Paradise50
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it's only been 10 months 
ain't that serious, man.
ain't that serious, man.
Ending my 10 month relationship today
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U got a nikka to marry u without ever cooking for him or giving him sex
Either this
or he a simp
Quiet Magician
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Aren't you married to some middle eastern guy?
OP, I did the same thing you did almost a decade ago. Chick was cool on paper, but after a year I knew it wasn't going any further.
That chick is still single
Music Fiend
Superstar
Was just about to post this
nikkas are so stupid nothing wrong with the girl he says .
I was blinded by the good sex and her doing nice things for me
My goodness man hilarious
Ohshe just moved here and ain't been ran through I must end thing she ain't the one
Man good luck I hope u find what u looking for .
I also hope that young lady finds a man who deserves and appreciates her .
U gotta also read between the lines just like women when they leave us. "I need time" "there's no passion" "I'd like to be friends"
Chances are he's in the position I'm in. Which is the real culprit.
He's just not attracted to her to the degree he wants. He likely found a good girl, who was decent looking and was a good time, but in the back of his mind he always felt he could do better looks wise. When it's new none of it matter but as you get closer to permanent and you really see this is it, it's easier to say you want better.
onthereal
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This. Also since when is it a requirement to stay with someone because they cook for you and fukk you? is that really all nikkas want now?
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
U got a nikka to marry u without ever cooking for him or giving him sex
Either this
I cooked for him a few times. Just not as much as I do now.
Yea
Not my fault, she was 22 when we broke up. She had all the time in the world to rebound.
Kinda let's me know I made the right decision tho.
She has timeNot my fault, she was 22 when we broke up. She had all the time in the world to rebound.
Kinda let's me know I made the right decision tho.
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Haven't had to give a girl thein a long time. I'm about 99.9% sure I'm going to do it. She's a nice girl so I know it's going to hurt her.
Reason?
She's just not the one. I got blinded by the cooking and the sex (and a few other mutual interests), and the four-mile drive to work. Telling myself "yeah this is the life why leave it". But it finally hit me that wasn't gonna be enough.
Another big reason is that I was one of the first people she met when you moved here from the west coast. So she started crying the other day that she didn't have any friends and that she spends all her time with me. I'm like bytch you grown.This wasn't really an issue until a month or two ago. It never really crossed my mind that she didn't know people.
There's obviously other reasons but this kind of sums it up.
Edit: Anybody else been on the giving end of a breakup?
she pretty much told you that she was sick
of looking at you and wanted some new dikk
tucked off in her........she's already looking at the
front door breh.
Sound like OP might be trying to jump ship before it sinks.
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Living the dream
Haven't had to give a girl the
Reason?
She's just not the one. I got blinded by the cooking and the sex (and a few other mutual interests), and the four-mile drive to work. Telling myself "yeah this is the life why leave it". But it finally hit me that wasn't gonna be enough.
Another big reason is that I was one of the first people she met when you moved here from the west coast. So she started crying the other day that she didn't have any friends and that she spends all her time with me. I'm like bytch you grown.
There's obviously other reasons but this kind of sums it up.
Edit: Anybody else been on the giving end of a breakup?
The same damn thing happened with a relationship I had with a Colombian who had moved from Houston to Jax for a job. She had only been in the country for 8 years but in Jax for 3 months. We were straight for like 5 months then that 6 month mark... yeesh.
She started becoming sad/lonely just like your girl. I had the exact same response too. Like, "We're both grown ass adults. Grow up."
I mean, she was 25 so I guess she was still kinda young. Everything was kosher... I mean, a good/solid relationship. Then she just hit a wall. We started getting into little bullshyt ass fights over nothing. Started stressing me out way too much for my liking. Had to end it.
I think back sometimes and wonder if I was too harsh. I'm 33 though. Cant be wasting time.
