Entering...the Friend Zone

[tater]

So I was talking to my cousin last night. She was telling me about this guy she liked and he friend zoned her with a quickness. Now personally I've been friend zoned before, and we honestly remained friends. Nothing weird. She wanted to talk to him seriously and he told her he wasn't ready for all that. I told her that she should appreciate the fact that he was honest and didn't try and play her, but she said her feelings were hurt. Now like I said, I've also been thrown into the friend zone (multiple times really ), but that didn't stop me and the other party from actually developing a friendship. I mean a real friendship too, like we hung out, called/texted each other, partied, etc. and nothing sexual ever happened. The only thing I told her was to not look for him to change his mind, if he does cool, if not . I mean, I feel like if he's cool enough why miss out on a good friend?



Anyhoo...what do y'all think?

I already know really

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Women get friend zoned?

 

[tater]

Women get friend zoned?

yes.

 

[At30wecashout]

Miss out on a good friend? There I disagree. Friendzone me? I'm out. I will take my talents to South beach.

In any case, tell her to take some time away so she can get the feelings loose. This trying to salvage friendships out of failed relationships shyt is a rarity.

She might be the type to always feel some type of way. She shouldn't be hurt by the rejection, she should just be emboldened to move on.

Again, no friend zone:justgodude:

 

[tater]

Miss out on a good friend? There I disagree. Friendzone me? I'm out. I will take my talents to South beach.

In any case, tell her to take some time away so she can get the feelings loose. This trying to salvage friendships out of failed relationships shyt is a rarity.

She might be the type to always feel some type of way. She shouldn't be hurt by the rejection, she should just be emboldened to move on.

Again, no friend zone:justgodude:

How is it salvaging a friendship out of a failed relationship if there was never a relationship?

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Entering Friendzones...

 

[AquaCityBoy]

yes.

But feminists told me the friend zone doesn't exist and it's only a term used by creepy dudes who think being nice entitles them to p*ssy.

 

[prince_peoples]

Women get friend zoned?

iv put a bunch of women in the friend zone. mostly chubby woman, and any chick with kids regardless of looks.

most woman don't take it well, and stop talking to me eventually.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Unless she can get to a emotional/mental point to where she can truly handle just a friendship, it's best if she doesn't even deal with him period.

For the record, if a woman ever became emboldened enough to step to me like that, I'd be inclined to give her a legit shot just because I didn't have to do the approaching for once.

Assuming she met whatever flimsy ass standards I have, that is

 

[Youseenmywork]

Women get friend zoned?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

iv put a bunch of women in the friend zone. mostly chubby woman, and any chick with kids regardless of looks.

most woman don't take it well, and stop talking to me eventually.

Oh okay.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

What?

 

[Audemar]

most woman don't take it well

I can second this.

 

[Raava]

She is lucky he didn't take advangtage and should appreciate his honesty. Truth hurts but so what? Some people can move from that and create real friendships. If she can't deal with that, she should move around. I have seen women try to change a guys mind and get hurt even more. Men do it too try to make someone see them the way they don't instead of KIM. That's how people get used.

If one person can get over their feelings male or female 9 times out of 10 a friendship can't work.

 

[tater]

I can second this.

I've taken it well. I don't feel like I'm ugly or unwanted so I just go on about my business. Some people aren't interested or just at different points in life.