Ever been cheated on? share your story

[Steezy]

The worst L i EVER taken, good thing i learned from it.

Red flags about her:

Went to an HBCU

Had a tattoo of her ex's name

Was always at the "studio"

Her mom repped a gang


Of course this bytch was SO FUCCIN BAD i looked past all of it. We hit it off and official got together. Then one night when we was having one of those talks , the topic of "how many people have you slept with" came up. Now mind you she was only 18 at the time, but her body count was 29
Then she gave me her fb pw to prove she was faithful, she forgot to delete some messages tho. One of them was some dude hitting her up "next time you got to swallow"
I was just

bytch hit me up about 2 weeks ago tryna be friends, talking about "i learned from my mistakes, and are you still coming to college with me"

damn dawg.. damn

 

[Pack2]

This bad chick I dated in high school for like 6 months. She lived a few cities over n we made plans to meet up on a wknd to watch some boxing, puff some trees n drink by one of my boys who was having a party.

Was sitting there telling my boys about her like ...shorty was bad as hell and they seen her before n thought I was the shyt for baggin her....night gets goin I don't hear from her....start paging her punkass and no response for a few hours....

I try to play it off like "fukk her it's all good, we ain't really have plans plans" knowing damn well that we had solid plans to meet at the party, chill, smash, etc..inside I'm feeling like but playing it off like

Finally the night is done its like 3am I had been beeping this bytch on the low all night from my boys phone (yes, before cell phones)...go home to bed. The next morning I get a call from one of my other boys talkin bout this bytch was chillin with her friends n some other dudes, smoking, drinking n bytch was giving out the puss like it was skittles...smh I had to dead that shyt right there.

We kept in touch n I smashed a bunch of times over the years bc she bad as fukk n I was weak to that power-u but never, ever treated her like anything more than a trick....learned my lesson early....

 

[DreadHead P]

The worst L i EVER taken, good thing i learned from it.

Red flags about her:

Went to an HBCU

Had a tattoo of her ex's name

Was always at the "studio"

Her mom repped a gang


Of course this bytch was SO FUCCIN BAD i looked past all of it. We hit it off and official got together. Then one night when we was having one of those talks , the topic of "how many people have you slept with" came up. Now mind you she was only 18 at the time, but her body count was 29
Then she gave me her fb pw to prove she was faithful, she forgot to delete some messages tho. One of them was some dude hitting her up "next time you got to swallow"
I was just

bytch hit me up about 2 weeks ago tryna be friends, talking about "i learned from my mistakes, and are you still coming to college with me"

 

[beenz]

I was dating this chick for like 3 months, she lived like two hours away (red flag), last relatiosnhip was abusive (red flag), anyways things were going good or so I thought, she would mention er abusive ex but i thought nothing off it, being a sneaky nicca, i installed a keylogger on my pc and when she was over at my house she signed into her facebook and checked her email, i got her passwords and , yep i was getting played breh by the nicca who almost beat her to death , when i saw them fb msgs and the email that feeling in my stomach breh, i guess its called the damn nicca you got cheated on feeling. Oh ya b*tch went back to that nicca and got beat yet again and sent me a msg on fb a few months later

was she white or black????

how many times u gon let these broads play u?

 

[TheHonorableOmarSharif]

I don't even look at it as cheating...I just view it as her true potential coming out. But it was a huge L at my expense.
I was dating this chick my sophmore year. She was one of those chicks that come to college good girls; had grew up in church, was focused on her books, didn't party or drink, and seemed like a nice, wholesome girl.
I, at the time, drank, smoke, and went to class sporadically to say the least. We both worked as Residence assistants in the dorm I lived in, talked for awhile, and I quit messing with other chicks after I had been with her for a minute.
As it usually goes, once we were an "item" the shyt I used to do: hanging out with friends, getting wasted, going to parties, etc. started to be an issue for her, so my simple suggestion was that she get a life outside of me and start acting like a college student. We had got in a huge fight over me going to a house party one night, so in response, she made plans to go to an Alpha party with some of her homegirls (a fukking Alpha party....smh) and at said party gets blackout drunk and ends up being in a good ol'-fashioned choo choo with a bunch of the cats in the frat.
I had a homeboy that was an Alpha, so I get a text like "yo, hit me when you get this", so I call the nicca and he's like "yo, your girl over here loose, my dog...you should get over here." Me still being pissed over the earlier argument that day was like fukk that, so I just stayed at the party I was at. The next day, another one of my homeboys sent me a text like "you need to talk to your girl, dog" so I call him and end up getting the story of what happened.
So I call her to find out if what I heard happened, actually happened, and not only did the broad confirm it, she tried to blame it on me, saying "well, if you wouldn't have went out with your friends and would have spent time with me, it wouldn't have happened."

 

[klientel]

I don't even look at it as cheating...I just view it as her true potential coming out. But it was a huge L at my expense.
I was dating this chick my sophmore year. She was one of those chicks that come to college good girls; had grew up in church, was focused on her books, didn't party or drink, and seemed like a nice, wholesome girl.
I, at the time, drank, smoke, and went to class sporadically to say the least. We both worked as Residence assistants in the dorm I lived in, talked for awhile, and I quit messing with other chicks after I had been with her for a minute.
As it usually goes, once we were an "item" the shyt I used to do: hanging out with friends, getting wasted, going to parties, etc. started to be an issue for her, so my simple suggestion was that she get a life outside of me and start acting like a college student. We had got in a huge fight over me going to a house party one night, so in response, she made plans to go to an Alpha party with some of her homegirls (a fukking Alpha party....smh) and at said party gets blackout drunk and ends up being in a good ol'-fashioned choo choo with a bunch of the cats in the frat.
I had a homeboy that was an Alpha, so I get a text like "yo, hit me when you get this", so I call the nicca and he's like "yo, your girl over here loose, my dog...you should get over here." Me still being pissed over the earlier argument that day was like fukk that, so I just stayed at the party I was at. The next day, another one of my homeboys sent me a text like "you need to talk to your girl, dog" so I call him and end up getting the story of what happened.
So I call her to find out if what I heard happened, actually happened, and not only did the broad confirm it, she tried to blame it on me, saying "well, if you wouldn't have went out with your friends and would have spent time with me, it wouldn't have happened."

I remember that night...it wasn't just A-Phi getting it in.

I was #3 so I was

But ol boy who was last and had clean up duty took a L .

 

[jalamanta]

here we go with soul destroyin stories

 

[KillaFnCam]

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Now she's maxed out on school loans (over 50k),

Damn, she better a quadruple pre-med/pre-law/engineering/buisiness majo...

and is now back to living w/ her parents and now is trying to do school to "do hair"

Well, she's fukked.

 

[True Blue Moon]

I was in college dating my high school sweetheart of over 3 years. Our relationship had reached a "funny" stage. I was playing football and she was a commuter student living about 30 minutes away, so we really only saw each other like that on weekends.

I can't explain it fully but other than not really seeing each other like we used to, shyt was starting to feel off. She had opened up a Black Planet page back in the day when it was hot like that. The Black Planet thing started irking me because it was obvious she was talkin to dudes up there. Her explanation was that she wanted to find friends, or in her words, someone that could be "like a brother" to her

We had our back and forth over this but I couldn't prove anything. Come to find out, she had given a nikka her number off there and they had been talkin on the phone. Long story short, after a bunch of arguments, she made it out to be innocent.

So being young and dumb, and to show my "trust," I let it go. In fact, the ether that transpired in the name of trust is still to think about.

It turns out the dude knew one of my homies who was having an end of the year cookout. It also turns out that he was invited to the same cookout me and my girl were invited to. So she gets a great idea. Since all three of us are going, Hey Blue Moon, dude doesn't have a ride, how about you pick him up when we go

Once again, being a young dumb ass in love and showing his trust, I'm like cool, I ain't insecure.

Ol' girl drives up to my crib first because she was supposed to spend the weekend with me. She brings her overnight bag and all that. Cool. We hit the road to pick up her "friend" and to go to the cookout.

I pick dude up and he gets in the backseat and we're making small talk. Nothing crazy is being said but it has an undertone of being awkward. We get to the cookout and the whole time it's awkward as fukk and we're kind of going through the motions. Dude, who is supposedly just a friend seems to feel the awkwardness and keeps his distance from her and chills with other people. She also makes no real effort to talk to him and whatnot, and is kind of spaced out for the whole cookout.

So when we decide to bounce (dude is gonna crash there or got another ride), we're getting ready to hit the tunnel and she's like "I think I'm going to go home instead of spending the weekend with you."

I'm like

She grabs up her overnight bag and heads back home and we don't talk on the phone or anything that night. The next day we don't really talk until the evening when we're both on AIM. And she said she wants to break up...

I call her to confirm and yeah, it's over. She swore she just went home that night and didn't go see ol' dude. I'll never know. She said she wasn't breaking up to be with or mess with ol' dude. I'll never know.

What I do konw is that when I told my aunts the story of the breakup after the dust settled, one of them told me more than one family member had seen her in wal-mart with a dude that fit his description and she had the face. They didn't wanna say anything in case it was a cousin or something and fukk my shyt up unnecessarily.

So many L's in one story...

Fast forward 5 years (last year). We hadn't spoken in those 5 years. I had since moved away with a job and am married now eatin good. My homie that I went to high school with is military so I went back home to visit him for his going away before he got sent off somewhere else.

We got fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucked up that night. And after the club I came home talkin crazy and the subject of ol' girl came up. He said fukk it I'ma call her. He put the phone to my ear and I was like cuz I literally hadn't heard ol' girl's voice in 5 years. But since I was drunk I couldn't stop laughing because of how little I cared. It's hard to explain, but after she played me I was pissed off and changed a little bit for a while. But fast forward and my life is totally different and I had no anger in my body cuz I was doin good and couldn't care less. A beautiful feeling.

I laugh and hand dude the phone back and jokingly tell him to tell her to bring her ass up here then (about an hour drive... at 3 or 4 a.m.) I pass out for a little bit and wake up and go downstairs and ol' girl is there

I didn't revenge fukk or anything, but the fact that she got outta bed in the middle of the night and drove an hour to see me feels like a win.

Oh yeah, and on another visit home, one of my friends told me they were kicking with her and they slipped up and mentioned that I was coming home to catch up. Word got back to me that when that was brought up her face dropped and she buried her face in her hands like "I told myself I wouldn't cry..." It was her birthday!

Took a massive L, but truer words have never been spoken. Back then they didn't want me, now I'm hot they all on me

 

[Harry Sax]

ok in 09 my bytch cheated on me...i have always been faithful not fukked any bytches but i've done some sneaky shyt and i LITERALLY had this one ho named pooh throwin tha puss at me...i wanted to fukk her so bad that night but my girl was home pregnant n shyt and i just couldnt...damn i sill regret that cause she is one of those historically fine hoes, one that has been fine since we were lil kids

anywho we into alot of shyt...09 was a bad year, her mom passed from cancer 2 weeks to the day after my lil girl was born...my uncle got killed a few months later...so shyt was kinda hectic...we were havin this arguement and i asked her did she wanna be single or be with me...she said single...i asked if she was sure and she said no...then idk...then we 'made up'...but that was a red flag like a mufukka, it was like she wanted to tell me sumptin

well her sister was in afghanistan ho'in it up (came back preg) and her she was goin back n forth with her bf because he wasnt really seeing about their son like he was posed to...well they were emailing each other back n forth and she was tellin me some funny shyt that her sister was saying about this situation...so later that day something tells me to go look at this email..

when i open it i see her say something like "girl how bout i got me a friend..he so sexy chile..we been chillin a lil..i love my bd but im tired of all we're going thru"

i wanted to murder her..she was scared shytless...and she was so cold about it..."well im sorry but i still wanna be friends" "im not saying we wont get back together i just want to be single right now" but she still wanted to do family things together

that shyt HURT LIKE fukk

when i finally got over the situation, i went to her house and gathered my belongings and bounced...and i got tha when i left my citrus 7s in her closet...i told her to give them to tha nikka they look like his size...that bytch was steaming when i said that...the whole time she wanted me to act out and but i got my shyt and dipped...

started talkin to other bytches, stopped talking to her outside of the baby, tried to holla at this one bytch thru my homegirl, ended up talking to my homegirls sister, which also happens to be my babymoms cousin well they're play cousins but still always called each other cousins...

on my birthday she moved...my b day is around thanksgiving. i was getting off of work at like 11, she called me pretty much as i was getting off...aint wished me happy b day yet or nuthin...asked me was i gon help her move i said wtf do i look like moving your shyt for another nikka to fukk u in, but i'd gladly move the baby's stuff SHE GOT HOTTT i got called every name in the book

well long story short she caught feelings again, the grass wasnt as green as she thought and she started hittin me up randomly...well eventually i fell back in (which to this day i regret) and she found out about the cousin and a plethora of whores i'd accumulated in the 2 months we were seperated

and the nikka she was fukkin wit had a girlfriend the whole time who was a senior in highschool and he got locked up on a petty sale charge and couldnt bail out

needless to say tha nikka is still scared of me to this day cause i threatened to beat his ass and he would see my friends randomly and ask them why i was trippin and say that he aint have a problem wit me...this happened back in 09-10...jsut a few weeks ago i went to a homeboys house and he was in the back chillin wit some of my other nikkas...tha two that were round back with him came to tha front to listen to music me n my homie had JUST came from recording...other ppl came thru...we were up front for about 30 min...this busta did not move from that spot

newho i lost cause i ended up taking her back and i pretty much regret it all the time and i've told her this numerous times

 

[klientel]

back to back long ass posts....not a good look

 

[patscorpio]

back to back long ass posts....not a good look

nikkas have stories to get off their chest breh

 

[Harry Sax]

nikkas have stories to get off their chest breh

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Mr. 321 you took her back??