Ever been cheated on? share your story

[fendi_mane]

I was about 19, freshman year of college. I was with this lil' high school bytch that was back home about two hours away. I would come home damn near every weekend for this lil' 16 yr old bytch, even though there was lots more broads on campus. Anyway, I notice she's starting to act all funny and shyt when I come home. People tried to drop me hints, but I was too dumb to pick up what they were saying. Anyway, I call this slut one weekend and I hear a voice in the background saying, "Just hang up.". I'm like, "Who the fukk are you with?!" and she said nobody, so I told her I was tired of the bullshyt and was gonna go to sleep. Soon as I got off the phone I drove to her house and saw my so-called best friend's car parked in her driveway, explains why he wasn't answering the phone all night. I told the punk ass dude everything, so that shyt really crushed me. Even more so because even her parents knew about this shyt. Anyway, long story short. I wilded out the rest of my time in college and pretty much treated all girls like shyt until I met my current wife. Tell me why me and my boy got cool again about a year later, and right before I was getting married he tried to holla at my the girl I am married to now.

What's funny is I NEVER got over that shyt. I loved that lil' bytch. Nice lil' Mexican broad with ass on her. After I quit school and joined the military I ended up seeing this bytch in the mall while I was home on leave. I was with my wife, she was just my g/f at the time, and her ass tried to be all friendly with me and shyt. She ended up getting my number from one of my boys and called me asking me to come over. I go over her house and the bytch is living in the pj's and has two kids. She was talking shyt about how I can do better with her instead of my wife and how everybody needs a girl on the side. Bust in her mouth and told her we would go out to dinner the next week before I went back to Carolina. Never talked to that bytch again, I hate that bytch.

You must didn't strike much fear in that man's heart?

 

[newworldafro]

After the baby was born moms was saying shyt like "don't be a deadbeat, u know the kid is urs." ppl were like "he's looks like you" I get served papers, I passed the DNA test I'm walking around like the bytch had the nerve to call me up 7 months after and is asking me to go on Maury because she read "that the chromosomes could be off " this was bout 7 years ago. I seen her in the store with her son 2 weeks ago, he's staring at me and he said "ain't u my daddy?" She was I was Smh. I dodged a bullet. I haven't hit her since but she still wants the dikk, but naw hoe, kick rocks. End of story

Hold up....you telling us 7 years later, she still has the little boy thinking you his pops after the DNA test and all that. So what happened to the other cat that was in the living room eating the BBQ.....he wasn't a suspect??

 

[HalfwayHandsome]

Hold up....you telling us 7 years later, she still has the little boy thinking you his pops after the DNA test and all that. So what happened to the other cat that was in the living room eating the BBQ.....he wasn't a suspect??

Yeah she had him thinking that. Dunno why she did that I was shocked. She told me, him and me were the only dudes she slept with and the DNA test said neither was the pops. "the system has a flaw in it, I did research do u wanna get retested?" *click* hangs up on her

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

when I was 17 I was dating this pretty slut who I was always catching in lil lies....Her moms would always hint to me that she was lying but thats as far as it always went till she got caught.......There was this one night I had a fight with my cousin who I was living with at the time. ...So its like 2 or 3 in the morning....The only place I could go was the lying sluts house but she lived in the south Bronx....I walked all the way from North BX to the south BX(cuz I was high and stupid and thought a long walk would do me good to clear my head)...when I get there I tap the lil door thing...I do it gently cuz its late....The mom opens the door. She sees me......I explain to her my situation and ask if I can sleep on the couch....she has this worried look on her face but she lets me in....The pretty slut was always running in and out the house so I didnt know wether or not she was even home....But on this night she was home...The mom leads me to the living room where I hear sex noises. That sounds like my girl. The mom just keeps looking at me with that look as if to say "now U see what she does when u not around".......She was getting tore up by the next dude in her rooom, all the while I was just sitting in the living room listening. The mom goes to her room and closes the door cuz obviously she's been listening to the noise all night and had enough. I sat in that living room listening to my girl make loud sex noises with the next dude while I had to sit there and take it.......She never sounded like that with me......Dude tore her up for a while too. That was a very long night....They eventually stopped. And I thought we would have a confrontation but she never came out the room.....I fall a sleep cuz I was worn, high and tired. I didnt sleep comforatbly. When morning came, I just laid there as I awoke......When that door finally opened and she saw me in teh living room she did a suprised aboutface as if she was trying to avoid me. She asked "What are u doing here?" I said..I was here all night......

I'm gonna just end it there......what happened afterwards is irrelevant. But yeah thats my story. Hands down the worst cheating story I have other then waking up on 2 different occasions and noticing that my penis was burning.

well handled.

tough tho...

so how is dating now?

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

I dealt with some shyt like that until a couple months ago.

My BM lived across the country. She was supposed to move with me once I made some decent money. Well she basically had excuses for two years why she couldn't move, some actually valid. We started growing further and further apart. At some point while visiting her she got off work. I put our girls to sleep by 9 and was waiting to spend time with her. She didn't come home until like 3:30 in the morning. Her excuse was she went over her best friend's house for dinner and fell asleep .

Finally I said fukk it you either need to move or we done. So she said we're done. She was on my phone plan so I changed her voicemail password. I figured I'm cutting it off so can't hurt to listen in and see what's going on. It was some other nikka on there talking about how he loved her, how he didn't want her to have that abortion, and how him her and my daughters would make a great family.

So I call homeboy up and he tells me they've broke up and how she's fukking with some new dude now. All I wanted to know if she had brought my daughters around him which he said she hadn't. But he did say they had been seeing each other for two years. He worked at the mall with her (which explained another incident).

We ended up back together a few years later. Same distance between us. She got in a car accident and had her ex pick her up. I'm blowing up her phone to see if she's alright and she ignores it until after he's dropped her back off late in the morning. I check her myspace messages (I had her account info) and she's telling her brother how her and the ex have been seeing each other again and how she's fallen back in love with him and that I could never make her as happy as he does.

Sadly tried to get together about a year ago and was actually living together. eventually I came to my senses and realized I really did need to cut my losses and that I could never bring myself to a point that I could trust her again. Kept giving it a shot for my daughters but that's no way to live.

Damn shame what a pretty face and crazy sex game will have you convincing yourself of though.

how did you make the call to the gf ex/lover?

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

Was playing her. She ended up making me choose between her and another chick. I chose her. We moved in together, got a dog, she got my name tatted on her. Paid the bills so she could focus on school (Theater degree ). After almost 3 years and me finally being faithful for the first time in my life she cheated right before Valentines Day. I found out. She denied. Checked her phone. Busted.

Kicked her out the crib. Her parents drove 200 miles to plead for her forgiveness. She was forced to drop out of school. Now she's maxed out on school loans (over 50k), and is now back to living w/ her parents and now is trying to do school to "do hair"

I moved to the ATL, quickly got a great accounting job 2x my previous salary and move into my new loft within the next week. She now says we're "soulmates" and are destined to be together.

I just tell her to book a flight to come down and get until I find a bytch that I wanna keep.

what was on her phone?

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

If I have been cheated on I don't know it but this reminds me of somethin that happened to me. Mid Sept. 07 I met one of my Ex's, she was fresh out of a marriage wit a abusive husband that was literally a 6'9 psycho, divorce papers hadn't even been signed yet, but he was back in texas so he was never a concern for me. Me and her started fukkin around and gettin real heavy, damn near stayin wit each other, but I still wouldn't make it official, everytime shyt hit the fan I'd be like "fukk it, do you, I'm single". So we're hanging out wit her friends drinking one night and we start arguing about why I just wont go ahead and make It official, after a while she got quiet then out of nowhere said "i'm thinkin about goin back to derrick (her ex husband), I got that same feelin OP is talkin about, its like " bytch what? I'm goin all out for you and you wanna go back to the nikka that damn near killed you?"

though, you didn't completely commit...

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

So I met this chick through one of my high school friends right. And when we first talked she was saying she had a man and I was like

So one day I told her "I wanna fukk the shyt out of you" and she was like

Eventually, one thing led to another, drinks were involved and I got in that puss early. So after that I started comin around the crib, met the nikka...dapped him up. Was introduced as her best friend and shyt....got to sleep over. nikka would go to sleep, shorty would come out in the living room and give a nikka head. My alibi was that I would also fukk her sister (who was uglier but I wasn't tryna get murked out on some angry lover shyt so I fukked her also). Even after she married dude (I was at the marriage) we still kept it going . Eventually, she started fukking with her ex also so I started to step back except for a few times when me her and the sister would go to a hotel and have threesomes or I'd get head from both at my crib. Eventually I got tired of the lifestyle and started talking to this girl who eventually became my gf. She got jealous after hearing a conversation that me and my future girl had and I haven't spoken to her since.

Oh wait, this is about if a girl cheated on ME Aight, I'll re-up in a second

wtf?
cliff notes and identify the characters...
girl
bestfriend
sister
husband
gf????

wtf

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

yeah i heard they moved to cali and he became a MAJOR cokehead out there with her...and she dumped him. lol
crazy part is i still cared about him for many years after...wondered how he was etc. it took meeting my husband several years later to finally get completely over him.
i was 17 when we hooked up 19 when it all came crashing down. he was half\white-\half\chinese.

initial loves, whatever the background could do that to you...

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

just found out today .. via twitter

how so? tweet?

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

Me and my bm fell out while she was preggo. One of them i dont feel like it type bytches and i pissed me off. After she has my daughter she all in my face promising me she gonna put all the way out and make up for the lost time. Im like cool. This was nov. January hits and we are back arguing. One bum who used to come around to try to smoke overhears the argument. I leave the house and i see these nikkas talkin. I aint dumb. I gt her liquored up on valentines day and on the way from new orleans she confesses.
Fast forward to my bday in april. I say i jus wanna go out n have a good time. Ima drop u off at the club ill b back at three.
shyt im chillin where im at and getting wasted. I keep wath on the time though and at 250 am i pull up to the club shes at. I wait. Wait. Call. Wait til 5. I dip home doubly ethered bythe this dumb bytch doing this on my birthday. She comes home at noon. No lie i was depressed for about6-8 months after that. I live for the day when i can divorce her sorry ass and is also why i care less about being a ho now for these women. I cheat and dont care cuz i never really forgave these indiscretions.

alcohol, inebriation, without good structure she will cheat...

few are solid when temptation occurs

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Nuvva Story. Not really a cheating story, but a story on how I took an L. No pun intended.

So one time me and my ace in high school used to have this lil rap group. We used to get all the chiks n cause they used to say we used to look like the dudes from Jagged Edge (brothers).

So senior year, comes around, im juggling my lil nicks n what not so I used to have all the fine freaks coming to check us to get blazed. There was this one super hoe that used to come around all the time and want to get with me but at the time I was chasing these redbones and white chicks and this chick was brownskin. So one day, my ace from the group is like yo, you wouldnt believe what happened to me last night. This nikka tells me that super hoe got high and drunk with him, gave him the p*ssy because she thought he was me. nikka said it was bomb p*ssy and the best head. Now im like cause lil bytches back then wasnt even trying to suck no cock specially up north. So im like word, set something up lets run a train on this bytch right... So his moms goes away and he calls her up and she spends the night over and gives it up again... My man calls my house at like 7am when the bytch is sleeping and is like yo, Pac come through, bring some nicks, we gon smoke, and run a train on this broad. Im like aight... Brushed my teeth and got ready and walked about 2 miles to this nikka crib with the trees n shyt.

I get there and they up n shyt. So she sees me and is like aye whats up, happy n shyt. so im like im gon beat. Now we having trees and wine coolers this nikka moms had in the fridge for breakfast n shyt trying to get this super hoe pro nice so we can smash... So my boy is like yo dip out to the living room, im gone get the bytch naked, smash and once im getting it in imma shout for you to come in. Im like So he starts to beat, and gives ya man pac the signal. I come in the room, dikk in hand ready to beat like "Sup"... This broad looks around, looks at me looks at him and is like you know that was the last condom right with one of these looks So im looking at my boy like he just and continues to beat with looking like while im standing there with all my weed smoked out for free looking like

I just walked out and walked back home smelling like bush weed and B&J... Seen her 5 years later with 3 kids at a parade looking crusty. I pulled one of those I see you but dont see you on that hoe and kept it moving

 

[gldnone913]

bytch in the room sleep rite now

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Ok. This is from my freshman year at morehouse...
I had wanted this girl and simped vociferiously over her. She had a bf but she dug the thuggish demeanor and was talking to me on the side .. (everybody shared girls at morehouse. No such thing as a steady)
So im chillin on the promenade one night with my new york-philly click and shes out there too. She chopping the shyt when this fukk nikka walks by. She tells me that he asked to use her phone, called his phone, and has been calling her ever since.
In full supersimp mode, i run up on ole boy with his two homeys like lose ole girls number... he questions the authority but walks away. Ole girl sees this and got me feeling . She wanna go chill off campus (we aint get visitation at morehouse until halloween) and its all good until this nikka walks back down the promenade. He comes up to me and we fade. All of us get arrested.
Homecoming was that next weekend. That wednesday she told me she was staying with him. Ether. I got cheated out of my spelman beauty

 

[Uncle Trill]

I swear if yall wasnt putting them smileys in, i wouldnt be reading these essays