Drop the gems
But I low key do this too. One time a bi chick gave me sex advice on how to please women better
Hard to describe Bro cause it really depends on the woman. But one thing I learnt there's a playfulness, friendliness and machoness attitude. When you approaching you can get away with so much more when you go with this predisposition. I pull stuff my friends wonder how but it's because in certain modes you can get away stuff. So really the energy that you put out is step one or the platform from which you operate from.
The rest of the stuff really is about signals. Watch people communicating from far. Most of it is signals. Non spoken stuff. Some people signal without realising. But I like how women signal and it's funny to me when other guys in the midst don't see the type of mutual eye contact, surrounded by casualness. Some touching etc. Playful dancing but really it's more playing for keeps.
its just subtleties. How bodies are position relative to each other. If they're facing. There's likely interest. If some one backs off you could tell interest may be less or there's intimidation. It's a lot. But the thing with watching women work is they could he talking about anything but underneath it all is the signals and interpretations. What you not sure about you do something to get a response signal to clarify.
Instead of asking do you like me. It's easier to touch someone's hand or eye contact or whatever and see response back.
so as much as people talk about getting their mouth piece better. It can help. I think getting overall communication and sub communication down while learning to interpretate your counters actions and words. Then learning what the proper response should be.
I like watching women cause they read the signals as well as I do. I love watching their responses too.
I'm a people watcher. Hitting on women is really about this dance. I do it sometimes cause I find the dance interesting