ever had a crush on someone who works at a store you frequent?

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You should've kidnapped her

"REMEMBER ME bytch!!! REMEMBER I ASKED IF WE COULD HANG OUT!!! REMEMBER WHAT YOU SAID!!!!....SAY IT AGAIN! SAY IT!!!....SAY IT!!!!!!!!"


I was afraid I was gonna get the Rorschach
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He works with my cousin and I've caught him checking me out but I'm too shy to flirt :( I'm legit try a get a job there too so I can have an excuse to creep. No shame.

:what: You don't need to change your job/alter your career path just to get in with some guy. Just ask him somewhere, or if you're too shy, ask your cousin to do it for you.

:heh: I can only imagine if a guy was saying some of the shyt you're writing today. :dead:
 

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:what: You don't need to change your job/alter your career path just to get in with some guy. Just ask him somewhere, or if you're too shy, ask your cousin to do it for you.

:heh: I can only imagine if a guy was saying some of the shyt you're writing today. :dead:


I've actually been a low key creeper on a lot of dudes I've liked until they had to start a conversation/ask me out. I'm good at this. Plus I need a decent summer job.
 

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I've actually been a low key creeper on a lot of dudes I've liked until they had to start a conversation/ask me out. I'm good at this. Plus I need a decent summer job.

:yeshrug: You should be more proactive. It'll carry you really far as a woman. People are willing to work with women that take initiative. This isn't just limited to your romantic life, either.
 

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Yep and I got them digits today...

She's the head manager of the store, and the owner told me she is on the rebound off a bad breakup. So am I.

Today when I stopped by she was eye fukking me on some :feedme:

So I was like :smugdraper:

I slowly walked towards the edge of the store away from her coworkers so that she wouldn't be on the spot, while maintaining eye contact and keeping her smiling and laughing with some small talk. When we got far enough away that we were alone, I just said "I want to take you out for a drink sometime."

She smiled and said yes. Then I handed her my phone, she put in the digits, and I told her I'd be seeing her soon.

Feels good friends. :smugbiden:
 

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I was afraid I was gonna get the Rorschach
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I've had that.

It's crazy how that ridiculous crush on a store clerk shyt goes, fantasize about the ho, come to the store just to see her, never build the nerve to spit

Ya see em 10 years later lol... This happened to me few weeks ago

10 plus years later she's at the same store except she's the manager now, fatter talkin bout "oh heeyyy I'm married now done had 3 kids blah blah"

I was like :whew:that was almost me being stuck wit yo fat ass and them three little b*stards


Thank God for the fear of rejection:blessed:
 

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Yep and I got them digits today...

She's the head manager of the store, and the owner told me she is on the rebound off a bad breakup. So am I.

Today when I stopped by she was eye fukking me on some :feedme:

So I was like :smugdraper:

I slowly walked towards the edge of the store away from her coworkers so that she wouldn't be on the spot, while maintaining eye contact and keeping her smiling and laughing with some small talk. When we got far enough away that we were alone, I just said "I want to take you out for a drink sometime."

She smiled and said yes. Then I handed her my phone, she put in the digits, and I told her I'd be seeing her soon.

Feels good friends. :smugbiden:
I'm proud of ya boy:obama:you did good
 

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I've had that.

It's crazy how that ridiculous crush on a store clerk shyt goes, fantasize about the ho, come to the store just to see her, never build the nerve to spit

Ya see em 10 years later lol... This happened to me few weeks ago

10 plus years later she's at the same store except she's the manager now, fatter talkin bout "oh heeyyy I'm married now done had 3 kids blah blah"

I was like :whew:that was almost me being stuck wit yo fat ass and them three little b*stards


Thank God for the fear of rejection:blessed:


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:patrice: then again you could be the reason her and those kids failed to make it
 

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I'm proud of ya boy:obama:you did good

Thanks man. I saw you write something about fear of rejection. Honestly, you could use something like Tinder, if you want to of course.

Having an environment to work on your talk game while not having the pressure to respond immediately can be a huge plus. Also, if you're able to talk to anyone, they already thought you were attractive enough to check/swipe that you were, so chances are they want you to talk to them.

I feel pretty good with women, but fear of rejection is 100% the hardest thing to overcome. I swear it's scary as fukk, but some people say just force yourself to talk to 5-10 women a day, and that will help you get over the fear. I wouldn't even go that far. Just 1 a day. Just talk to 1 woman every day, with the intention of trying to close a number (even if you never use it, it'll boost your confidence), or even a date if you really think she seems cool.

Within a few weeks you'll get a decent amount of no's and yes's. It helps you see how many fish are in the sea, and makes you realize that getting told no isn't personal.

I was scared as shyt walking to the store, but I knew that if I felt confident and kept walking, that I wouldn't regret it, even if she said no.

Advice you didn't ask for. Hope I didn't come across as preachy. Wasn't my intention friend.
 

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Thanks man. I saw you write something about fear of rejection. Honestly, you could use something like Tinder, if you want to of course.

Having an environment to work on your talk game while not having the pressure to respond immediately can be a huge plus. Also, if you're able to talk to anyone, they already thought you were attractive enough to check/swipe that you were, so chances are they want you to talk to them.

I feel pretty good with women, but fear of rejection is 100% the hardest thing to overcome. I swear it's scary as fukk, but some people say just force yourself to talk to 5-10 women a day, and that will help you get over the fear. I wouldn't even go that far. Just 1 a day. Just talk to 1 woman every day, with the intention of trying to close a number (even if you never use it, it'll boost your confidence), or even a date if you really think she seems cool.

Within a few weeks you'll get a decent amount of no's and yes's. It helps you see how many fish are in the sea, and makes you realize that getting told no isn't personal.

I was scared as shyt walking to the store, but I knew that if I felt confident and kept walking, that I wouldn't regret it, even if she said no.

Advice you didn't ask for. Hope I didn't come across as preachy. Wasn't my intention friend.

Dude:childplease: jus who da hell you think you preaching to

Me? Difficulties talkin to women?:usure:

Lemme tell you something playa...that's my curse. I'm attractive too. The gift and the curse.

I'm such a smooth talkin, always one step ahead, womanizing skirt chaser if a ho turns me down I walk away saying "smart girl...Ill make ya hate sunlight and allergic to church"

Do I fear rejection sometimes, yea but its a pride/ conscience/ ego thing. If not for that I'd approach and spit at EVERY SINGLE cute chik I see in a day. Even if 70% said "come over tonight" and only 30% of em rejected me my ridiculously large ego and pride would be crushed by the 30% of hos sayin "HAIL NAW you cain hav my numba nikka!" Because I'm crazy and self centered like that lol

Ya gotta have boundaries.
 
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