How do you ask a girl
I know I'm putting myself in a vulnerable position
(

) just making this thread, but go ahead and get ya jokes off
Was at a concert last night and it was dark and indoors. Saw a THICK woman at the bar

and gave her a compliment. We vibed and her friend surprisingly didn't cock block.
We exchanged names and she tells me it's "Deshon", (pronounced, "Deshawn"). Kinda weird name for a woman, but I don't think much of it until I see her really high cheek bones and my mind is possibly making connections. I reserve my judgment until I'm absolutely SURE. I hug her (him? Them?) and their DEFINITE female friend and I call them two very beautiful ladies. The friend then gives a little side-eye like this
Now idk if this is because I called them both beautiful or because she knows her friend isn't a "woman"

. I leave and now I'm mind fukked about the whole thing and I'm trying to figure out if there's a way to find out if she's trans
I can't just ask her because it'll be offensive if she ain't....so do y'all have any ideas?