ever go through a breakup and end up talking to the ex again down the line?

[re'up]

Depending on how and why you separated, it's a reasonable and even healthy thing to connect again, even if not for another try at that exact relationship. ideally, everyone could do this. I think so many relationships get so sick and toxic, there is nothing left but negativity after it's over.

Anyone I ever loved or like or cared about, is welcome in my life, for an hour or a phone call, or a text, or whatever. But, that takes a certain mindset, a lot of work on yourself. I think a lot about where that idea comes from that once something doesn't work out exactly or for 60 years, you throw it all away. In what other area do we practice that and think it's reasonable?

There's a thing called unconditional positive regard I try to practice.

 

[rabbid]

Anyone I ever loved or like or cared about, is welcome in my life, for an hour or a phone call, or a text, or whatever. But, that takes a certain mindset, a lot of work on yourself. I think a lot about where that idea comes from that once something doesn't work out exactly or for 60 years, you throw it all away. In what other area do we practice that and think it's reasonable?

There's a thing called unconditional positive regard I try to practice.

I mean its hard when you watch them devalue and discard you like some old bag of mcdonalds they had hanging around. I dont mind catching up with people that leave amicably. But when girls act like you were nothing special or even put dirt on your name and then try to come back and deny they ever did it... that's when its too much.

I ain't Jesus... he knew they were talking shyt but loved them anyway... and thats how he ended up carrying the cross. He went thru it so i don't have to lol. My ex texting me a few days ago talking bout she's "glad to have found me" on some low key suicidal shyt. Alright well tell your followers on twitter so they can get the full story as well

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

The only time I'm "talking to" an ex is because she hit me up and I know she gonna let me fukk that night.

Once it's over it's over

 

[Kasper KArr]

I hit all my ex's sporadically
But only when I was single myself
No cheating

Lying ass nikka. Old head you don’t get no p*ssy stop fronting

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Nah

I don’t do many relationships and once I do I’m all in…

So once you hurt me, I’m all out. I might get curious sometimes but will check myself.

Over for a reason, no being friends or none of that.

I have had females I was cool with fallout and try to bounce back. I’m still similar but I might be semi-cool again if the sincerely apologize.

For example, I mentioned in a thread about an old friend that “cut me off” because my ex saw that we were texting via Facebook and my ex got jealous (sneaking through my phone and replying to her). Old girl “cut me off” and deleted me and I kept it moving.

She just sent me a friend request earlier this week. I marinated on it for about 3/4 days mainly because I was sick and not thinking of any females period but I added her just to see if she’s going to start a conversation or apologize. Still not going to say shyt and probably deleting social media altogether soon so

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I mean its hard when you watch them devalue and discard you like some old bag of mcdonalds they had hanging around. I dont mind catching up with people that leave amicably. But when girls act like you were nothing special or even put dirt on your name and then try to come back and deny they ever did it... that's when its too much.

This

And 90% of the time it was for another guy

So when they spin the block after putting your emotions in the dirt it’s hard to go from to unless they bend over backwards to make it right. And in that case they only wanna make it right because the grass wilted in the yard they hopped to

Edit: with that being said if my most recent ex came back I’d entertain it cause I still care year a half later

 

[Redwood]

I last talked with her about a month or two ago, any step further would lead to us hooking up again. I'm not really ready to go back into that right now.