ever had that non-attractive woman pursue you...

[BXKingPin82]

back in the day my homeboys sister used to go MEGA HARD!!
i remember i wild on her one time
that verbal work was so vicious i had to apologize

 

[CEITEDMOFO]

once

 

[old_timer]

Man, what the hell is wrong with u?

ALL SEX AIN'T GOOD SEX.

So you just out here randomly having sex with chicks that you ain't even attracted to, just because?

Don't you realize the dangers of what you is doing?

what if she gets pregnant, breh?

What if you catch something, breh?

you're having sex with women that you don't necessarily want to have sex with... but they want you and so you gget the attitude and decide to give it to them...

You are degrading yourself.

You can't even really call yourself a man because a man doesn't do things just because a woman wants him to... A man has to have reasons, and you, breh, don't have a reason.

All you have is a boatload of -driven L's in your life.

I've turned down women that I was ATTRACTED to, that wanted to have sex with me, because of the drama and madness that I could foresee it bringing, because I knew what type of person she was.

But you're out here sexing every woman that tells you she wants it.

I pity what must be a drama-filled, havoc-inducing life that you lead.

Not trying to offend you, breh, but just calling it like I see it.


@Emperor_ReinScarf

with all due respect- that's a serious over-read of what i actually typed
i used qualifiers- mentioned conditions- etc.
as far as drama, i admit my 17-22 bracket was filled with some situations
but as i cleaned up my own act, the drama reduced greatly

i admit i am/was much less discerning than many posters around here
the dangers to being "more active" are well publicized
but people overlook the hidden dangers to being less active

women are multi-faceted and have various strengths and attributes
many of these are "under the skin" but you can find them with a ten minute conversation
if they have something to offer that you need in your life, then why not??

steady female companionship has greatly improved the quality of my life

 

[muse]

Now times that by 10 different women everyday

#youoksis

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Now times that by 10 different women everyday

#youokbro

corrected.

 

[MoeDollaZ$]

yea a few times

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

with all due respect- that's a serious over-read of what i actually typed
i used qualifiers- mentioned conditions- etc.
as far as drama, i admit my 17-22 bracket was filled with some situations
but as i cleaned up my own act, the drama reduced greatly

i admit i am/was much less discerning than many posters around here
the dangers to being "more active" are well publicized
but people overlook the hidden dangers to being less active

women are multi-faceted and have various strengths and attributes
many of these are "under the skin" but you can find them with a ten minute conversation
if they have something to offer that you need in your life, then why not??

steady female companionship has greatly improved the quality of my life

I appreciate the response, breh, but what I'm saying is:

It's about quality not quantity.

If a woman I'm dealing with isn't quality, I'd rather be by myself than to be dealing with a woman just because of what she has between her legs.

I mean, I'm not a fakkit... far from it... I like women just as much as you do, maybe more.... but at the end of the day, I recognize that having a woman just to have a woman ain't where it's at.

That produces all kinds of headaches and problems like the ones you said you experienced back in the day.... to you for being able to bring more balance to your life nowadays.

But even with the conditions that you mentioned in your first post:

There's this chick right now that's really feeling me... she's cute... a very attractive sista...

and she wants me... but she and I just aren't the same speed mentally... plus she's showed me the characteristics of a stalker...

popping up at my job unannounced, trying to spring up on me at nighttime without any warning... plus, her conversation is not where it's at... at ALL.

Now I could do like you said, tell her to play her position and she can get it... and she could possibly be a sidechick...

but this stuff is chess, not checkers.

I can look down the line and see where a woman with these types of attributes that I just laid out (and that's just SOME of the issues I've seen) can be a problem in the future.

Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow... maybe not next week.

it might be good with her for a year... but eventually something would happen and I can see her flipping out emotionally or doing something stupid or getting mad at me and trying to mess my life up in the future.

In fact, I can see her trying to trap me with a baby.

These are problems that I dont' want, or need, and so I'd rather cut it off at the beginning and not even deal with her.

And sex just isn't worth those problems.