Eliza Thornberry says the "loneliness epidemic is real" after cold approaching two men at two different bars and getting rejected.

Piff Perkins

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So much dating misery boils down to sexual entitlement from major city people who are not attractive. I want to focus on major city people because folks in smaller cities/towns settle all the time. That's where the 5/10 guy marries the 5/10 girl. But for whatever reason when a man or woman is ugly in Chicago it becomes their personal Vietnam, and they want the world to know about it 24/7 on social media. If you are chubby, broke, and socially retarded as a guy guess what? The hot chick does not see you. And likewise if you are chubby or unattractive as a woman guess what? Hot dudes will not even look at you in the eyes. That's just reality.
 

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So much dating misery boils down to sexual entitlement from major city people who are not attractive. I want to focus on major city people because folks in smaller cities/towns settle all the time. That's where the 5/10 guy marries the 5/10 girl. But for whatever reason when a man or woman is ugly in Chicago it becomes their personal Vietnam, and they want the world to know about it 24/7 on social media. If you are chubby, broke, and socially retarded as a guy guess what? The hot chick does not see you. And likewise if you are chubby or unattractive as a woman guess what? Hot dudes will not even look at you in the eyes. That's just reality.
it is literally this simple, definitely is for women. Too many people lack self awareness. The women posted probably did not shoot her shot at an equally fat and ugly guy. She probably approached a conventionally attractive man that will otherwise never notice her.
 

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One issue is average and below women lowkey have higher self-esteem than average men. Which causes issues cuz they generally want a man that is better than them. Maybe it's because women gas each other up with "omg! so gorgeous!" comments.

Her male equivalent (not even physically, just someone lower on the totem pole among men) is way more likely to be down on himself and ready to just give up.
 

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Bysh! Ain't no GOT DAMN "loneliness epidemic "!

get with who would Fck with you... Don't walk up to 2 Brehs in a Bar that look like a young brad pit and tomb cruise...while you look like that.

Approach the chubby Guy with the neck beard and the thinning hair ...that's most likely gonna go home and play Pokemon ZA after he leaves the Bar...

How come I know that's who for you, and YOU don't?
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Breh you know these bītch want to punch way above their weight class and have it be a storybook ending like some teen movie.

They wake up in the morning, look in the fun house mirror in their bathroom and see something that isn’t remotely close to reality — THEN go out in public (and social media) to disseminate that bullshīt energy.

It’s a long road to be humbled and for 99.9% of women who AT BEST are mid, the literally have to live out a life of slights, rejection, weight gain and disappointment to realize that they don’t have shīt to offer now and damn sure won’t put 1/1,000,000th the effort to step their game up.

Oh well.
 
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