Ever been cheated on? share your story

[MikelArteta]

I was dating this chick for like 3 months, she lived like two hours away (red flag), last relatiosnhip was abusive (red flag), anyways things were going good or so I thought, she would mention er abusive ex but i thought nothing off it, being a sneaky nicca, i installed a keylogger on my pc and when she was over at my house she signed into her facebook and checked her email, i got her passwords and , yep i was getting played breh by the nicca who almost beat her to death , when i saw them fb msgs and the email that feeling in my stomach breh, i guess its called the damn nicca you got cheated on feeling. Oh ya b*tch went back to that nicca and got beat yet again and sent me a msg on fb a few months later

 

[Ohene]

couldnt let my thread do numbers first breh

Just playing

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Was playing her. She ended up making me choose between her and another chick. I chose her. We moved in together, got a dog, she got my name tatted on her. Paid the bills so she could focus on school (Theater degree ). After almost 3 years and me finally being faithful for the first time in my life she cheated right before Valentines Day. I found out. She denied. Checked her phone. Busted.

Kicked her out the crib. Her parents drove 200 miles to plead for her forgiveness. She was forced to drop out of school. Now she's maxed out on school loans (over 50k), and is now back to living w/ her parents and now is trying to do school to "do hair"

I moved to the ATL, quickly got a great accounting job 2x my previous salary and move into my new loft within the next week. She now says we're "soulmates" and are destined to be together.

I just tell her to book a flight to come down and get until I find a bytch that I wanna keep.

 

[Wallie]

Yeah.
His best friend told me.
No story.

 

[Born2BKing]

I was dating this chick for like 3 months, she lived like two hours away (red flag), last relatiosnhip was abusive (red flag), anyways things were going good or so I thought, she would mention er abusive ex but i thought nothing off it, being a sneaky nicca, i installed a keylogger on my pc and when she was over at my house she signed into her facebook and checked her email, i got her passwords and , yep i was getting played breh by the nicca who almost beat her to death , when i saw them fb msgs and the email that feeling in my stomach breh, i guess its called the damn nicca you got cheated on feeling. Oh ya b*tch went back to that nicca and got beat yet again and sent me a msg on fb a few months later

Damn, I see why you hate women so much. Tighten up nikka.

 

[ItsStillMurda]

I was dating this chick for like 3 months, she lived like two hours away (red flag), last relatiosnhip was abusive (red flag), anyways things were going good or so I thought, she would mention er abusive ex but i thought nothing off it, being a sneaky nicca, i installed a keylogger on my pc and when she was over at my house she signed into her facebook and checked her email, i got her passwords and , yep i was getting played breh by the nicca who almost beat her to death , when i saw them fb msgs and the email that feeling in my stomach breh, i guess its called the damn nicca you got cheated on feeling. Oh ya b*tch went back to that nicca and got beat yet again and sent me a msg on fb a few months later

this explains 80% of your posting history.

 

[MikelArteta]

Not really, I've had great relationships since that.

Plus it was only 3 months.

 

[Dooby]

I got cheated on by my internet girlfriend.

 

[fendi_mane]

When I was 18 I thought I found my first love. She was married and he was away playing football in college. I guess when he flunked out he came back to Atlanta and I got pushed to the side. Thing is, he had been back before I found out and they were fukking around. Me and ole boy had a few fist fights and he realized I was superior so he jumped me on the train with his boys one day. I was still fukking her for about 6 months then I came to my senses. They have kids now and she works at McDonald's but damn that hoe had some drippy puzzy on her.

 

[whatthatthangsmelllike]

i dont know and dont want to know

bytches aint shyt though

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Only thing that is a worst feeling is the death of a loved one.


I know for sure one time i got cheated on. She came clean, but claimed her and I were "just talkin"

Thats the only time im certain of, and the dude was her daughter's father.


Some shyt that done raised red flags in my relationship times:

Girl showers in the morning. No big deal. We do separate things that day. We meet back at the crib. What does she do? Showers again. Mind u, it is winter time.


Another instance, i come into the bedroom to see a picture of us covered up with a piece of paper. Maybe im readin too much into it, but shyt seemed odd for some reason.

 

[klientel]

*goes to check my girl's gmail*

 

[ItsStillMurda]

Only thing that is a worst feeling is the death of a loved one.


I know for sure one time i got cheated on. She came clean, but claimed her and I were "just talkin"

Thats the only time im certain of, and the dude was her daughter's father.


Some shyt that done raised red flags in my relationship times:

Girl showers in the morning. No big deal. We do separate things that day. We meet back at the crib. What does she do? Showers again. Mind u, it is winter time.


Another instance, i come into the bedroom to see a picture of us covered up with a piece of paper. Maybe im readin too much into it, but shyt seemed odd for some reason.

 

[DreadHead P]

I was dating this chick for like 3 months, she lived like two hours away (red flag), last relatiosnhip was abusive (red flag), anyways things were going good or so I thought, she would mention er abusive ex but i thought nothing off it, being a sneaky nicca, i installed a keylogger on my pc and when she was over at my house she signed into her facebook and checked her email, i got her passwords and , yep i was getting played breh by the nicca who almost beat her to death , when i saw them fb msgs and the email that feeling in my stomach breh, i guess its called the damn nicca you got cheated on feeling. Oh ya b*tch went back to that nicca and got beat yet again and sent me a msg on fb a few months later

If I have been cheated on I don't know it but this reminds me of somethin that happened to me. Mid Sept. 07 I met one of my Ex's, she was fresh out of a marriage wit a abusive husband that was literally a 6'9 psycho, divorce papers hadn't even been signed yet, but he was back in texas so he was never a concern for me. Me and her started fukkin around and gettin real heavy, damn near stayin wit each other, but I still wouldn't make it official, everytime shyt hit the fan I'd be like "fukk it, do you, I'm single". So we're hanging out wit her friends drinking one night and we start arguing about why I just wont go ahead and make It official, after a while she got quiet then out of nowhere said "i'm thinkin about goin back to derrick (her ex husband), I got that same feelin OP is talkin about, its like " bytch what? I'm goin all out for you and you wanna go back to the nikka that damn near killed you?"

 

[BrothaZay]

The worst L i EVER taken, good thing i learned from it.

Red flags about her:

Went to an HBCU

Had a tattoo of her ex's name

Was always at the "studio"

Her mom repped a gang


Of course this bytch was SO FUCCIN BAD i looked past all of it. We hit it off and official got together. Then one night when we was having one of those talks , the topic of "how many people have you slept with" came up. Now mind you she was only 18 at the time, but her body count was 29
Then she gave me her fb pw to prove she was faithful, she forgot to delete some messages tho. One of them was some dude hitting her up "next time you got to swallow"
I was just

bytch hit me up about 2 weeks ago tryna be friends, talking about "i learned from my mistakes, and are you still coming to college with me"