I've been lurking for a couple weeks, but I registered just to post in this thread.
I was pretty bad at this, and was pretty bad up until 19-20 in my second and thrid years at college. I've got a couple of examples.
My freshman year at a pretty large school; all the women were fukking or atleast throwing at someone in some shape or fashion, didn't matter if you were an athlete, black, white, red, brown, short, ugly, fat, whatever...everyone except me.
The end of my freshman year, I had a spanish class with this indian chick, who was on my top the whole semester, following me to my next class, tryna kick with me and study the usual shyt you do when you try to set it off with someone in college.
Anyway, her face was "eh...", and she was a little nerdy looking, but she wasn't ugly...she was smashable. My problem back in the day was, I would "fall in love" in my mind..., with one chick and I couldn't see the fukking forest from the trees when it came to anyone else. So the whole semester, I'm simping off this other chick when the indian broad is basically trying to do everything in her power to get me to spend some time with me.
So end of the semester comes and we have finals. The female that I am feeling is on some back and forth shyt with me, for multiple reasons.
I wasn't the strongest in espanol, and the indian broad knew it. So she asks if I want to study to make sure I get everything down packed. I said "sure". So I goto my next class and the chick I'm fiending for asks me at the end of class, do I want to study...I'm like "Bet!" Forget the other chick...
About 4-5pm rolls around and the indian girl comes up to my dorm, I'm antsy as hell because I didn't want to renig but the other girl wanted to study at the same time.
I guess in hindsight, the indian girl was like "finally, I'm in...I'm gonna get this nikka!" She came to my dorm with her long ass black indian hair let down, no glasses on, these short ass atheletic shorts showing off thighs and ass that I never knew existed, and a t-shirt cut around the titties showing off some of the best looking grapefruits to this day I have ever scene. She didn't even bring her books.
I had this project ass dorm, that had no room in it but the beds and the desk and the chairs. So we sat on my bed, and started studying from my books and notes, and the whole time, shes tryna make her cleavich even more visible to me by leaning in and pointing and grabbing at notes and things in my general direction. 10 minutes, the other shorty texts me and says hey I'll be ready in a few. So abruptly, and rather dikkheadedly, I cut our study session short. Told the indian girl I was tired and couldn't focus and I would hit her up at 8, and we would try again after I took a nap.
Outwardly, she said "ok, cool! See you then." Inwardly, she probably called me kinds of "dumb nikka", and "you passed this up"!
The worse part of the story, old girl flaked on me again, and I ended up missing out on both. In the following semesters the few times she saw she said "Hi." and kept it moving.
The moral of the story here is, when your young...don't pass up on "ANY", guaranteed p*ssy from a chick that's fukkable.