Entering...the Friend Zone

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My sexist ass really only thought women did that. :dead:
Honestly most guys don't attract girls to them. Even some of these 6ft six pack cats. They have to actively hit on girls. There's a perentage of men who are odd enough for women to approach them. Think prince. Prince doesn't hit on girls. He chooses.

That small group of men chooses. It's a fascinating existence. I still go get girls, but I have options on deck. No flex.

I'm sure I've been friend zoned more than I've friend zoned girls.
 

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People wouldn't get friendzoned if they made clear their intentions from the get-go, or if they already know for sure the other person is whipped

shyt is totally avoidable yet it still happens for some reason
 
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People wouldn't get friendzoned if they made clear their intentions from the get-go, or if they already know for sure the other person is whipped

shyt is totally avoidable yet it still happens for some reason

Well I guess by your definition that's more so what happened. She told him what she was looking for and he responded and told her. Now they're cool. She said she didn't know him that long so I can't see there being huge emotions.

Women think they slick with that friend zone shyt. I'll break it down later for the brehs in the thread.

What's the slickness?

This doesn't sound like the friend zone to me.


Anyone that's really been friend zoned knows that hell. When your a perfect fit, used emotionally, mentally and possibly physically and financially.


When you don't get a clear cut yes or no when asking about a relationship.


Sounds like just got rejected but he still wants to be cool with her which really isn't rejection at all.


Women handle rejection of any type really bad usually though. Especially from people they like.


If it's not rejection what would you call it?
Dude didn't even try to fukk? :dwillhuh:

Either your friend is ugly af or the dude is a fakkit.

My cousin is not ugly and I'm pretty sure she's not sweating some gay guy. Not every guy is a scumbag that's trying to ruin a girl's psyche just to get a nut.
 

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Well I guess by your definition that's more so what happened. She told him what she was looking for and he responded and told her. Now they're cool. She said she didn't know him that long so I can't see there being huge emotions.

Yeah I know I was just responding to some of the comments in here. As for your question, friendships are rarely that valuable/indispensable, be acquaintances if she wants but keep her distance
 

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"Cousin" huh? :rudy:
 
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To be honest anytime I've put a chick in the friend zone I basically cut whatever interaction we had before. So it's more like I put them in a no contact zone.
 

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Well I guess by your definition that's more so what happened. She told him what she was looking for and he responded and told her. Now they're cool. She said she didn't know him that long so I can't see there being huge emotions.



What's the slickness?




If it's not rejection what would you call it?


My cousin is not ugly and I'm pretty sure she's not sweating some gay guy. Not every guy is a scumbag that's trying to ruin a girl's psyche just to get a nut.


I was driving and typing kinda of fast. It's rejection but it's I guess I'm saying it "shouldn't" be that bad since it's not like he lead her on at all.

But it depends, alot of times people say one thing but act another way completely.
 
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There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be a friend with someone you're interested in romantically, in fact, cutting off contact with someone completely in that situation is probably the healthy thing to do. Only be friends if you can get over your feelings, and that's not as simple as hitting a switch in your brain; for some people it takes time, and even then old feelings can always pop back up at some point in the future. People who don't want to remain in the "friendzone" shouldn't be shamed over it, the one's who should be shamed are the people who carry on a friendship when they know they want more, but pretend like they don't.
 
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