DV in The CC / Hotep community

[Kripplestyle]

I've been a "member" or just observer of the online conscious community for 6-7 years.

You've got all the black woman is god talk, we must protect the queens but shyte like this happens?

I guess this is still developing but i'm almost certain DV happens more with these woke folk than they like us to think.



I was a moderate listener of IG around 2013-2015 just before the Straight black pride movement, when he had that old radio show.

Anywho, his wife (or soon to be ex?) is speaking out about abuse she suffered. I remember him always talking about protecting the women

The black woman is god right?

 

[Jimmy from Linkedin]

I've been a "member" or just observer of the online conscious community for 6-7 years.

You've got all the black woman is god talk, we must protect the queens but shyte like this happens?

I guess this is still developing but i'm almost certain DV happens more with these woke folk than they like us to think.



I was a moderate listener of IG around 2013-2015 just before the Straight black pride movement, when he had that old radio show.

Anywho, his wife (or soon to be ex?) is speaking out about abuse she suffered. I remember him always talking about protecting the women

The black woman is god right?

yooooo what damn I used to go to some of their events at Everlasting Life...I had no idea this was going on. She is very nice. Going to listen to this now. I'll be back with more comments.

 

[Jimmy from Linkedin]

This is very tough breh. Hearing specifically, "for some of yall this is just an event, this is my life!"

Wow. I had no idea this was going on especially being there. Shes absolutely right, I havent heard anything about abuse. It is quite paradoxical that black men want the submissive woman, but then also praise her Nzingha/Yaa Asantewaa energy/forbearers.

 

[Kripplestyle]

This is very tough breh. Hearing specifically, "for some of yall this is just an event, this is my life!"

Wow. I had no idea this was going on especially being there. Shes absolutely right, I havent heard anything about abuse. It is quite paradoxical that black men want the submissive woman, but then also praise her Nzingha/Yaa Asantewaa energy/forbearers.

This whole thing about "submissive" African women isn't entirely true in the sense. A lot of our people in the diaspora have this fantastic idealistic view of Africa and how things work. Rather than a woman making herself submissive, women and men know their roles in society over there. Because we've been put in the West, our values and roles are out of whack.

Back onto the abuse thing, I do believe her 90%. It's just the part about not seeing signs, I just can't see it. 10 years and no signs?

But I do believe he got physical with her, he broke her little project and whatnot. It's honestly sad. He should be dealt with

 

[Jimmy from Linkedin]

It's honestly sad. He should be dealt with

Extremely sad. I dont know how you came across this, I'm not on Facebook, but it's weird to see this late-pimp/pua-game/black-incel stuff in response to their divorce. I definitely understand the like "our women are fukked up", meaning I understand their logic, but damn, it's just so weird, heelturns from panafrikanism to this hatred of the black woman, as a concept...weird

Because we've been put in the West, our values and roles are out of whack.

Yeah this is what I'm getting at. Roles dont mean roleplay lol

just can't see it. 10 years and no signs?

I think that's what she was getting at with the part about being submissive. When she was saying that other people around her were like, how could you do that...

All that being said, mental/emotional abuse is the hardest to see.

 

[Kripplestyle]

Extremely sad. I dont know how you came across this, I'm not on Facebook, but it's weird to see this late-pimp/pua-game/black-incel stuff in response to their divorce. I definitely understand the like "our women are fukked up", meaning I understand their logic, but damn, it's just so weird, heelturns from panafrikanism to this hatred of the black woman, as a concept...weird



Yeah this is what I'm getting at. Roles dont mean roleplay lol


I think that's what she was getting at with the part about being submissive. When she was saying that other people around her were like, how could you do that...

All that being said, mental/emotional abuse is the hardest to see.

I saw someone repost this on facebook so i clicked the link. I was stunned, but I didnt keep up with the SBPM. I felt IG got too obsessed in weird perversions rather than his former balanced content.

The "that's how black women get hit" I believe 100%. Post watching this, I've seen another video where he was talking about shooting women in the head.

Its a bit lengthy but I was shocked

 

[Neuromancer]

This and infidelity are nothing new. If you were around back in 2008 you know what I'm talking about

 

[Jimmy from Linkedin]

This and infidelity are nothing new. If you were around back in 2008 you know what I'm talking about

i was young and not aware, can you provide more information?

 

[Kripplestyle]

This and infidelity are nothing new. If you were around back in 2008 you know what I'm talking about

What happened in 08? I wasnt hip to this paradigm back then

 

[Neuromancer]

What happened in 08? I wasnt hip to this paradigm back then

One lecturer was cheating on and possibly abusing his wife. He was supposed to do a joint lecture with another cat and one day the other cat came over to the first lecturers house while wasn't home. He didnt know dude wasn't home but dudes are pushed up on him and he hit. This created a big fight and gun play was involved. Spilled out to the community because the second dude had cousins who were lecturers as well twin cousins. If you ask around to people who were around back then they can tell you who everyone was. Idk if any of them post here so I don't wanna put them on blast.

 

[Jimmy from Linkedin]

Part 2 is up


I do remember following the atlanta SBPM on Instagram and I was quite surprised when the Sis. Tazara and Bro. Ile resigned. It was crazy. I had a friend in SPBM and she didn't know either.

Now we know.

edit:
After listening and hearing some of the names mentioned in the miscommunication, man, I remember going to these events and already feeling rejected by the group beforehand even as I was dating someone in that movement.

Im glad that she is coming forth with this information.

Absolute power corrupts absolutely.

 

[Neuromancer]

i was young and not aware, can you provide more information?

See my above post.

 

[Kripplestyle]

Im about to listen to part 2. I'll be back with my thoughts

I don't think the saga improves

 

[Kripplestyle]

Im about to listen to part 2. I'll be back with my thoughts

I don't think the saga improves

Ok. I believe her 100%. I've seen this behavior in my immediate family and experienced and witnessed what she's talking about.

He sounds like a narcissistic a$$hole honestly. I can match what she says up with his demeanor.

However she did ignore the signs, because she recalled all these times where he would play with her mentally, but her being the fictional "submissive african wife" fell for the nonsense and got swept into his bullshyt. I feel sorry for her.

From 2013 paying the major bills, still performing wife duties, homeschooling and working whilst this jack jaw runs around north america talking about protecting the family, meanwhile his shyt isnt together. I'm glad she had a witness to testify. And it makes total sense why she didn't call the police. She would be dogged through that cyberspace and her support circle.

These hoteps aint worth a damn

She was good enough to pay bills but not good enough to live in the house she was paying for

 

[Kripplestyle]

One lecturer was cheating on and possibly abusing his wife. He was supposed to do a joint lecture with another cat and one day the other cat came over to the first lecturers house while wasn't home. He didnt know dude wasn't home but dudes are pushed up on him and he hit. This created a big fight and gun play was involved. Spilled out to the community because the second dude had cousins who were lecturers as well twin cousins. If you ask around to people who were around back then they can tell you who everyone was. Idk if any of them post here so I don't wanna put them on blast.

Can you give me an idea on what the person in question tlaking points are? If they're somewhat relevant still, I might be able to narrow down. This is crazy.

There's no protection in this "community"