Emotional discipline and holding your tongue is the path to respect

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

@Nicole0416

Fukk you. Dub. Fuk that dumb ass mental white trash ghetto gagger escort bytch. She’s up to her caucacity again. Never fails. Repeating random common sense and hyperbole as if she’s prophetic to reach the masses for relevancy. Puhhleease . Guess that $$ account is running out of funds, I see she’s back in her cac con games- time to re-up with her c00n capers for the coli cash grab. Sex workers, “reformed” thots and strippers are in no position to become a voice of moral authority. Especially white ones, still losing even though they had privilege and handouts since birth.

Dafuq does she think she’s fooling. Thinking this white bytch would run up in person, on a group of black people on the street, demanding their attention for accountability on some Ted Table talk; start running with this teachable moments rhetoric and they’ll accept it?? Ohhhnahhhh. Stupid n-word saying, blackface wearing ho would end up in a ditch. I’m laughing... don’t tag me off this, I don’t fuk with u faggit.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Most adults have horrible communication skills and not giving into their emotional temper tantrums drives them absolutely crazy. Seriously, I do it all the time and that shyt will have people mad at you forever because you don't validate their misguided sense of importance.

However, while it is my favorite way to deal with people I would say it's not an effective when trying to build relationships. I don't deal with people I care about in that way.

IMO the best way to communicate with people you care about is to try to understand, be sympathetic and always try to work towards a resolution. And yes they may still be upset but it's also important to be patient. But I can say I am sorry or that I am wrong (even if I don't agree) to get back to baseline.

However, if it's someone who really isn't trying to be happy or come to some sort of resolution it probably isn't someone I deal with. I'm not here to deal with fukked up attitudes regardless of who you are. Some people are too far gone and not worth the time or effort even if it's people you love.

I tend to be very blunt and straight forward but you gotta dial it back and soften up for the people you love.

 

[Legal]

true

and ive mentioned discernment

like i said, emotional discipline doesnt mean not having boundaries for how you allow someone to treat you. people are pretty manipulative though and will use your emotionally instability as a reason or excuse why they dont respect you. if you give them no reaction they cant rationalize a reason to deflect off of taking accountability.

Another thing I'd argue (for lack of a better word), is that part of emotional discipline is also knowing when the stick up for yourself.

For whatever reason, we've been lead to believe that civility and docility are the same thing. They most certainly aren't.

 

[Strapped]

How is the carpenter apprenticeship

 

[NotaPAWG]

Fukk you. Dub. Fuk that dumb ass mental white trash ghetto gagger escort bytch. She’s up to her caucacity again. Never fails. Repeating random common sense and hyperbole as if she’s prophetic to reach the masses. Puhhhlease. Guess that account is running out of funds, I see she’s back in her cac con games- time to re-up with her c00n capers for the coli cash grab. Dafuq does she think she’s fooling. I’m laughing... don’t tag me off this.

you came in here using personal insults, name calling and anger..

its common sense but you came in here throwing around personsl insults, a foul mouth and reacting.. with no emotional discipline

many posters have pointed out those traits of yours and every single time you react the same way.. highly emotional and go back and fourth writing novels

your pride is something else Nicole lol

 

[Suleiman Bey]

People respect who they respect. Has nothing to do with how you carry yourself in all honesty.