Every breh I've met who complains about the dating field, has no rizz, don't project confidence, one tone of voice ass nikka, soft spoken

[KidJSoul]

This is true, but you don't have to have the charisma of Barack Obama to pull.

Unfortunately, a lot of people (men and women) can be unintentionally off-putting without realizing it. But obviously it will hurt men more.

One example - talking too much while trying to impress. An understandable mistake, but many men have talked themselves out of p*ssy without even realizing it.

Stuff like that is relatively easy to improve upon but goes a long way in life.

One of the best posts relating to dating ive seen. You hit every point

 

[Lord_nikon]

No Rizz ???/

 

[VegetasHairline]

I meant it too

 

[The Wolf Among You]

Well we are visual


Let's not act like a man with an attractive woman by his side isn't held in high regard by society.


+ In the BC it's upside down. In other communities the women for the most part date up and if they get dogged out it's by successful/established/career men. If it was primarily like this in the BC I don't think brehs would complain as there is a more logical reason as to why the women messed with the man in the first place compared to say a bum or aint shyt breh.

Men can be “visual” without exonerating attractive women of their bad behavior.
You see a pretty woman that stay getting dogged out…why would you as an upstanding man just assume that she has no part in that situation? Why would you go for a woman that can’t discern between good and bad people?
Dudes be complaining about not having access to women that would ruin their lives.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Did men need all those qualities in the 40s,50’s,60’s to get women?

Probably worst back then for socially awkward men.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Probably worst back then for socially awkward men.

Were men socially awkward back then? I dont recall dudes ever complaining about dating until around the 70s-80s when women got their freedom

 

[Jazzy B.]

Men can be “visual” without exonerating attractive women of their bad behavior.
You see a pretty woman that stay getting dogged out…why would you as an upstanding man just assume that she has no part in that situation? Why would you go for a woman that can’t discern between good and bad people?

Again, because men are visual and as i just told you, a man with an attractive woman is PRAISED in society, ESPECIALLY in the BC


And the majority of women in the BC at one point have messed with a man they consider an aint shyt breh.

 

[Scaaar]

come on bro there's a wide spectrum between Karruche and Luenell

dudes just want a bytch that isn't fat and maybe got something to grab on like a lil ass or tittie or cute face. plain janes aren't hurting for attention

If my only option were Monique, I'd fall back and do what needs to be done to pull something better. All these hoes wanna fukk raw and you can't risk having a Monique lookin baby mama

But that's his point as well too. Those plain Jane types are all around these brehs whining and usually are choosing up on them. But these brehs ignore it or don't want it because they chase after the IG chics or the baddie aesthetic ones that they feel entitled to or will give them validation. But these also are the same ones they whine about because these chic have high requirements when the chic that's for them has been sitting by them the whole time.

 

[The ADD]

Were men socially awkward back then? I dont recall dudes ever complaining about dating until around the 70s-80s when women got their freedom

Damn you must be real old

 

[Scaaar]

Naw You've got attractive and/or established women messing with bums and aint shyt brehs off LOOKS


This is really the reason why men are angered/complain.


They are being moral, playing by the rules and then seeing attractive women REPEATEDLY open their legs for so called "bad", "problematic" or "Toxic" men. Then these women ONLY circle back when it's time for a CLEAN UP MAN

How about not choosing to be the clean up man then? If that's who she's choosing to date then why are you chasing after her? It says more about you than her. If you truly are that dude as they say they are they wouldn't be on the Internet whining about who a chic chose up on. They'd have other options that it wouldn't even stir in your mind

 

[Scaaar]

Again, because men are visual and as i just told you, a man with an attractive woman is PRAISED in society, ESPECIALLY in the BC


And the majority of women in the BC at one point have messed with a man they consider an aint shyt breh.

1-2 is a mistake. Multiple after that is a preference. So again if you as a man choose to chase after that knowing her history that's on you. Men are indeed visual but we also have a brain with logic and discernment. If you're too thirsty and controlled by the lower head into making decisions. That says a lot about you as man.

 

[Jazzy B.]

How about not choosing to be the clean up man then? If that's who she's choosing to date then why are you chasing after her? It says more about you than her. If you truly are that dude as they say they are they wouldn't be on the Internet whining about who a chic chose up on. They'd have other options that it wouldn't even stir in your mind

What the hell are you talking about?


I literally said "the women CIRCLE BACK when it's time for a clean up man" yet you're blaming the men?

If you truly are that dude as they say they are they wouldn't be on the Internet whining about who a chic chose up on.

Yet millionaire brehs are on the internet saying the exact same thing

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Were men socially awkward back then? I dont recall dudes ever complaining about dating until around the 70s-80s when women got their freedom

Yes, there were men who were socially awkward in every century and in every country. Only difference is that now they aren't outcasts of society

 

[Jazzy B.]

1-2 is a mistake. Multiple after that is a preference. So again if you as a man choose to chase after that knowing her history that's on you. Men are indeed visual but we also have a brain with logic and discernment. If you're too thirsty and controlled by the lower head into making decisions. That says a lot about you as man.

Again, as I told the other poster, in the BC having an attractive woman is highly praised.


i don't know why y'all are now in here playing dumb.


Anytime there's a discussion whether a breh should leave his woman who isn't treating him right it's led with "you/he can get a badder woman"


No better example than this than - WILL SMITH and Jada.

 

[Scaaar]

What the hell are you talking about?


I literally said "the women CIRCLE BACK when it's time for a clean up man" yet you're blaming the men?





Yet millionaire brehs are on the internet saying the exact same thing

Yeah the women circled back. They didn't club the dude over the head. He willingly chose to get in a relationship with her even knowing her past. So he chose to be the cleanup man so it says a lot about him. You can't blame the woman for putting yourself in that role .


Also these millionaire brehs you mentioned are also lames. They just have bread which gives them an easier lane to encounter those women y'all lust after. But they act the same as some of these whiny coli brehs. That's why they get treated like the sucka they are and drained for all of their bread on top of it too.