I've said it before and I'll say it again, I cannot take the advice of most 30+ year old black people seriously. Their """""advice""""" is always something obvious like 'stay in school', 'don't do drugs', and 'dont have any babies until you have a job'. My favorite bit of """""advice""""" is 'dont get a credit card, it will ruin your life' as if I'm going to be a complete dumbass and use a credit card to spend money that I don't have or wont have any time soon. Even 30+ old well off suburban black men are on some bullshyt sometimes.