I just want clothes that look good on me. But yea wearing your wealth is usually a symptom of not having it, not being comfortable with it or coming into it from nothing too fast. I try not to judge
Ever since I got filthy rich clothes don't matter so much, I'm out here dressing like Larry David
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philmonroe
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This is a sounds good statement if I've ever heard one.
Well everyone has the right to an opinion. We already know how defensive you get whenever someone has anything less than positive to say about materialism or stunting. We can just skip the back and forth you crave for validation and just agree to disagree.
philmonroe
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Everyone has a right to an opinion but that doesn't make it free from criticism. Also I'm trying to be better fam so spare me the judgmental we bull crap. Just speak for yourself. You also are a liar on this issue. I don't get defensive I just disagree with y'all people that think you have to dress like a bum to prove money means nothing to you. If it was like that give your paychecks away after you pay for essentials. Lastly don't do that weak stuff about craving for validation when you yourself are posting right here too. If you aren't posting for "the crave of validation" yourself how can you accuse me of doing so? You don't have to go back and forth with me but please don't lie to make yourself feel higher than someone on a messageboard my dude because when I agree with your points I don't see none of this stuff you kicking now.
If you're trying to be better, you are acknowledging that I'm right. And when I say we, I mean you and I. We have done this before, and it's getting boring.
You don't get defensive, you just take a general opinion personally and speak to how you doing what I don't find productive is actually OK. That's being defensive bro. Hit dogs holler. And I never said anything about dressing like a bum or having to do anything. Just like I said, everyone has a right to an opinion.... if you want to waste your money and emotional energy to present some kind of image, that's your right. But don't call me a liar or hypocrite because I'm not with or about that
This doesn't even make any sense. 1, people can enjoy nice things.... because they enjoy nice things. I like living in a big fancy house in a nice neighborhood. I like having toys. I like being able to take nice vacations. I don't do any of this shyt to impress anybody, I'm living my life for me and my family. Hell, most people in my social circle make waaaaaaaayyyyyyy more money than I do. It's not a competition. We are all just happy to be where we are individually.
Speaking of which, I'm aggressive AF about saving for retirement and building a foundation for the fam. So no, I don't have to do a god damn thing, especially not give away the money I bust my ass for.
Posting has nothing to do with seeking validation. Seeking validation is seeking validation. I post for entertainment and good conversation. I will let you figure out which of the two our exchanges qualify as
You are WAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY too invested in how other people see you bro. It's making you miserable. You know it and even said it yourself Stop living your life for other people. You only get one chance
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philmonroe
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Honestly fam I just disagree with you and said so and if that makes me all these things in your eyes ok. I know whats real with me offline so you can make up whatever imaginary scenarios about me to make yourself feel better. Have at it good sir.If you're trying to be better, you are acknowledging that I'm right. And when I say we, I mean you and I. We have done this before, and it's getting boring.
You don't get defensive, you just take a general opinion personally and speak to how you doing what I don't find productive is actually OK. That's being defensive bro. Hit dogs holler. And I never said anything about dressing like a bum or having to do anything. Just like I said, everyone has a right to an opinion.... if you want to waste your money and emotional energy to present some kind of image, that's your right. But don't call me a liar or hypocrite because I'm not with or about that
This doesn't even make any sense. 1, people can enjoy nice things.... because they enjoy nice things. I like living in a big fancy house in a nice neighborhood. I like having toys. I like being able to take nice vacations. I don't do any of this shyt to impress anybody, I'm living my life for me and my family. Hell, most people in my social circle make waaaaaaaayyyyyyy more money than I do. It's not a competition. We are all just happy to be where we are individually.
Speaking of which, I'm aggressive AF about saving for retirement and building a foundation for the fam. So no, I don't have to do a god damn thing, especially not give away the money I bust my ass for.
Posting has nothing to do with seeking validation. Seeking validation is seeking validation. I post for entertainment and good conversation. I will let you figure out which of the two our exchanges qualify as
You are WAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY too invested in how other people see you bro. It's making you miserable. You know it and even said it yourself Stop living your life for other people. You only get one chance
Now you are starting to get it
philmonroe
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Always have its just when I disagree with some on here y'all like exaggerating. It is what it is though.Now you are starting to get it
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Nikkas dressin bummy because they dont have any swag....fukk outta here
philmonroe
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This. Every time online cats always with this I don't dress like cause I'm .... FOH you just can't dress. You can buy relatively cheap clothes and still look nice. Online cats always have to go extra with the shyt. If you dress nice you either trying to fake having money and or your broke but if you wear bum shyt you rich and or about to be rich. Then its always some cat that isn't in their financial stratosphere they like to compare themselves to smdh. You can dress without spending all your money.
I agree with this. I mean, I do buy hella designer sneaks. But, if you arent picking seeing the world over gear, then that person is totally stupid in the grand scheme of things.
philmonroe
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What if the person don't want to "see the world" though? That's yalls visions of what's good not necessarily the next persons. I also don't get why people stay with the either or like it's not possible to do both. Not you but seems like some low key hoping people can't do both so they can find a way to look down on you. It's sad to me.
