Ending my 10 month relationship today

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[QUOTE=" So she started crying the other day that she didn't have any friends and that she spends all her time with me. I'm like bytch you grown. :childplease: This wasn't really an issue until a month or two ago. It never really crossed my mind that she didn't know people.

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In my experience, she's already met someone else a month or two ago she's interested in, and wants to go out with, and is just trying to clear her schedule so that you are not around all the time so she can go out with other dude while still holding on to you none the wiser in case it doesn't work out with other dude.
 

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In my experience, she's already met someone else a month or two ago she's interested in, and wants to go out with, and is just trying to clear her schedule so that you are not around all the time so she can go out with other dude while still holding on to you none the wiser in case it doesn't work out with other dude.

doubtful but i respect your opinion.
 

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She's just not the one. I got blinded by the cooking and the sex (and a few other mutual interests), and the four-mile drive to work. Telling myself "yeah this is the life why leave it". But it finally hit me that wasn't gonna be enough.

get used and have your time wasted, brehettes
women really need to stop giving men husband privleges

Edit: Anybody else been on the giving end of a breakup?

everytime, since Rashad in 1989(5th grade)
 

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Haven't had to give a girl the :jbhmm: in a long time. I'm about 99.9% sure I'm going to do it. She's a nice girl so I know it's going to hurt her.


Reason?

She's just not the one. I got blinded by the cooking and the sex (and a few other mutual interests), and the four-mile drive to work. Telling myself "yeah this is the life why leave it". But it finally hit me that wasn't gonna be enough.

Another big reason is that I was one of the first people she met when you moved here from the west coast. So she started crying the other day that she didn't have any friends and that she spends all her time with me. I'm like bytch you grown. :childplease: This wasn't really an issue until a month or two ago. It never really crossed my mind that she didn't know people.

There's obviously other reasons but this kind of sums it up.

:beli:

Edit: Anybody else been on the giving end of a breakup?
No such thing as "the one" breh

Just gotta decide if you're willing to be patient enough to make it work long-term
 

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Good for you. If you realize she ain't the one, you just wasting your time the more you spend building w her.

Don't let the tears soften you up, she will live
 

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Another big reason is that I was one of the first people she met when you moved here from the west coast. So she started crying the other day that she didn't have any friends and that she spends all her time with me. I'm like bytch you grown. :childplease: This wasn't really an issue until a month or two ago. It never really crossed my mind that she didn't know people.

There's obviously other reasons but this kind of sums it up.

:beli:

Could've told you from jump you were going to want out of that relationship.

Red flag from go.
 

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get used and have your time wasted, brehettes
women really need to stop giving men husband privleges

Exactly, she's the only one losing in the end he got the good treatment and since he's done using her she just gets dumped in the trash.

Hopefully she finds someone that appreciates her and isn't just out to use her.
 

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Exactly, she's the only one losing in the end he got the good treatment and since he's done using her she just gets dumped in the trash.

Hopefully she finds someone that appreciates her and isn't just out to use her.
Isnt dating supposed to be the audition for marriage
She was playing her role
If he was using her he would keep her around for the sex and cooking
 
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