Entitlement in dating is getting out of hand...

AngryBaby

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that apples and oranges tweet is fukking retarded.


Tbh i see that analogy. Its similar to when someone says they dont date black dudes/women or something but thats her/his "preference".

They technically arent saying they like both and prefer one more. They straight up are saying "none of that race" lol

So i see some truth in that analogy...because even with "fat" define fat. Because there's some thicker chicls i'd still fukk, and some that just have terrible porportions etc so its like...no. So the preference thing people talk about tends to lack nuance like that
 

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Tbh i see that analogy. Its similar to when someone says they dont date black dudes/women or something but thats her/his "preference".

They technically arent saying they like both and prefer one more. They straight up are saying "none of that race" lol

So i see some truth in that analogy...because even with "fat" define fat. Because there's some thicker chicls i'd still fukk, and some that just have terrible porportions etc so its like...no. So the preference thing people talk about tends to lack nuance like that
it's a stupid analogy because you would be trying to pick an apple or an orange for the rest of life. so you pick ONE.


Also, if you don't like oranges but you like apples then it's a valid preference. so saying you prefer in-shape women can also mean you don't like fat women. it doesn't mean you'll still be with fat women, but you prefer in-shape women. like you can simply not like fat women. it's a stupid analogy from her.

sucks the men have to be vilified for communicating exactly what they want.
 

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it's a stupid analogy because you would be trying to pick an apple or an orange for the rest of life. so you pick ONE.


Also, if you don't like oranges but you like apples then it's a valid preference. so saying you prefer in-shape women can also mean you don't like fat women. it doesn't mean you'll still be with fat women, but you prefer in-shape women. like you can simply not like fat women. it's a stupid analogy from her.

sucks the men have to be vilified for communicating exactly what they want.

Usually when i say i prefer an orange over an apple, it tends to mean ill still fukk with an apple but I like oranges more. (Which is true, i like oranges more but i still eat apples.)

If i straight up dont like apples, i just say "nah i dont like apples" i dont say i "prefer oranges" lol but maybe thats me.

That being said, i have no issue with someone saying "nah no fat chicks" stand by that shyt lmao dont be nice and say "preference" because thats bullshyt lol

Same with black women or something, dont hide behind "preference" so you dont like black women because you dont loke their hair lips or some stereotype shyt lol be honest
 

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Usually when i say i prefer an orange over an apple, it tends to mean ill still fukk with an apple but I like oranges more. (Which is true, i like oranges more but i still eat apples.)

If i straight up dont like apples, i just say "nah i dont like apples" i dont say i "prefer oranges" lol but maybe thats me.

That being said, i have no issue with someone saying "nah no fat chicks" stand by that shyt lmao dont be nice and say "preference" because thats bullshyt lol

Same with black women or something, dont hide behind "preference" so you dont like black women because you dont loke their hair lips or some stereotype shyt lol be honest
the prefer is just in reference to having two options.

"i like skinny women and big women, but i prefer skinny women"
"between skinny women and big women, i prefer skinny women because i don't like big women"

2 different statements, but preference is used properly in both

and this is little too deep in the weeds of semantics. what she said was stupid.
 

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it's a stupid analogy because you would be trying to pick an apple or an orange for the rest of life. so you pick ONE.


Also, if you don't like oranges but you like apples then it's a valid preference. so saying you prefer in-shape women can also mean you don't like fat women. it doesn't mean you'll still be with fat women, but you prefer in-shape women. like you can simply not like fat women. it's a stupid analogy from her.

sucks the men have to be vilified for communicating exactly what they want.


You probably want to consider saying you won't deal with nothing but fit women.
 

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Since when are people entitled to a date or a partner? :patrice:

If a dude straight up says "NO FAT CHICKS" on them apps, he's a fatphobic pig, but if he does the nice thing and says "Aye I'm looking for someone who lives an active lifestyle cause that's the type of time I'm on" he's wrong?

Knowing damn well if you was into being active and such you wouldn't look like Lizzo
When they’re female, or even if they were “assigned” male at birth, want to live their life as a woman, and they want to date a man.
 

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So I shouldn't have a particular choice for someone I want to spend a significant amount of time with? I should just take whatever is thrown at me?

Nah fukk all that. If you're gonna take a stand on anything it should be your possible significant other.
 

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hiking is just a generic "i'm outdoorsy" hobby that people put in their profile to seem well rounded, no big deal. the obsession with travel is exponentially more annoying, and I'm aware how fulfilling travel can be.

these gen z / young millenial women stay juelzing about how those international flights contribute to climate change and negatively affect the whole atmosphere and economy of their fave spots like Tulum. Venice is basically a dub now, Santorini is a crowded cesspool, etc.

Travel is like the #1 thing on every woman's dating profile. I try to put unique shyt on mine like voice over work, horror movies and video editing. Hinge got a lot easier since they allowed me to add video and my voice.
 
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