Every man needs a relationship

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At least once

If you're ugly
Short
No swag

You too

Go buy one

Just so you can see how it feels
I implore you

If you dont like it you ain't gotta do it ever again

I implore you

The relationship they need is a healthy one with themselves. That's the most important one.

People out here looking for other people to find themselves, trying to fill their voids by focusing on others or hoping someone else will love them more than they love themself. It don't work that way.
 
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Was in a 3 year relationship 2016-2019.

Had some of the best times and not so good times with my ex. I do think everyone should at least be in one at least once in they life :manny:
Yup

I'm basically saying you dont want to be late in the game playing catch up
 
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No, Every man needs a GENUINE relationship.

Paying for a relationship is not a cop out.

You need to feel the genuine warmth and touch of a woman.

The look in her eyes when she puts her life in your hands.

The feeling of strength you get from her dependence on you and the guidance you are supposed to provide to her.



shyt hits different when you have a woman who loves you and cares about you
 

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The relationship they need is a healthy one with themselves. That's the most important one.

People out here looking for other people to find themselves, trying to fill their voids but focusing on others or hoping someone else will love them more than they love themself. It don't work that way.


:whew::salute:
 

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If you haven’t dealt with your demons..
Shortcomings..
Anger/feelings of inadequacy that your mother and father..
May have put you through..
They seep out in the most minuscule ways
Getting into a relationship with a woman(or man:hubie:)
Just for the experience..
Ain’t it..
People really don’t understand the impressions..
We leave on each other in relationships..
Even the nikka with most confidence in the world..
Can be brought to the ground because of..
Betrayal..
Partners issues
Or..
Their parents family issues..
That’s why it’s nothing wrong with just dating/fukking..
By doing that you start..
Learning..
Observing..
Being intuitive..
Understanding what works for you..
Getting into a relationship is a HUGE COMMITMENT..
Most men and women aren’t even equipped to handle..
Everybody wants that grandpa/grandma relationship..
That last for decades..
But none of them want to put the work in..
Or..
Remotely understand that those relationships possibly went through hell behind closed doors..
Everybody just wants the end result..
Get in a relationship when YOU KNOW YOURSELF..
That goes with men and women..
Nothing wrong with situationships..
As long as both partners are honest in their dealings...
Protect themselves sexually and mentally..
I’m telling you..
Once you go off into the relationship abyss..
And you haven’t dealt with your own shyt..
You could bring the other persons demons into your own mind..
Creating years of chaos in your own emotional life..
Date..
Talk to..
fukk..
But don’t just arbitrarily get into a relationship..
 

Commish

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OP..

I never understood people who say that someone has no swag or lacks swag??

First, what is swag? Also, who determines who has it or not?

Tbh, when I hear someone say that, it sounds like that person is saying that someone should act like a street dude meaning all street dudes has some magical charismatic persona about himself that others need to emulate. Not saying that is right, but that is how I interpret it.

Moral of the story:

There is someone for everyone out there! It may take some longer than others to find that person, but everyone can't be the same nor will everyone click with everyone.

Just wanted to point that out to ya..
 

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If you haven’t dealt with your demons..
Shortcomings..
Anger/feelings of inadequacy that your mother and father..
May have put you through..
They seep out in the most minuscule ways
Getting into a relationship with a woman(or man:hubie:)
Just for the experience..
Ain’t it..
People really don’t understand the impressions..
We leave on each other in relationships..
Even the nikka with most confidence in the world..
Can be brought to the ground because of..
Betrayal..
Partners issues
Or..
Their parents family issues..
That’s why it’s nothing wrong with just dating/fukking..
By doing that you start..
Learning..
Observing..
Being intuitive..
Understanding what works for you..
Getting into a relationship is a HUGE COMMITMENT..
Most men and women aren’t even equipped to handle..
Everybody wants that grandpa/grandma relationship..
That last for decades..
But none of them want to put the work in..
Or..
Remotely understand that those relationships possibly went through hell behind closed doors..
Everybody just wants the end result..
Get in a relationship when YOU KNOW YOURSELF..
That goes with men and women..
Nothing wrong with situationships..
As long as both partners are honest in their dealings...
Protect themselves sexually and mentally..
I’m telling you..
Once you go off into the relationship abyss..
And you haven’t dealt with your own shyt..
You could bring the other persons demons into your own mind..
Creating years of chaos in your own emotional life..
Date..
Talk to..
fukk..
But don’t just arbitrarily get into a relationship..
nikka sound like he done been thru some shyt:ehh:
 

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The relationship they need is a healthy one with themselves. That's the most important one.

People out here looking for other people to find themselves, trying to fill their voids by focusing on others or hoping someone else will love them more than they love themself. It don't work that way.
:win:
 

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Get in a relationship when YOU KNOW YOURSELF..

It's a dice roll either way. Different people learn in different ways. Some people have to be in messed up situations in order to get the catalyst they need to grow. It's pretty much the same as thinking you'll only have children when you're ready. There's no such thing.

If you're gonna learn to swim you're gonna have to get in the pool. No avoiding it.
 
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