Ever been oblivious to a chicks advances?

[Arris]

I really do feel bad for you breh, no clowning. Maybe you need a louder ringtone or something


But I quote you because a lot of what you're saying reminds me of a chick I work with. Bad, 4000+ followers, all that.


We cool at work mainly, we've hung out once and I was shytfaced before I saw her, so I was being anti and decided to go home before I made a fool out of myself. Plus, there were dudes trying to get at her left and right so I was like fukk it I'm out .

She hit me the next morning asking was I good. I was like yea, just got too tired and decided to roll. We haven't went out since but we kick it at work.

She buys me coffee, food, cigs, w/e because I cover for her usually... and we chill and smoke/talk on breaks. One time we literally talked for hours in her ride... Time flew by. And we do this a lot tho. She give me these looks sometimes and I'm like Because she's hard as fukk to read. And sometimes if I ignore her she gives me these lil attitudes and I'll ask her if she's good and she'll just say sorry, she's cranky or some shyt.


But since she's a bad chick I don't think much of it. She only hits me up outside of work every once in awhile unless I do it first but she usually responds right away. She tells me about all the stalker dudes and it makes me not want to push up on her even more because I'm not trying to be one of them nikkas.

I can't read her but shyt sounds similar to your situation. I still can't tell though and I think I might be looking too hard in it.

just ask her out the worst she can do is say no and make the relationship awkward from that point on.

but if yall vibin like you say then it shouldn't be a problem moving forward even if she isnt interested

I actually have a similar problem but the situation isn't the same I'll be going back to school in a month and the chick I'm talking too will be too. if I was just tryna smash I'd go for it but she's a legit diamond in the rough there just isn't enough time to build a meaningful relationship

 

[O.T.I.S.]

just ask her out the worst she can do is say no and make the relationship awkward from that point on.

but if yall vibin like you say then it shouldn't be a problem moving forward even if she isnt interested

I actually have a similar problem but the situation isn't the same I'll be going back to school in a month and the chick I'm talking too will be too. if I was just tryna smash I'd go for it but she's a legit diamond in the rough there just isn't enough time to build a meaningful relationship

I'm gonna ask her out this upcoming weekend... Or to lunch tomorrow or something. She should know by now I'm diggin her... I just want the feeling to be mutual.


We've gone out to lunch before too... So it's no big deal I guess. I just didn't want shyt to get awkward because we work together and everything.


It's weird too... Like she was asking me one day if she could go home, and I was like "if you need to, go ahead" but my attitude was idgaf.... But she didn't leave. She was like "well I'll just chill for an hour"... I was like . Eventually I just said let's go smoke and we chilled in her car for the rest of the time. Talking and shyt. She was saying she was staying until her son got out of school... But we was talking and it looked like she was into the convo (forgot what it was about). Then when 4 o'clock hit I'm like "aight, I'm gonna let you roll to get your son" and I swear she made a lil face...


I'll probably hit her up tonight., just for small talk. It's like I'm balancing on this tight-rope where I wanna pursue but I don't want her to feel like I'm like all these other cats thirsting over her.

Then there was this time we were sitting next to each other in a meeting. Actually, I walked in after her and our homegirl and they looking around for a place to sit and I'm like , I'm sitting wherever I want and they followed me. Well she was sitting next to me and her leg touched mines. I noticed it but I didn't move or nothing, she moved her leg real quick and looked at me (I saw out the corner of my eye). Then she put it back...


The more I talk about it, the more I'm like At myself

 

[El Bombi]

I had a couple of miss opportunities especially back in college, I was so focused on graduating because that was my only shot and could not fukk up.

I remember at my old job there was a black and mexican chick and our job catered some food for us and the chick asked me how was my sandwich and I was like it was alright; but the bread was wet. The chick grab my arm and started rubbing it and said you cant say that to a woman, I was huh? She was like you can't say wet because you know a woman p*ssy gets wet when you say that. Man I was on stuck mode.

I have a couple of stories about females at that job. That job had hoes.
But I don't shyt where I work at and a couple of months later she quit and I saw her at the mall pregnant.

Naw breh, you dodge a bullet.

That bytch came on too thirsty which made it seem very suspect.

You're

 

[Teal.]

This thread is back:swaggypblessed:

 

[El Bombi]

Brehs, stop fukking with these hard to get hoes or hard to read hoes. Y'all must be youngin

I used to be just like y'all nikkas.

I don't have the time or patience for these types of hoes at my age (late 20's).

You will find out that it's many bad hoes out there who will verbally tell you she want to fukk.

Stop messing with these hoes that think like a girl. A grown woman doesn't play games and will be up front.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

This story is an accumulation of L's over two years

In college junior and senior year this light skin broad that was a certified 9/10, I chatted up since we stayed on the same floor and got her number one day. We used to eat at the school cafe a lot and go to little events on campus and what not. She never really gave off that vibe that she was really into me like that, but then again I never pushed. Anyways I started dating this girl the beginning of the spring semester junior year and me and light skin fell off. Fast forward to the fall my senior year, ol girl broke my heart and me and lightskin live in the same building again. Like I said she would call out my name if she saw me, sit next to me in class, introduce me to her friends, but she never gave me that full proof "I want you sign". Now let me add this girl is what you coli boys would call an Instagram model, 5K followers while only following 100 and something, so she probably never overextends herself to getting a dude. Me I'm the type of dude if I don't see obvious signs I'm probably not going to bite. But moving along throughout the semester we start hanging out more, later at night for food runs , I never pay so she wasn't trickin off me, but she never really gave me an opportunity to close, she would tell me goodnight abruptly no hug and I was confused. Note this girl was kinda reformed ratchet so rough around the edges and that may have been a reason. My roommate and homeboy said they saw the connection between us but I was like a lot of my reluctance because I was still lowkey pining for my ex though. The part where I fukked up is when she would text me late at night around 12 or 1 in the morning saying "hey you up" and my ass would be sound asleep. This happened like 4 times before she stopped and we fell off again. In May she invited me to her birthday party and I went after not speaking to her for months. Wanted to take pictures and shyt while I'm kinda outcast reluctant. At 12 that same night she tells me it was good to see me, how much she misses me, and breaks down asking why I never pushed harder for her, once again I'm knocked out. I don't reply until 7 in the morning and my reply was "sorry I was asleep" Haven't heard from her since She finally gave up on my ass She was bad too brehs no boost

Breh, I actually felt the hurt reading this

 

[The Burger King]

At 12 that same night she tells me it was good to see me, how much she misses me, and breaks down asking why I never pushed harder for her, once again I'm knocked out. I don't reply until 7 in the morning and my reply was "sorry I was asleep" Haven't heard from her since She finally gave up on my ass She was bad too brehs no boost

This story actually got my eyes teary and shyt.

 

[TRFG]

I'm gonna ask her out this upcoming weekend... Or to lunch tomorrow or something. She should know by now I'm diggin her... I just want the feeling to be mutual.


We've gone out to lunch before too... So it's no big deal I guess. I just didn't want shyt to get awkward because we work together and everything.


It's weird too... Like she was asking me one day if she could go home, and I was like "if you need to, go ahead" but my attitude was idgaf.... But she didn't leave. She was like "well I'll just chill for an hour"... I was like . Eventually I just said let's go smoke and we chilled in her car for the rest of the time. Talking and shyt. She was saying she was staying until her son got out of school... But we was talking and it looked like she was into the convo (forgot what it was about). Then when 4 o'clock hit I'm like "aight, I'm gonna let you roll to get your son" and I swear she made a lil face...


I'll probably hit her up tonight., just for small talk. It's like I'm balancing on this tight-rope where I wanna pursue but I don't want her to feel like I'm like all these other cats thirsting over her.

Then there was this time we were sitting next to each other in a meeting. Actually, I walked in after her and our homegirl and they looking around for a place to sit and I'm like , I'm sitting wherever I want and they followed me. Well she was sitting next to me and her leg touched mines. I noticed it but I didn't move or nothing, she moved her leg real quick and looked at me (I saw out the corner of my eye). Then she put it back...


The more I talk about it, the more I'm like At myself

Nikka, you're her supervisor ?

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

I got one....

Their was this one chick who I was really feeling that I used to work with. Anyways at the time we were still working together. So one night, I had a closing shift & shorty was at home sick. I had asked her if she needed anything & she asked me to bring her some soup from the cafe near our job. Cool , no problem, shorty didn't live too far from me & she was a close friend. Anyways I go to shorty's house. She opens the door, and she looked prettier than usual. At the time, I couldn't figure out if she was wearing makeup or not . I give her the soup & she asks me if I'm coming in. I told her no , that I was tired & dipped. (At the time I was working 2 jobs at the time, and that day I worked both jobs.) On the way home, shorty texts me telling me, "next time you stay" . I replied "yeah, next time". It didn't dawn on me to the next day when I was going through my texts of the opportunity that I had let slip away


Oh well, you learn from your mistakes

 

[bl2k8]

I got one....

Their was this one chick who I was really feeling that I used to work with. Anyways at the time we were still working together. So one night, I had a closing shift & shorty was at home sick. I had asked her if she needed anything & she asked me to bring her some soup from the cafe near our job. Cool , no problem, shorty didn't live too far from me & she was a close friend. Anyways I go to shorty's house. She opens the door, and she looked prettier than usual. At the time, I couldn't figure out if she was wearing makeup or not . I give her the soup & she asks me if I'm coming in. I told her no , that I was tired & dipped. (At the time I was working 2 jobs at the time, and that day I worked both jobs.) On the way home, shorty texts me telling me, "next time you stay" . I replied "yeah, next time". It didn't dawn on me to the next day when I was going through my texts of the opportunity that I had let slip away


Oh well, you learn from your mistakes

Brehhhhhh, I woulda turned around once I got that text

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Nikka, you're her supervisor ?

Nah, more like team lead

 

[Formerly known as...]

Nothing worse than someone fine saying 'I was feeling you a few years back but didn't think you were interested at all so backed off'

 

[904Lurker]

some of these stories should end with NO HOMO.

 

[Wise]

fukk it @Pete Wrigley
Last year it was frosh week ...my last year of University as a Senior

The previous year I spent doing a coop internship but before that as a Junior during the last weeks of school I started hollering at girls in libraries/publicly on campus to build my game. So I used to serve food on campus and see a gang of sweet freshman ladies. One day after a party where I was caught macking a fat chick at a keggar I was in the library with a homie and knew I had to redeem myself from that drunken slip up. I see a sweeeeeet petite sri lankan chick that I always used to see during work. I told my homie, "breh Im gonna go take a shyt, come out and bag that chick sitting there." He laughed and spectated. I went up after, introduced myself and mentioned that I see her around the campus food court but never had a chance to say anything and she shouldnt be a stranger if she sees me around.

yadadyada like i said it was the last couple weeks of junior year so i didnt really see her again but after my internship I moved into a new crib and saw this girl walking down my street when I was walking to go meet a friend. We chopped it up as her friends spectated (she was surprised I remembered her name and waws bold enough to call her out). I got the number and tried to kick it but too soon.

Anyways we made plans to chill at my crib one day and we just chileld, talked and watched breaking bad. After I walked her home and met those same friends/roommates. She also invited me to her friends birthday party...girl bought my ticket and everything. She even got one of her dudes to lend me shoes cause i hadnt brought all my clothing from home and needed black shoes to get in.

So we get to the club after the pre drink and I was mackin on some other chick on some playa shyt . Just for fun but the Sri lankan caught feelings and I played it off. I was hers for the night and I apologized. We danced, kissed basically were together the whole night. After we went back to her crib and we were all just chillin with her roommates and shyt. At like 4 am i decide to go home and she says she escort me out of course. SMH. Im at the door putting on my shoes and she asks either if I want or need her to walk me home. I LIKE A FOOL, SAY, "nah I'm okay" thinking she thought I was too drunk or some shyt and needed her help. Liiterally 3 mins after leaving the crib I stop dead to rights... "I coulda brought her to the crib and smashed "

I say fukk it though, we had such a good night i'm sure there will be another opportunity! So the next day I'm helping out basically my only homegirl move into her new apartment cause she was pregnant. My phone was left in her car off all day and the same girl messaged me asking to chill!!!! But i didnt see the msg until it was too late. After that she was barely giving me play whenever i'd try to text. I even took her out for ice cream months later but it just wasnt there like that any more.


I will never get over this one. I still have thoughts of trying to get back at her and I might say fukk it and do so

Sri Lankan? Never found Sri Lankan girls to be pretty, not my cup of tea.

I'm a guess this was at UTSC?

 

[Wise]

I'm gonna ask her out this upcoming weekend... Or to lunch tomorrow or something. She should know by now I'm diggin her... I just want the feeling to be mutual.


We've gone out to lunch before too... So it's no big deal I guess. I just didn't want shyt to get awkward because we work together and everything.


It's weird too... Like she was asking me one day if she could go home, and I was like "if you need to, go ahead" but my attitude was idgaf.... But she didn't leave. She was like "well I'll just chill for an hour"... I was like . Eventually I just said let's go smoke and we chilled in her car for the rest of the time. Talking and shyt. She was saying she was staying until her son got out of school... But we was talking and it looked like she was into the convo (forgot what it was about). Then when 4 o'clock hit I'm like "aight, I'm gonna let you roll to get your son" and I swear she made a lil face...


I'll probably hit her up tonight., just for small talk. It's like I'm balancing on this tight-rope where I wanna pursue but I don't want her to feel like I'm like all these other cats thirsting over her.

Then there was this time we were sitting next to each other in a meeting. Actually, I walked in after her and our homegirl and they looking around for a place to sit and I'm like , I'm sitting wherever I want and they followed me. Well she was sitting next to me and her leg touched mines. I noticed it but I didn't move or nothing, she moved her leg real quick and looked at me (I saw out the corner of my eye). Then she put it back...


The more I talk about it, the more I'm like At myself