Eboni K. Williams interviewed by The Breakfast Club defends her bus driver comments

[The Fade]

didn't say the same thing?

Dame gets polarized reception for what he says too.

Look at other communities, they provide jobs to their people. We need to provide opportunities for each other. Not endless LLC self proprietorships

 

[O.Red]

When you come from a two parent household, you’re less likely to do the woman worship thing. I love my moms but I ain’t scared to push back on her or any woman. That “yo mama black” shyt don’t work on me

You got lucky

More than a few two parent households have kids watching their father get run over, gaslit and shamed by the mother. Lot of nikkas living that "Happy wife, happy life" "it's cheaper to keep her" life

 

[skyrunner1]

Women like this need to be left alone.

No black man should be in the presence of women like her, she doesn't listen, she doesn't take accountability, she doesn't want to be led by a black man, that's not making more $$ than her.

It used to be a time when a black man, his presence, no matter his salary or education would garner black women's attention.

The sad part about this, those other two women, who are black are letting her ramble and they are trying to justify her talking points, instead of telling her, sis, you're wrong, I agree with Envy,

This is sad, most women of her caliber think just like her.

Black men, stay away from her ass, we have to start cutting off women like her off and letting them survive on their own.

I can't believe, I have disdain in my heart towards this lady and I don't even know her, that's how bad it's getting out here.

Women have collectivist tendencies, many studies show they have in group preference. Men dont operate like that so in these types of issues we will always come out on wrong side because you will have a group of men who will go against their own interest in hopes of getting on good terms with women. Even in our community, in THIS country, women think women first before even black, so they will collab with white women for their issues..

 

[HARLEM AL]

Vanzant was basically telling her to not be a golddigger and consider someone's character as well. All the jeulzing in opposition to this is baffling.

Fam.... This is it. I dont get how nikkas dont understand this.

 

[The Fade]

You got lucky

More than a few two parent households have kids watching their father get run over, gaslit and shamed by the mother. Lot of nikkas living that "Happy wife, happy life" "it's cheaper to keep her" life

I think that’s the minority. Son husbandism in a two parent household is usually done by whites. Now when black women try to husband-son nikkas, the nikkas get mad and leave. nikkas do not like being talked to like children, that’s one of our biggest gripes with these women right now. Especially when they act like they your mother when you’re the same age




The brehs I meet from two parent households don’t act like their mom hands are on their brain

 

[O.Red]

I think that’s the minority. Son husbandism in a two parent household is usually done by whites. Now when black women try to husband-son nikkas, the nikkas get mad and leave. nikkas do not like being talked to like children, that’s one of our biggest gripes with these women right now. Especially when they act like they your mother when you’re the same age




The brehs I meet from two parent households don’t act like their mom hands are on their brain

Hate how hard I laughed at this

 

[Jazzy B.]

1 minute in - "We've got to have this conversation as black men and black women and the black family structure and black wealth building."

“The pro black” con game @Henri Christophe

 

[O.Red]

This interview is a masterclass of doublespeak

 

[The Fade]

Hate how hard I laughed at this

You can husband-son a nikka from the projects whos a borderline hobosexual, who grew up with a mother who had nikkas in and out of the home

But you can’t husband-son a nikka who comes from generations of having, whether it’s resources, self respect, values and knows how to make shake. That’s partly why professional black marriages break up it, because one wants the other to submit

That’s why these women pick straight up push overs or they pick penitentiary hobosexuals. Because they not gonna challenge her or have self respect. A nikka that comes from values is just gonna say no and get another girl

 

[8WON6]

the vast majority of americans will never own a legit business or make over 100k a year, yet these people dominate the "dating sphere" and completely fukk up regular working class people's relationship mindsets. Both men and women be sittin up here talking about "what a real man need to do"...and they're saying this bullshyt to people making 40k-60k a year.

edit: and i think Iyanla was actually trying to have a convo based in reality. And she just kinda threw her hands up and the outlandishness of what this woman was talking about.

 

[Henri Christophe]

40 mins

u nikkas are ridiculous

timestamp

 

[feelosofer]

I got a lot of respect for Iyanla van Zant but she is from a different time. You can't ask a woman who is a millionaire to date or marry down that low. The fact of the matter is Eboni is attractive enough to have even landed a dude who makes good money BUT her arrogance is her undoing.

Women of other groups can make similar money and still defer to their husbands or worst case it be a pilot/copilot situation but too many Black women through years of feminism and prosperity preaching have deluded themselves into thinking they are divine.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I got a lot of respect for Iyanla van Zant but she is from a different time. You can't ask a woman who is a millionaire to date or marry down that low. The fact of the matter is Eboni is attractive enough to have even landed a dude who makes good money BUT her arrogance is her undoing.

Women of other groups can make similar money and still defer to their husbands or worst case it be a pilot/copilot situation but too many Black women through years of feminism and prosperity preaching have deluded themselves into thinking they are divine.

Iyania is wise, I don't know if she was going at it in this manner, but real talk many of your so call professional women date "down". Lawyers mess wit the pookies and Ray Rays, look at your average nurse, she's not dating doctors or physicians, she's likely having babies for dudes who are below her in terms of salaries.

They can't get the doctor or a man that's on their level or above because of the software of them, those men that make that type of money require things that these women like Eboni, the nurses can't produce, thus why a man in that top-tier level in some cases marries outside of his race.

In my life, most of the time, when women make more money or in a profession where she's making money, 8/9 out of 10 times, she's messing with or dating someone that's below her or average.

She's the alpha female and buddy is a beta, lazy etc.

 

[King Poetic]

the vast majority of americans will never own a legit business or make over 100k a year, yet these people dominate the "dating sphere" and completely fukk up regular working class people's relationship mindsets. Both men and women be sittin up here talking about "what a real man need to do"...and they're saying this bullshyt to people making 40k-60k a year.

edit: and i think Iyanla was actually trying to have a convo based in reality. And she just kinda threw her hands up and the outlandishness of what this woman was talking about.

100 % facts

After Covid 43% of black businesses went under and right now we heading to a recession, so u think opening up a restaurant, club, salon etc going to make a killing today….people like her think it’s so easy to just open up a business and prosper when especially for black men u more than likely going to get denied a loan..

I know there’s white, Asian and Hispanic women who think like that as well, but in a overall sense majority of them women don’t complain if they man bring home 45,50,60 k a year as long as he coming home to the family and they working together

We as blacks are on social media broke with hardly two nickels to rub together talking about being bosses, having our own business and doing 6 other things to sound like we doing something

 

[feelosofer]

Iyania is wise, I don't know if she was going at it in this manner, but real talk many of your so call professional women date "down". Lawyers mess wit the pookies and Ray Rays, look at your average nurse, she's not dating doctors or physicians, she's likely having babies for dudes who are below her in terms of salaries.

They can't get the doctor or a man that's on their level or above because of the software of them, those men that make that type of money require things that these women like Eboni, the nurses can't produce, thus why a man in that top-tier level in some cases marries outside of his race.

In my life, most of the time, when women make more money or in a profession where she's making money, 8/9 out of 10 times, she's messing with or dating someone that's below her or average.

She's the alpha female and buddy is a beta, lazy etc.

Yea professional women date down but Eboni is in the top 3% and culturally as we as Black people are the poorest of any group so it stands out more when you making serious money. On top of that Black women, especially late generation X and millenials have been fed this Black girl magic BS. It's really a mess the state of dating and marriage in the Black community.