing up your phone :blessed:
 
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And let's not forget those girls who peaked too early who was fine as fukk in HS, but 3 kids later now blowing up your phone

:heh: There's this one who back then I'd talk to but on some lightweight shyt, not nearly enough confidence to really do nothing but she's still looking fine as fukk and I ran into her she was on some what you doin next weekend shyt :lupe:

I'm kinda interested based off history but maybe I should kim. :ld:

Lowkey loser thread :sas2:

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:heh: There's this one who back then I'd talk to but on some lightweight shyt, not nearly enough confidence to really do nothing but she's still looking fine as fukk and I ran into her she was on some what you doin next weekend shyt :lupe:

I'm kinda interested based off history but maybe I should kim. :ld:

:russ: funny. Is her body still right, like it's still tight, still cute face, etc. Or is it on some revenge "Now I get to fukk you" shyt? :lolbron:
 

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dudes were more nice to u? i thought it would be the opposite... jealous dudes try to cockblock me and dudes try to joke cause they are way bigger. How tall are you breh?

im good looking so i already got some things off your list.... but some of those i wish i could have.

i get eye fukked occasionally. Never calling anybody first?? :banderas:

Never had grown women approaching me and especially being direct (that's unbelievable) :damn:


i get the stares but never the giggles. :damn:

im just below average height. 5'8" 5'9"

but in college around popular nikkas thats like being 5'4".

I had some dudes try to shyt on me but when everybody likes u nobobdy wants to be that a$$hole starting shyt with you. And its easy to laugh that shyt off and not be threatened when u know ur good looking. It gives u a certain self worth that's hard to shake.

Most of the shyt I got was from tall nikkas who tried to punk me with their height. It worked sometimes :manny: shyt showed me how shallow women really are.

A lot of those things on that list are gone. I can't tell u the last time I had some blonde teen girls looking at me and giggling or trying to get my attention.


What I miss most is that u could go anywhere dressed bummy as fukk and all u had to do is :shaq: a girl and it was on

Nowadays ur more like to get

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baby, that was the old me
im just below average height. 5'8" 5'9"

but in college around popular nikkas thats like being 5'4".

I had some dudes try to shyt on me but when everybody likes u nobobdy wants to be that a$$hole starting shyt with you. And its easy to laugh that shyt off and not be threatened when u know ur good looking. It gives u a certain self worth that's hard to shake.

Most of the shyt I got was from tall nikkas who tried to punk me with their height. It worked sometimes :manny: shyt showed me how shallow women really are.

A lot of those things on that list are gone. I can't tell u the last time I had some blonde teen girls looking at me and giggling or trying to get my attention.


What I miss most is that u could go anywhere dressed bummy as fukk and all u had to do is :shaq: a girl and it was on

Nowadays ur more like to get

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damn breh i feel for u :to:


u got me thinking i might become :flabbynsick: real soon

that size shyt sometimes bother me maan im 5'10 - 5'9 on the skinny side too.
 

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HS was the easiest time to get girls. All you had to have was an old used car, some jordans, a crisp fade. Cupcake on the phone a little bit. I feel for you breh. It'll never be that easy to get girls in your life.
You trippin nikka, college has been easier by miles, got a car, a job, money and a place to stay separate from the dorms. They practically fall in your lap, not to mention there's designated areas for hoes, my schools hoe pick up is the soccer team. Big asses and low morals
 
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