Educated brehs, how did your dating life change as your education/salary increased?

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I'm on track to graduate magna cum laude with my B.B.A in marketing from a reputable state school, then I'm going to either Booth, Wharton or Goizueta for my MBA. The perks of having educated family members who donate back that can write letters of recommendation for you :ahh: If my vision board comes to fruition, in 10-15 years I'll be Steve Stoute mixed with Robert F. Smith :ahh:

My question is this tho. We see a lot of stories about educated brehettes talking about not being able to find a guy to wife them instead of just sex, or are just flat out invisible to men. But how does it go for dudes?:lupe:

Is it just sifting through hoodrats to find a good girl, are girls all on your ass like brown skin, or is it like a regular dude, dealing with flakey broads, boring broads and the like:lupe:
 

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pretty much the same degree isnt going to give you access to bad bytches

the more i think about it its worse to be honest keep in contact with undergrad women

women will be more likely to look at you for your resources, educated women will play games with you/think you don't need them because of your money, hood chick will drag you down due to their financial issues.
 

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it didn't

probably because i never broadcast that i have a degree or how much i made or try to be flashy among broads

i still find it funny that the black women ( THAT'S ALL I DATE) be surprised i have 2 college degree in human resources or marketing, because as a black man who look like a NFL safety and i still live in a middle class type of hood area, they assume you have limited education and you work odd jobs
 

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As my salary increased I was able to become a more interesting man which attracts women.

With money you get to experience traveling, going to more concerts, going to more expensive events, brunches, you can buy sections out at lounges or clubs if that's your thing.

You are more confident because you are perfecting your craft, being out of college also makes you more confident because you can take the training wheels off in the real world. It's a sense of relaxation that is had when you aren't living pay check to pay check and can buy a plane ticket to any where in the world.

Then your social circle usually bosses up since you are able to live a better life and your old people won't be able to keep up. The most quality women you are going to come into contact with will be from your social circle.
 

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As my salary increased I was able to become a more interesting man which attracts women.

With money you get to experience traveling, going to more concerts, going to more expensive events, brunches, you can buy sections out at lounges or clubs if that's your thing.

You are more confident because you are perfecting your craft, being out of college also makes you more confident because you can take the training wheels off in the real world. It's a sense of relaxation that is had when you aren't living pay check to pay check and can buy a plane ticket to any where in the world.

Then your social circle usually bosses up since you are able to live a better life and your old people won't be able to keep up. The most quality women you are going to come into contact with will be from your social circle.
This x100
 

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What the brehs in here aren't considering is that if you're going to Wharton etc... you're going to be around like-minded women from similar backgrounds.

That immediately lowers your chances of ending up with a hoodrat.

You could genuinely find an equal; that's a rare thing and I encourage you to seriously try to settle down with one of those women if given the opportunity.

After you graduate, sure you'll be around professional women, but they'll have more mileage on them than you'd probably like.

You will still have your pick of the litter, assuming you stay child-free and in-shape, but "We met when we were both getting our MBA's" is a great story to tell your grandkids.

Just my $0.02
 

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The major key is looking good and not being a simp. When you combine that with education and resources, you basically become an NBA player to females. So always keep yourself looking good, and stay confident.

shyt, I'm 31, have a BA and a Cert, work in the corporate world, and that's all fine and dandy, but bytches don't harp on that the most, they tell me I'm good looking. That's the key that unlocks the extra levels to this shyt.
 

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Always had women but I will tell you this. It gets easier the more you make. Don't settle for hoodrats you can swap them out monthly. The key is finding someone on your level.
 

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Yall need to go to the gym too.

Some dude working in a warehouse and parttime at the bar during the weekends that has these qualities is eating better than any educated dude :yeshrug:
-Makes 60k with a community college degree
-over 6 foot and 220 lbs with 10% body fat
-drives a charger
-has his own apt
 
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