JasonSJackson
Jah Sun Ma'at Ra
I dealt with some shyt like that until a couple months ago.
My BM lived across the country. She was supposed to move with me once I made some decent money. Well she basically had excuses for two years why she couldn't move, some actually valid. We started growing further and further apart. At some point while visiting her she got off work. I put our girls to sleep by 9 and was waiting to spend time with her. She didn't come home until like 3:30 in the morning. Her excuse was she went over her best friend's house for dinner and fell asleep.
Finally I said fukk it you either need to move or we done. So she said we're done. She was on my phone plan so I changed her voicemail password. I figured I'm cutting it off so can't hurt to listen in and see what's going on. It was some other nikka on there talking about how he loved her, how he didn't want her to have that abortion, and how him her and my daughters would make a great family.
So I call homeboy up and he tells me they've broke up and how she's fukking with some new dude now. All I wanted to know if she had brought my daughters around him which he said she hadn't. But he did say they had been seeing each other for two years. He worked at the mall with her (which explained another incident).
We ended up back together a few years later. Same distance between us. She got in a car accident and had her ex pick her up. I'm blowing up her phone to see if she's alright and she ignores it until after he's dropped her back off late in the morning. I check her myspace messages (I had her account info) and she's telling her brother how her and the ex have been seeing each other again and how she's fallen back in love with him and that I could never make her as happy as he does.
Sadly tried to get together about a year ago and was actually living together. eventually I came to my senses and realized I really did need to cut my losses and that I could never bring myself to a point that I could trust her again. Kept giving it a shot for my daughters but that's no way to live.
Damn shame what a pretty face and crazy sex game will have you convincing yourself of though.
might want to get a blood test on those kids budddy