Makes sense.
He's very feminine so he wants masculine energy. Every relationship (lesbian, gay, straight) has that male vs female dynamic.
You almost never see some curvy, sexy feminine lesbian with another woman that looks just like her. It's usually the feminine chick with manly, bull females.
Gay dudes, probably the same shyt. Even if they both are obviously gay....one is gonna be more "the man" (like that Birdcage movie).
Seen lumberjack gay white dudes with more feminine partners at the malls and grocery stores. Rarely ever seen openly gay Black men with their partners...like the "manly" kind that look DL but actually are out.